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Be more attractive.
Oh, I could get attractive girls, my problem is I hate talking to them because I always feel like a dumbass doing it.
Because you're being a dumbass? Trying to get laid in high school is stupid. Meaningless sex is stupid. You're just hurt about that other girl. Well how many people go to your high school? At mine there's 2,000. So if out of that many people you found one girl you really like but can't find another, don't sweat it. You're only looking at a tiny number of people. Girls have way more to offer than sex. You just have to find the right one.
Most of the girls I've met in my entire lifetime had absolutely nothing to offer in the way of personality or fun, so, what exactly do they have to offer? Even so, I go to a single-sex school, so I'm way more desperate about it.
I doubt that every girl you've met or even any of them have nothing to offer. You don't really know someone and all they have to offer until you get close to them. If you're just meeting girls and chatting with them on occasion then you don't know them.
What's the rush to have sex? Seriously I know you have urges. We all do. But meaningless sex isn't all its cracked up to be. Don't be that guy please lol. I don't date guys who fool around. A lot of girls won't.
It makes you a whore. Yeah. Guys can be whores.
My friend does that and easily gets girls. Besides, once you've gotten close enough to a girl to know "all she has to offer" you're usually in the friend zone. Besides, based on what you've said, you're not a virgin, and, being a girl, you don't know what that means for a guy.
Maybe in your limited experiences with girls, you get friend zoned once you get close. I'm not saying that in a condescending way. I only just turned 18 and I'm a senior. I have limited experiences too. We're in high school, we haven't experienced real world dating yet. There's may more to learn and see. You're getting "friend zoned" because the girls aren't interested. But not everyone will be interested in you. That's fine. Maybe you won't date until you're in college, that's fine too.
And actually- I AM a virgin :) I didn't even kiss a guy until I was 16/17. And I've only kissed one guy and it was a hook up and I wish I hadn't wasted my first kiss or sexual experience on some guy (not all the way btw.) I think you'd feel that way to after hooking up. You sound like a really awesome dude and smart. I know that guys get teased for being virgins but don't let that shit get to you.
I like a guy who is 18 and never even kissed a girl. Girls love that... only guys care about other guys being virgins
Well, I need to get over this girl, this is the only way I can think of, waiting for "time to heal my wound" was a load of bs, I'm still upset, this is what I think will make me happy.
The irony. I liked (still like) that guy for 2 years. And he "lost feelings" and all that. I found out three months ago and I still feel like complete shit. I thought slutting around would make me feel better but it didn't. It just made be feel worse.
Of course its fun when's its happening but then almost immediately after you still feel empty because you're not getting what you really want.
Then how do I feel better? It's impossible to find another girl, usually they're either already taken, I can't like them no matter how hard I tried, or I can't stand talking to them, and I can't wait til college for some magic fix.
Duuuude I know what you mean. I don't really know how to feel better. I'm starting to, but it really does take time I guess. What grade are you in?
11th
You don't have too long. I'm not trying to sound cliche or be a dick but work hard. Study for the ACT/SAT. And are you in any clubs or sports? Focusing on those is a good way to keep busy. I try to go out and make crazy new memories whenever I can. And when you're having fun its easier to forget her
I'm not in any sports, but I do do stuff.
Start working out if you don't already. I recently started. Its a good way to build confidence.
I know I haven't changed your mind any, so if you do decide to go out and have sex with randoms. Be safe.
I tried working out, it was just too hard, I couldn't get abs fast enough, so I gave up.
Here's some serious advice, girl to guy.
If you really want to get laid, attraction is important. And honestly I don't care about abs as long as the guy has a flat stomach, but arms are waaaay more important. Biceps are incredibly sexy. Js.
You should stick with it, you'll thank yourself later. And I'm becoming a bit of a health nut as are a lot of people (its a craze now) and most of us want to be with someone who lives a healthy lifestyle.
Well, I'm not fat, I'm pretty fit, good at climbing, but I have a more or less average build for my age (healthy average, not American average
My big problem is, I go to a single-sex school, so this is way harder.
Everyone looks better when they work out.
And feels better. Well yeah I can imagine going to an all boys school sucks. How do you meet girls? The ones you already know?
Going places, hangin out after school, extracurricular activities, I only spoke to most of them in a heat of the moment type sense, I already decided to meet them, most girls I've met have boyfriends too.
Welp. Go forth and spread your seed if you must.
I just don't know what to do anymore, half the time I feel like dying over that other girl, then when I saw how much girls utterly hate guys like me, guys who try to be kind, guys that get friendzoned, I changed my perspective, this was all I could think of to be happy again, and I CANNOT get friendzoned again.
I understand how you feel. My heart is broken. It fucking sucks so bad. Girls don't hate guys like you, btw. Just because you haven't been appreciated yet doesn't mean girls hate you
Maybe, I guess. I just, this girl, I know I haven't fully given up, but that's besides the point. Now that I know I'm the type of loser that constantly gets shipped to fucking friend land, I've all but given up anyway, hell, I was ready to screw a girl I knew was a total slut, because I didn't even care anymore. For me it's always, I get to just be the best fucking friend in all of friend land, where people go to be the best fucking friends that ever friended. I'm sick of it, sick of this bullshit zone.
I haven't given up on him either. Which is unhealthy to hold on but we all do it I guess.
I've never dated either. The only guys that like me are guys I have absolutely zero interest in. And I've only ever liked two guys my whole life and that didn't work out too well. It sucks so bad.
You should try meeting more girls. You will find one. I'm hoping to find a new guy. Having sex will fix horniness but not loneliness
I guess, though I have the same issue with you. You ever been friendzoned though, that's my entire dating life, except the one time I met a girl with mental issues.
I don't have a lot of guy friends so no.
In my case, he acted like he was in love with me. Stared at me, touched my hand, got jealous, watched movies with me, called me, etc... for a few months. And then bam, he just stopped liking me. You know how shitty that feels? I thought we were on the verge of dating and he didn't even answer my last text. We haven't talked in 3 months.
We all have our problems with the opposite sex :/
Most of the girls I know are taken, there was one girl I had a small crush on after the other one sent me to the friend hell, we had very similar personalities, liked the same things, had the same religious beliefs, and even had pretty good chemistry, but, since she was shallow, nothing came out of it (even though I'm attractive I wasn't white, blond-haired, or blue-eyed, apparently).
Maybe she wasn't attracted to you and that has nothing to do with being white or blonde? Most girls don't even like blonde hair on guys lol. And I'm white but I like all races, I actually prefer darker skin. What race are you? ?
Black-Hispanic, I'm pretty much mixed with all races, so I stick with what I said first.
Nothing wrong with that.
Either way, seems like most girls don't like me, at least not normal ones, or ones I can relate to.
The thing is, while she never rejected me, hearing her type was enough.
Dude you can like someone outside your type lol
Well, I think she has a boyfriend now anyway.
"There's other fish in the sea." Lol. I'm looking.
I hate that phrase, it makes it sound easy. It's already hard to find a girl you like, harder to find a girlfriend.
That's why I put it in quotes. I'm right there with you. Reeeeally hope I find that new guy soon. But until then I guess I'll just focus on other stuff.
Hey, wanna chat tomorrow or something, you're the first person here that didn't give me either an insult or advice that sounds like total bullshit, and I really need advice on how to get a gf. The thing is, with my depression, when it's as late as it is right now, I tend to get a bit delusional (that's how I know it's about time to go to sleep).
I'm also in the depression boat, lol.
Yeah, we can chat tomorrow. Good night.
Hey, do you have a username?