Can a guy like several girls at once? And then come to like one of them more than the others, after spending some time with all of them individually over a period of time?
Is it true that a guy can be interested in multiple girls at once, get to know all of them and narrow down his options of who he would like to date?
What Guys Said 17
This would be optimal actually because when a guy fixates on one girl he'll talk to her as if she is his "only" chance at love and choke up a lot. But when he has options, he'll more than likely be his more comfortable self since her leaving him would just mean he goes to the next girl.3
Sure, of course there are guys who can do that. There are even more guys who will date them all at the same time though.1
yeah, what wrong with that.1
That principal is essentially what men live by1
Im think this is a know FACT for every guy that is dating multiple side chicks.1
Have you ever watched the bachelor?1
I hope I get to do this one day. And no doubt a guy can be interested in multiple girls at once and choose one of those girls he is interested in.0
I believe what you described is called process of elimanation.0
Yes. Very much so.0
Why not take advantage of something most guys don't get to do because of lack of looks and money?0
Yes, it is totally possible. A lot of guys aren't that good with women though. But if there's a guy a lot of women like--he's almost certainly doing it.
There are alternative arrangements too. I like open relationships. I don't compare girls and whittle down to one; why should I have to divide my affection? I let them know about each other, although I don't introduce them or anything like that (I do this upfront--no reason to be dishonest or get anyone hurt). And of course, they're more than free to see other guys too.1
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What Girls Said 5
That's what most people call casual dating. Nothing wrong with it as long as all parties included know it's casual, and are informed once it's not. That's what I do, now that I'm older and can be mature about things. It's more simple that way to me anyways.2
Yes, that isn't very decisive. Girls do it too.0
what is this the bachelor?0
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