Let me explain. There‘s this dude, we have incredible chemistry. I‘m talking intense looks and goosebumps and if you wanna do body language, quickly and strongly dilating pupils whenever he looks at me. We even had a date, went on for six hours. We went for breakfast, than a walk through the city and kissed - for a long time. I didn‘t want to take him home though and he understood. Been texting everyday with quick responses, talkes multiple times about meeting up again and stuff.
Now, fast forward to a week later. We were meeting up with the team from an event in a hotel for one night. That evening, he hooked up with another girl. Cuddling, making out, going back to the hotel early together, all right in front of my face. Mind you, both drunk beyond limits but still … the next day he came up to me and said he was so drunk he even had a blackout. He said nothing went according to plan and that he did everything wrong and he regretted it. But then I saw them cuddly again. Far FAR les touchy than the night before but there were two times when he would put his arm around her. I even saw them kissing when we all said goodbye to each other. With me he was flirty that next day. Same kinda intense chemistry, he even wants to meet this week. Plus, she lives 3 hours away (I live 30mins away) so they won‘t likely be meeting up just like that on weekends except if there‘s sleepovers. Which can‘t really happen because his job demands a 24h-shift every second day. She‘s also actually crushing on a dude in the town she lives in.
i wanna ask the guys - sorry for the long texts - can a guy hook up (openly in front of other people) and be cuddly with one girl but want the other? Or am I being played here, am I the stupid naive one because I sure as hell feel like it, like the unwanted one …
