If I like big guys, does the mean I don't value myself enough?

[Anonymous]

I don't mean BIG guys.
Just tall and chubby, not fat/obese
Just enough meat to hug and grab

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Maybe even a little bit more chubby looking.

It has lowered my standards, does that mean I don't value myself as much?

I just feel safe and warm around them
So sweet like a teddy bear

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Sorry, I just couldn't find the shape, but those are similar.
The ones I'm talking about aren't in shape, just chubby. Loose in other words.

[TedStar]

Those guys look regular. It reminds of when guys say that they like curvy/plusisze/chubby girls and link postcardpicture.files.wordpress.com/.../...-32.png when they just look like the dime a dozen girls out there on the street

[RoastedCat]

Yeah haha its actually a very good comparison.

[TedStar]

Just to add. Regular people like and are attracted to regular people. "Society" and the media may push certain body types ( 6 packs + tall or big bood+ butt) but at the end of the day most people are aware that those people are few and far between and that the best people for us are around every day

[Metlahead]

Not at all, your preference is your preference. It's not hurting any body.

[harakiri]

no. those guys seem to have good bodies, in my opinion

[Dragonblood21]

You talk like those guys are in bad shape...

what

[rthomas43]

Both of those guys are in decent shape...
And if it's your preference, then no, it does not mean you do not value yourself.

[imbittered_punk]

That's a regular guy! You're attracted to regular guys.

[Anonymous]

Not sure how a preference of body type lowers your standards. You like what you like.

[Anonymous]

Those guys are average not big at all.