Would you date a guy with vitiligo? (Page 3)

Question

Vitiligo is a skin condition in which some areas of the skin are lighter than others. I have vitiligo on my shoulders and on my, well.. groin area. It makes me very reluctant from dating girls because I know that if a girl rejected me because of it, I just don't think I could recover from that. I know it is cowardly but it scares me quite a lot. I am trying to get over it. So because of this, anytime a girl wants to go further, I stop her.

How exactly do you go about telling someone that you have vitiligo? I want a serious relationship but at the same time, I am 19, I want to have some fun and I don't want this stupid thing to get in the way of ant of that. I have been on a couple of first dates where the girls want to jump straight into bed, if that is the case what do I say? Just say nothing? A quick side note right before we get into bed? How would you react if someone told you?

Ultimately, I guess I am just looking for some opinions as to what a girl would think if I told her as well as how and when would be the best time to tell her.

The poll may seem a little silly but as I said I want to find the right girl but if along the way there are girls who just want sex, then I wouldn't mind pursuing that and I wouldn't mind knowing what they think prior to doing it. For the 'would/wouldn't deter me' part assume that you had already decided that you were going to sleep with me/the guy. Lol.

This image isn't me (obviously) but the girl in the picture has a similar skin tone to me, so it looks similar to this.

Findesemana · Answer

people have worse ailments.. either with cancer, HIV, disabilities, people can and do get dates...

imonfire6070 · Answer

Unlike some people i dont really care as long as you are a noceish person and knows how to kick back on a lazy day

Anonymous · Answer

Honestly no. Skin is important to me and that would be a deal breaker

ladyeuphoria · Answer

Why not, I think that that is not a problem for a relationship... I mean that if you love a person you accept that person in the way he is.

Makalaster · Answer

I wouldn't mind at all. As long as I see my partner happy with or without sexual activity.

Anonymous · Answer

Yea, why not.. It's not like a disease to avoid and I, myself have some flows..

Anonymous · Answer

i had a friend with vilitigo and I grew to actually like it, I think it's unique and pretty cute tbh

Anonymous · Answer

Wouldn't affect my opinion.

girl111m · Answer

yes the girl who reject you for that is fool.

Superduper43 · Answer

No no no no no no no no

Anonymous · Answer

I have so many friends that have this.

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