This drives me crazy when I go out with my boyfriend. While that feeling will probably always be there, I just take comfort in knowing that he wants to be with me and not someone else. It's also good if he doesn't notice being checked out by other women, so I don't think you have anything to worry about.
On one hand I'd be flattered. Like girls think my bfs hot. Woo-hoo! But on the other hand I'd be like well what if he let's the attention go to his head? Or what if a prettier girl comes along and happens to show interest? So I feel it'd be a gift and a curse.
Buuuuttt, I don't have to worry about that because no one can see my boyfriend. He's invisible :)
Okay, he's not my boyfriend but I have a friend who I think is very attractive. The other day we were walking around school and I notice girls taking double takes, I get it. But he's only a friend so I can't say...
I find it flattering if anything, people are checking my man out because he's hot! If we're out and some girl starts hitting on him I just step back and watch, I find it hilarious watching him try and politely tell her to fuck off.
Lame u seems jealous because he got more attention then you do. girl grow up it's normal when girls check up guys what do you want? you want them to check you up, it's seems like you're attention sicker here.
Between the two of us, my boyfriend draws more attention. Mostly because he's very popular and has a lot of friends. Almost everywhere we go we run into people he knows. It's annoying but I deal.
My girlfriend claims that I'm much more attractive than her a lot and that I shouldn't be with her all the time. I don't think about that at all, and even of someone else may think I'm attractive, I'm by her side in the end. Im not really sure your guy has any intentions for stupidness.
I once had a long distance relationship. She was drop dead gorgeous. I trusted her well enough, but it hurt me a lot because she would tell me that she got asked out at school AT LEAST once a week :(
Happens all the time. I hang more at his place anyway. It's not like I'm a wall flower or anything It's mostly other guys. but they're all older and better educated than I am. for now anyway.
I wouldn't care if he got a lot of attention from others like I would feel like "haha bitches he's mine" but if he gives them more attention than me is when shit goes down...
You don't trust him. Trust is a very strong factor in relationships. This relationship you have won't go anywhere if you can't accept that he's going to get some attention.
It could be your overthinking it. Like i always see people staring at me and I guess i look at everyone else. Maybe they just look at both of you just to see who is around as they are walking?
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This drives me crazy when I go out with my boyfriend. While that feeling will probably always be there, I just take comfort in knowing that he wants to be with me and not someone else. It's also good if he doesn't notice being checked out by other women, so I don't think you have anything to worry about.
On one hand I'd be flattered. Like girls think my bfs hot. Woo-hoo! But on the other hand I'd be like well what if he let's the attention go to his head? Or what if a prettier girl comes along and happens to show interest? So I feel it'd be a gift and a curse.
Buuuuttt, I don't have to worry about that because no one can see my boyfriend. He's invisible :)
That means you've made an excellent choice ain't it?
I feel like I have the hottest bf in the world and HAHA to the jelly bitches.
I also feel like they better not cross any lines because they don't wanna deal with me.
Okay, he's not my boyfriend but I have a friend who I think is very attractive. The other day we were walking around school and I notice girls taking double takes, I get it. But he's only a friend so I can't say...
I find it flattering if anything, people are checking my man out because he's hot! If we're out and some girl starts hitting on him I just step back and watch, I find it hilarious watching him try and politely tell her to fuck off.
Lame u seems jealous because he got more attention then you do. girl grow up it's normal when girls check up guys what do you want? you want them to check you up, it's seems like you're attention sicker here.
Between the two of us, my boyfriend draws more attention. Mostly because he's very popular and has a lot of friends. Almost everywhere we go we run into people he knows. It's annoying but I deal.
I don't like being the center of attention.
My girlfriend claims that I'm much more attractive than her a lot and that I shouldn't be with her all the time. I don't think about that at all, and even of someone else may think I'm attractive, I'm by her side in the end. Im not really sure your guy has any intentions for stupidness.
I once had a long distance relationship. She was drop dead gorgeous. I trusted her well enough, but it hurt me a lot because she would tell me that she got asked out at school AT LEAST once a week :(
Happens all the time.
I hang more at his place anyway.
It's not like I'm a wall flower or anything
It's mostly other guys.
but they're all older and better educated than I am.
for now anyway.
I wouldn't care if he got a lot of attention from others like I would feel like "haha bitches he's mine" but if he gives them more attention than me is when shit goes down...
maybe they just had chapped lips u shoulda offered some chapstick
You don't trust him. Trust is a very strong factor in relationships. This relationship you have won't go anywhere if you can't accept that he's going to get some attention.
This is why I always date guys who are less attractive than me. I get all the attention and so when we get home they show their appreciation 😉
It could be your overthinking it.
Like i always see people staring at me and I guess i look at everyone else.
Maybe they just look at both of you just to see who is around as they are walking?
I've only had to deal with this once. I didn't mind it. Actually she got mad that I didn't care.
It's normal human behaviour to seek primitive cave sex. As long as one provides, the other will follow.
It's okay with me i feel sort upset but i swallow it