MOST straight men are repulsive pigs. They only care about looks. Why? Because ALL they want is sex. It's not just young men either, even middle-aged and in fact, ELDERLY (I used to work at a nursing home, trust me) are just as disgusting.
For the small percentage of men who aren't superficial, kudos to you all!
That's what men are built for. I guess it's a womans job to always be saying no, eh? Draw them in so you can have them to yourselves, then take away the sex. I know the routine.
If she is naturally pretty, then just a skinny girl, if she is not natural, at least slim, and knows how to put make up to look pretty, and you can tell she smells nice, pretty hair, etc. We guys only care about looks. Everything else only matters if the relationship develops further.
Just confused to certain things with dating. Cause people who know me or just met me will tell me the amazing wife/gf i would be if i were not single. But yet I am. I am just really confused cause guys tell me this but yet choose women who hurt them or end up being krazy or whatever bad situation arises from pursuing the wrong kind of girl. I think like this is a convo that should be like Skype or a call (viber, tango etc). I feel like I am missing something here but I don't know what. Its not like I can't get a bf easily, just finding a good man worth pursuing is. Well it seems that way.
And women are looking for suave, handsome, wealthy guys with social influence and big dicks. If you're going to generalize, at least use the stereotypes from both sides. As if females had no interest in the male physical form--or their bank account's form. If you want to make the claim that all males are like that, then I have to make the counterclaim that all women are interested in is a man's money. Neither of those are absolutely true.
The human males reproduction strategy is numbers. Copulate with as many females as possible some will make it to the next generation. So our man criteria is health, good genes, and ability to bare children which is conveyed visually in the form of beauty, child bearing hips etc. That's how we were designed and we are not pigs for it. The female due to the facet she can only produce a set number of offspring are much more worried about the survival of individual offspring than the male. She looks for a mate that has a connection with her in hopes he helps her raise the kids, someone who is capable of providing a stable life for her offspring, security. This is why female like confident, wealthy, physically imposing, intelligent guys. We don't go around calling women shallow pigs for not liking shy, socially awkward, in confident men that live with their moms.
Thank you for generalizing all of us. Just because we are attracted to women who have those attributes doesn't mean we have a checklist of some sort and each and every thing must be checked off for us to consider. Would a girl rather have an average looking guy with a good personality or a male model with a good personality? Obviously the male model, but presumably you aren't going to overlook someone who doesn't match that description. The way I see it is if you want the perfect looking partner, you better look perfect yourself. If you ask guys to name a list of things they like in a woman the list will look something like that. And yet, those are often not the girls that guys get crushes on. Looks aren't everything. I can take to an absolutely stunning wall already, so why would I go looking for a stunning wall (a hot girl with no personality). I can't communicate my feelings with a wall, so obviously I want an actual human to interact with. What guys prefer isn't what we require...
So much backlash but tbh it's her opinion. & get this it's given on a question that is asking for her opinion! If down voters don't agree, down vote but don't call her names.. Voice your own opinion on a separate thread :/ #hatersgonnahate
Speaking for myself, I love the eyes of a woman, It draws me into, and if I'm drawn in, (some) women have the tendency to reveal what's in a man intimately if they ( the woman ) look into the eyes of the man.
Might be gibberish ( I am new to this ) #Virgin, I've recently heard it from my baby myself.
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Every man wants something a little different... You haven't learned this yet?
Hi everyone, I just wanted to say hello before this big chat tomorrow! If you have any particular questions you'd like me to answer do let me know. Thanks
Honesty. Just say what you are looking for and when someone does respond to an ad. Respond back with something more than hello or let them know that they are not the onee for you, so that way no one is waisting time trying to get to know a person who is orr isn't interested, also leave the games out until you are dating and not before no one likes to be played when you're on the date.
What most guys really want but they're afraid to admit it yet alone act on it is a companion that has your back always. Kinda like what the wedding vows say "better or worse sickness or health" Because beauty fades and if all you have is based off of looks your screwed and not in a good way..
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I'm convinced guys want everything in a girl. They want the super model that can laugh at fart jokes while cooking a 10 course meal in a bikini.
When I look for a relationship, I don't look at the looks at the person but the insides. I rather have somebody who is nice and caring than somebody who will most likely get in an argument on most days. I also want somebody who can be very honest even when they are down. I like to be able to help all my friends and everything.
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I want a woman who doesn't take me for granted, doesn't have more important things to do than spend time with me, and is willing to be intimate, not necessary sexual at all, but some boobies please!
After 20 years of marriage, it's all that's missing, and makes the relationship empty. I'm simply a financial provider for my woman now. She just finds me irritating and wants nearly nothing to do with me.
That's what I get for sharing my life for 20 years. Nothing.
Sorry to hear that. Sounds painful. I bet your woman is feeling something similar or has found another way of dealing with it. Why don't you talk to her and express how you feel? Maybe then you can re-kindle the romance or, if must be, go your separate ways. She has got to be feeling something too!
Good health Good hygiene. (Good hygenie in private area) goal oriented. She respects my friends and gets along with them. She needs me or has a need for me. She likes to do some of the fun things that I like to do. She exercises and she doesn't make excuses to fix her problems. she's independent and really doesn't need a man to support her. we are both trying to learn new things all the time and not repeat the same things over and over.
first of all, every man is diferent. but in my opinion about first question some men may are looking for the homeship and the stablity and the love and the sharing and the gentleness in the women. about the latter question they would like to see the something can hit their heart in a women onlion profile.
I know nothing of others but all I've ever wanted is a respectful honest eternal relationship that we both could nurture cherishe love and just be there for one another through thick and thin
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MOST straight men are repulsive pigs. They only care about looks. Why? Because ALL they want is sex. It's not just young men either, even middle-aged and in fact, ELDERLY (I used to work at a nursing home, trust me) are just as disgusting.
For the small percentage of men who aren't superficial, kudos to you all!
That's what men are built for. I guess it's a womans job to always be saying no, eh? Draw them in so you can have them to yourselves, then take away the sex. I know the routine.
um you can say exactly the same thing about a female 😂😂😂😂😂
look for a man it changes like you change your tampon
The truth is most of them are just pussied brains
@abundantlyrich says the woman
If she is naturally pretty, then just a skinny girl, if she is not natural, at least slim, and knows how to put make up to look pretty, and you can tell she smells nice, pretty hair, etc. We guys only care about looks. Everything else only matters if the relationship develops further.
@James-Preece I really need to talk to you one on one. Please reply :)
How can I help? :)
Just confused to certain things with dating. Cause people who know me or just met me will tell me the amazing wife/gf i would be if i were not single. But yet I am. I am just really confused cause guys tell me this but yet choose women who hurt them or end up being krazy or whatever bad situation arises from pursuing the wrong kind of girl. I think like this is a convo that should be like Skype or a call (viber, tango etc). I feel like I am missing something here but I don't know what. Its not like I can't get a bf easily, just finding a good man worth pursuing is. Well it seems that way.
men are looking for boobs ass legs pretty face that is it. guys are pigs
not me, i look for a pretty face a little bit of innocence...
And women are looking for suave, handsome, wealthy guys with social influence and big dicks. If you're going to generalize, at least use the stereotypes from both sides. As if females had no interest in the male physical form--or their bank account's form. If you want to make the claim that all males are like that, then I have to make the counterclaim that all women are interested in is a man's money. Neither of those are absolutely true.
But, there is one truth. You're an ignant bitch.
was that necessary
However, a lot of women love us men being pigs.
The human males reproduction strategy is numbers. Copulate with as many females as possible some will make it to the next generation. So our man criteria is health, good genes, and ability to bare children which is conveyed visually in the form of beauty, child bearing hips etc. That's how we were designed and we are not pigs for it.
The female due to the facet she can only produce a set number of offspring are much more worried about the survival of individual offspring than the male. She looks for a mate that has a connection with her in hopes he helps her raise the kids, someone who is capable of providing a stable life for her offspring, security. This is why female like confident, wealthy, physically imposing, intelligent guys. We don't go around calling women shallow pigs for not liking shy, socially awkward, in confident men that live with their moms.
Not gonna lie I agree with @rawrzz
Lol and women don't look for height? Give me a fucking break.
Women are the same way. Women only respond to hot guys.
Thank you for generalizing all of us. Just because we are attracted to women who have those attributes doesn't mean we have a checklist of some sort and each and every thing must be checked off for us to consider. Would a girl rather have an average looking guy with a good personality or a male model with a good personality? Obviously the male model, but presumably you aren't going to overlook someone who doesn't match that description. The way I see it is if you want the perfect looking partner, you better look perfect yourself. If you ask guys to name a list of things they like in a woman the list will look something like that. And yet, those are often not the girls that guys get crushes on. Looks aren't everything. I can take to an absolutely stunning wall already, so why would I go looking for a stunning wall (a hot girl with no personality). I can't communicate my feelings with a wall, so obviously I want an actual human to interact with. What guys prefer isn't what we require...
If that's all that you think men all look for... I feel really, really sorry for you.
Painting with a pretty wide brush there, eh sis?
And men and women are equal right?
So much backlash but tbh it's her opinion. & get this it's given on a question that is asking for her opinion! If down voters don't agree, down vote but don't call her names.. Voice your own opinion on a separate thread :/ #hatersgonnahate
Speaking for myself, I love the eyes of a woman,
It draws me into, and if I'm drawn in, (some) women have the tendency to
reveal what's in a man intimately if they ( the woman ) look into the eyes of the man.
Might be gibberish ( I am new to this ) #Virgin,
I've recently heard it from my baby myself.
Every man wants something a little different... You haven't learned this yet?
Hi everyone, I just wanted to say hello before this big chat tomorrow! If you have any particular questions you'd like me to answer do let me know. Thanks
Honesty. Just say what you are looking for and when someone does respond to an ad. Respond back with something more than hello or let them know that they are not the onee for you, so that way no one is waisting time trying to get to know a person who is orr isn't interested, also leave the games out until you are dating and not before no one likes to be played when you're on the date.
What most guys really want but they're afraid to admit it yet alone act on it is a companion that has your back always. Kinda like what the wedding vows say "better or worse sickness or health" Because beauty fades and if all you have is based off of looks your screwed and not in a good way..
I'm convinced guys want everything in a girl. They want the super model that can laugh at fart jokes while cooking a 10 course meal in a bikini.
pretty much
if a supermodel can't cook or laugh at fart jokes then she probably not all that fun to be around
wrong, 11 course
When I look for a relationship, I don't look at the looks at the person but the insides. I rather have somebody who is nice and caring than somebody who will most likely get in an argument on most days. I also want somebody who can be very honest even when they are down. I like to be able to help all my friends and everything.
I want a woman who doesn't take me for granted, doesn't have more important things to do than spend time with me, and is willing to be intimate, not necessary sexual at all, but some boobies please!
After 20 years of marriage, it's all that's missing, and makes the relationship empty. I'm simply a financial provider for my woman now. She just finds me irritating and wants nearly nothing to do with me.
That's what I get for sharing my life for 20 years. Nothing.
Sorry to hear that. Sounds painful. I bet your woman is feeling something similar or has found another way of dealing with it. Why don't you talk to her and express how you feel? Maybe then you can re-kindle the romance or, if must be, go your separate ways. She has got to be feeling something too!
Good health
Good hygiene. (Good hygenie in private area) goal oriented. She respects my friends and gets along with them. She needs me or has a need for me. She likes to do some of the fun things that I like to do. She exercises and she doesn't make excuses to fix her problems.
she's independent and really doesn't need a man to support her. we are both trying to learn new things all the time and not repeat the same things over and over.
A cool chick who hasn't seen too much dick
the archaic notion of there being something wrong with sexually experienced women has absolutely zero logical basis.
Nobody said anything is wrong with it. Thanks for outing yourself you sexist pig. All I said is what I want and feel comfortable with.
Also its biological. Biology doesn't follow logic. We are animals after all.
first of all, every man is diferent. but in my opinion about first question some men may are looking for the homeship and the stablity and the love and the sharing and the gentleness in the women. about the latter question they would like to see the something can hit their heart in a women onlion profile.
I know nothing of others but all I've ever wanted is a respectful honest eternal relationship that we both could nurture cherishe love and just be there for one another through thick and thin
Physical attraction, sexual compatibility and emotional compatibility.
I forgot to number it #1 most sought to #3 least sought after
i think probably career compatibility over emotional compatibility. that shit comes later.
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@CootiesInfection I don't care to know what you think
Its subjective..
Somebody will say "that dont help!" but then what else do peoole want? Dating is not as complex as people make out...
I want looks, ambition, a goodnature. But that is just me, not anybody else...
Young attractive, fit, can cook, not a feminist
I don't really believe a lot of the things girls say in there online profiles.