Most Helpful Girl
Stop telling lies... She can no longer trust you... Your relationship is over already... I just wonder how long it will drag on now.
Lying a deal breaker, and once you lose a woman's trust, it's hard to get it back. I remember when my ex lied to me, and I tried to forget about it, but I didn't. I lost all trust in him, and I was really just dragging the relationship out longer than I should have because his word meant nothing to me. To a woman, once you lie, she thinks to herself "If he lied about this, what else is he lying about?"... You're screwed... She may try to look past it, but she will never look at you the same again.1
Most Helpful Guy
Once trust is lost, it is extremely difficult to gain it back. But not all hope is lost, but you have to remember that it is all out of your hands now. You have acted, now she is going to react. So it comes down to you doing your best to rebuild the relationship. You can't lie to your girlfriend, but no one is perfect and we all have moments of weakness. I'm not justifying your actions, since most importantly she won't see it that way, but I am saying to not give up nor play the victim. She called you a coward, so do something that a coward wouldn't do, own your actions and take the punishment. Give her plenty of space to sort out her own things because if you crowd her or push her, you'll mess things up further. And while you're giving her some time, work on yourself in improving yourself. And make the change count. If she realizes that you haven't worked on it and tried to better yourself, it's over. You've put yourself in a really bad spot and you've no one to blame. Try to explain your perspective and see how she looks at it from your side. If you didn't agree to what you did, agree and tell her it was stupid and weak of you. Remember, no one is perfect and she doesn't expect you to be perfect. But she does expect you to learn from them and better yourself. And when I mean learn, I mean don't do it again. Good luck to you sir0