Dont lose fail in me ( not so much the other guys). This is totally why I don't have many male friends. I prefer relationship to sex anyday. I can't deny that if girls were smarter, and listened to their male friends and fathers about what guys really want, they wouldn't get played so much.
For guys the first thought that goes through our head is sex.
However, not all guys dwell or make known those thoughts.
Personally, I am a virgin, I have never cheated in any way, and my best friend (a girl) I have only let know about what I thought about her sexually a couple days ago and only because she asked.
not all guys are like that because look at me, I'm here. I don't go out with every girl I see, mostly the ones that know me and I am friends with. I would never flirt while I have a girl friend and am abstinent. but you have your oppinion so be careful with who you sorround yourself with. that's my advice
I can't tell whether I have a good heart or not, it's for someone else to decide. But from my experiences girls often ignore a silent guy and they never bother to look into who he is or even talk to him. They won't bother trying to know him better, or try to find out what kind of person he is, or whether he is interested in talking to them. Maybe there was someone out there amongst the crowd who just wished you would come and talk to him and walk with him. I don't know about the other similar guys but I would have never made the first move and I definitely never want to have sex before marriage. I am sure you will find someone like that everywhere but girls never bother to look. All they do is just look for the modern, fashionable and talkative guy. All I have to say from my experiences is to look for the heart... not the appearance.
Why are you putting all the blame on guys? For the act of sex to occur, in the sense you're describing, it takes the effort and consent of BOTH people. Guys flirt and so do girls, it's what people do to make things interesting. But sometimes a sexual innuendo is just an innuendo, we all say them for laughs. For the act of sex to occur YOU would have to escalate the situation just as much as the guy. So YOU are just as much to blame. The question therefore shouldn't be "why can't you find a good guy?" but "why are you such a f***ing hypocritical slut?" Stupid slut.
She's also talking about guys cheating. How exactly is she a slut if her boyfriend cheats with ANOTHER girl? Seriously read questions better before you answer.
Either she's arithmetically challenged and can't count, or she likes to exaggerate a situation (which detracts from her story), or she has indeed had countless guys (which would make her a slut). Dumb bitch.
Who said anything about sex? I'm not a slut...ive only had sex with 2 guys I'm jsut saying I have guys hit on me all the time...nothing to do with sex...u are a judgmental prick.
Yes, there are guys out there but they are the ones you probably don't normally hang out with. I'm picky on girls because where I am it is both ways to the extreme, guys after girls for sex and girls after guys for sex. So I won't even bother with a girl unless I know for a fact she can prove that she is in the relationship to be with me, not just to get laid
Stop blaming men for your problems. YOU choose to be with them. They aren't forcing you to do anything. Act like a mature adult who is in control of your life and stop placing the blame on men who want sex. You're in no position to tell a man what he should want or do.
it doesn't always have to do with the guys, look for different types of guys and also I'm with someone and we've never slept together and I don't go looking for sex and I'm happy with how things are. look for different guys than you've been looking into
well trust me there's good guys out there you're just picking the dumb
ones. some guys cheat but look deeper and you will find that guy that you want that don't want just sex and who will treat you with respect and who wouldn't cheat on you you are pretty you shouldnt have to look let the boys come to you and just be careful
like what most people guys are saying, girl seem to be interest in the bad boy compare to the good guys, there are a lot of good guys out who looking for a long term relationship, and has a guy I must say that don't judge us by a cover, the cover of a book may look great but the story isn't always a good one, but a book that has a cover that doesn't always look the most exciting can be one of the best stories...keep looking there are goo guys out there
Perhaps your sending out the wrong signals? If you seem to ask for guys who just want a fling then that's what your going to get. Even if you aren't doing it intentionally, it may be true.
Try reviewing your flirting skills or how you approach guys.
Try playing hard-to-get. If a guy continues to chase you then its likely he isn't just interested in sex.
Unfortunately for you girls, us males produce more of the hormones that make us aggressive along with the instincts to continue the human race which makes us want to have sex with as many females as possible. It's all quite primitive. This might sound funny but watch shows on Nat Geo or Discovery channel on primates to get a better idea to our sometimes vulgar behavior.
yea there is. I am. Maybe you are attracting the wrong kind of guy around you. Be more friends with a guy not a girl. your always going to get a few guys that are not what you want. Don't let a guy jerk you around. you deserve a good guy. make him earn it as well as reward when he does. Maybe it is the reason we are called Dogs! lol
Yes. There are a few good guys left. Chivalry is not dead...merely gasping for breath. I'm 21 years old, still waiting for GF#1. There are guys like me who believe it is best to wait for the right girl...and not go breaking hearts and fouling up girls innocence until they find one they like. My advice for finding a guy who wants more than sex? Find one who hasn't had it yet.
2 past girlfriends have cheated on me. not like all out f***ing around, but when they were drunk they would makeout with another guy or something. it doesn't matter what gender they are, it matters how much of a standup individual they are. A man (or woman) is only as good as their word, if they don't have that, they are good for nothing. I've never cheated, and never will.
haha saw someone say that the nerdiest and geekiest dudes can also be the biggest losers. AGREED. don't just fix your eyes on them nerds if you want to find a good guy. go check out the deeply principled guys. sure, some of their principles might be sticks up your nose, but then maybe you have to go check yourself as well.
yeah I have gotten into that phase as well where I doubt or find it rare to find a decent guy who has at least the basics- a good personality, a heart and some intelligence.
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Dont lose fail in me ( not so much the other guys). This is totally why I don't have many male friends. I prefer relationship to sex anyday. I can't deny that if girls were smarter, and listened to their male friends and fathers about what guys really want, they wouldn't get played so much.
I'll raise my hand on this one.
For guys the first thought that goes through our head is sex.
However, not all guys dwell or make known those thoughts.
Personally, I am a virgin, I have never cheated in any way, and my best friend (a girl) I have only let know about what I thought about her sexually a couple days ago and only because she asked.
Not all guys are sex driven, keep searching.
Okayy thank you for that input. one good guy...any others? lol
Lol...i would agree with this guy
Haha come to where I live...i think you would agree with me...man I need to go get out of here lol.
not all guys are like that because look at me, I'm here. I don't go out with every girl I see, mostly the ones that know me and I am friends with. I would never flirt while I have a girl friend and am abstinent. but you have your oppinion so be careful with who you sorround yourself with. that's my advice
If you continue to go after what you've always gone after, you'll continue to get what you've always gotten.
I love that piece of advice I read from an elderly.
The point is, we are out there. But you have to take risks. Learn to adapt to new situations and spontaneous decisions.
I can't tell whether I have a good heart or not, it's for someone else to decide. But from my experiences girls often ignore a silent guy and they never bother to look into who he is or even talk to him. They won't bother trying to know him better, or try to find out what kind of person he is, or whether he is interested in talking to them. Maybe there was someone out there amongst the crowd who just wished you would come and talk to him and walk with him. I don't know about the other similar guys but I would have never made the first move and I definitely never want to have sex before marriage. I am sure you will find someone like that everywhere but girls never bother to look. All they do is just look for the modern, fashionable and talkative guy. All I have to say from my experiences is to look for the heart... not the appearance.
Why are you putting all the blame on guys? For the act of sex to occur, in the sense you're describing, it takes the effort and consent of BOTH people. Guys flirt and so do girls, it's what people do to make things interesting. But sometimes a sexual innuendo is just an innuendo, we all say them for laughs. For the act of sex to occur YOU would have to escalate the situation just as much as the guy. So YOU are just as much to blame. The question therefore shouldn't be "why can't you find a good guy?" but "why are you such a f***ing hypocritical slut?" Stupid slut.
She's also talking about guys cheating. How exactly is she a slut if her boyfriend cheats with ANOTHER girl? Seriously read questions better before you answer.
Either she's arithmetically challenged and can't count, or she likes to exaggerate a situation (which detracts from her story), or she has indeed had countless guys (which would make her a slut). Dumb bitch.
Who said anything about sex? I'm not a slut...ive only had sex with 2 guys I'm jsut saying I have guys hit on me all the time...nothing to do with sex...u are a judgmental prick.
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Yes, there are guys out there but they are the ones you probably don't normally hang out with. I'm picky on girls because where I am it is both ways to the extreme, guys after girls for sex and girls after guys for sex. So I won't even bother with a girl unless I know for a fact she can prove that she is in the relationship to be with me, not just to get laid
Stop blaming men for your problems. YOU choose to be with them. They aren't forcing you to do anything. Act like a mature adult who is in control of your life and stop placing the blame on men who want sex. You're in no position to tell a man what he should want or do.
You must be beautyful. cause that's why they want to be with you.
Well, a lot of males think that females want to be with them because of the money or fame.
On the other hand, a lot of females think that males want to be with them because of sex or something else.
it doesn't always have to do with the guys, look for different types of guys and also I'm with someone and we've never slept together and I don't go looking for sex and I'm happy with how things are. look for different guys than you've been looking into
well trust me there's good guys out there you're just picking the dumb
ones. some guys cheat but look deeper and you will find that guy that you want that don't want just sex and who will treat you with respect and who wouldn't cheat on you you are pretty you shouldnt have to look let the boys come to you and just be careful
like what most people guys are saying, girl seem to be interest in the bad boy compare to the good guys, there are a lot of good guys out who looking for a long term relationship, and has a guy I must say that don't judge us by a cover, the cover of a book may look great but the story isn't always a good one, but a book that has a cover that doesn't always look the most exciting can be one of the best stories...keep looking there are goo guys out there
good luck, hope you find the right guy
Perhaps your sending out the wrong signals? If you seem to ask for guys who just want a fling then that's what your going to get. Even if you aren't doing it intentionally, it may be true.
Try reviewing your flirting skills or how you approach guys.
Try playing hard-to-get. If a guy continues to chase you then its likely he isn't just interested in sex.
Hard to get, is a childish game that is filled with insecurity
Actually playing hard to get tends to make guys lose interest.
Eh, sometimes I suppose. I would only disagree because of personal experience.
I think the real question is "are there any girls out there who appreciate the good guys and actually give them the time of day?"
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Chances are the "good guy" is right under your nose.
Me too! I dated a guy who had manners and is polite but underneath it all was just like those douchebags.
Unfortunately for you girls, us males produce more of the hormones that make us aggressive along with the instincts to continue the human race which makes us want to have sex with as many females as possible. It's all quite primitive. This might sound funny but watch shows on Nat Geo or Discovery channel on primates to get a better idea to our sometimes vulgar behavior.
yea there is. I am. Maybe you are attracting the wrong kind of guy around you. Be more friends with a guy not a girl. your always going to get a few guys that are not what you want. Don't let a guy jerk you around. you deserve a good guy. make him earn it as well as reward when he does. Maybe it is the reason we are called Dogs! lol
Yes. There are a few good guys left. Chivalry is not dead...merely gasping for breath. I'm 21 years old, still waiting for GF#1. There are guys like me who believe it is best to wait for the right girl...and not go breaking hearts and fouling up girls innocence until they find one they like. My advice for finding a guy who wants more than sex? Find one who hasn't had it yet.
2 past girlfriends have cheated on me. not like all out f***ing around, but when they were drunk they would makeout with another guy or something. it doesn't matter what gender they are, it matters how much of a standup individual they are. A man (or woman) is only as good as their word, if they don't have that, they are good for nothing. I've never cheated, and never will.
haha saw someone say that the nerdiest and geekiest dudes can also be the biggest losers. AGREED. don't just fix your eyes on them nerds if you want to find a good guy. go check out the deeply principled guys. sure, some of their principles might be sticks up your nose, but then maybe you have to go check yourself as well.
yeah I have gotten into that phase as well where I doubt or find it rare to find a decent guy who has at least the basics- a good personality, a heart and some intelligence.