A lot of guys here responded saying they're nice, nerdy, respectful and all. I've fallen for them, but they leave me and then go for the ugly slut. So in a sense, while girls go for the jerk, nice guys go for the bitch. Nobody wins. Lol
Couldnt have said it better myself...and sometimes once you date a "nerd" they get a huge ego or too much self confidence and leave you for another girl. =[
Right now, I'm just looking at girls for sex. The last girl I was friendly with for years and we just started getting intimate and then she left me for some guy she hardly knew. Could he be right for her? I don't know but I do know that it made me feel pretty sh*tty and now I have no intention of starting any real relationships with anyone anytime soon. Of course if someone I really clicked with came along, maybe it would be a different story.
It looks like there are a lot of comments already so I will answer your question. briefly. Yes, but they are hard to find. Try shy guys, seriously. I actually consider myself one, and almost all of my friends are the immature guys who constantly womanize and try to 'get laid'. But, good guys are definitely out there. Good luck!
in 65% of the situation is the girls problem and not the guys yet us guys get the blame for being "assholes" when it's really the girls sh*tity personality and character.
Well I'm going out with the perfect guy, He's sweet, kind, thoughful and loving, There is a perfect guy out there for you defenetly I've found mine so go find yours. :D
So many stereotypes in this thread, it sickens me. Keep on truck'in and stop looking for that one answer because they are all just uneducated opinions. Too many Dr.Phil's in here.
My case is quite the opposite I had the guy who doted with anything with boobs and legs ha ha or rather I should say have. I hink that if you put up a front of being too open some Guys will want to take advantage of your over friendliness. Sometimes being picky and saying what you want up front won't decieve a guy into thinking you're someone who'll just give it up with no regrets or hesitation
Well, I consider myself a good guy. But, I guess you'd have to get verification from a bunch of people I know. I'm sure if you did you'd find out that good guys do exist.
To be honest, there are good guys, but there a difference between good guys and guys who're angels(not having any sexual intentions). Even the best guys have sexual intentions at the back of their mind. Let us just say it's the biological factor of wanting most offsprings with their own genes that makes guys that way
I have to say that many guys are searching for something to make then feel fullfilled and I have learned many times never ever put all your eggs into one basket. Maybe one of the reasons guys go to you is because they think you may be easy.. The harder you are to get the more interested guys get. Most guys like the hard one cas its a challenge and that's not all guys but good luck finding one that isn't this way.
It took my 8 years to find a good guy, but I lost him... But there are good guy's out there. Not many, but there is. It just might take awhile to get him. But trust me they are out there.
I was just thinking the same thing, well not exactly the same thing, I haven't lost faith in the female gender, just in finding a good one. I hate to say it but most "good" are in a relationship.
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Men are corrupt. But it's not their fault. It's been ingrained into them that the amount of beautiful girls that they've slept with has a direct correlation to their worth. Even though this is not so and many of them know it, social pressures and desire for acceptance get the better of them. It's really unfortunate that this is the experience you've had with men. Not all men are bad. Most of them are just conformists.
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A lot of guys here responded saying they're nice, nerdy, respectful and all. I've fallen for them, but they leave me and then go for the ugly slut. So in a sense, while girls go for the jerk, nice guys go for the bitch. Nobody wins. Lol
Couldnt have said it better myself...and sometimes once you date a "nerd" they get a huge ego or too much self confidence and leave you for another girl. =[
True...or the second they receive attention from "someone better" they leave
Right now, I'm just looking at girls for sex. The last girl I was friendly with for years and we just started getting intimate and then she left me for some guy she hardly knew. Could he be right for her? I don't know but I do know that it made me feel pretty sh*tty and now I have no intention of starting any real relationships with anyone anytime soon. Of course if someone I really clicked with came along, maybe it would be a different story.
It looks like there are a lot of comments already so I will answer your question. briefly. Yes, but they are hard to find. Try shy guys, seriously. I actually consider myself one, and almost all of my friends are the immature guys who constantly womanize and try to 'get laid'. But, good guys are definitely out there. Good luck!
wow it seems like the guys you know are pretty unfaithful
why don't you try meeting some other guys? or meet some new people?
LOLOLOLOL. "Is there any good guys out there" Yea obviously, the ones that you and half the woman on the planet tend to reject.
Good news ...YES there are.
They are either
A. Married
B. Gay
C. Both (In Massachusetts)
Haha=]
Or just young and haven't been taken yet... but we are few and once we find a girl that's good to us we don't generally become available again...
in 65% of the situation is the girls problem and not the guys yet us guys get the blame for being "assholes" when it's really the girls sh*tity personality and character.
simple
your looking in all the wrong places
or
your method of presenting yourself give guys the impression that your nothing but a play thing if you get my meaning
there are good guys and bad guys
there are good girls and bad girls ;p
HI,
Well I'm going out with the perfect guy, He's sweet, kind, thoughful and loving, There is a perfect guy out there for you defenetly I've found mine so go find yours. :D
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So many stereotypes in this thread, it sickens me. Keep on truck'in and stop looking for that one answer because they are all just uneducated opinions. Too many Dr.Phil's in here.
My case is quite the opposite I had the guy who doted with anything with boobs and legs ha ha or rather I should say have. I hink that if you put up a front of being too open some Guys will want to take advantage of your over friendliness. Sometimes being picky and saying what you want up front won't decieve a guy into thinking you're someone who'll just give it up with no regrets or hesitation
Well, I consider myself a good guy. But, I guess you'd have to get verification from a bunch of people I know. I'm sure if you did you'd find out that good guys do exist.
To be honest, there are good guys, but there a difference between good guys and guys who're angels(not having any sexual intentions). Even the best guys have sexual intentions at the back of their mind. Let us just say it's the biological factor of wanting most offsprings with their own genes that makes guys that way
I have to say that many guys are searching for something to make then feel fullfilled and I have learned many times never ever put all your eggs into one basket. Maybe one of the reasons guys go to you is because they think you may be easy.. The harder you are to get the more interested guys get. Most guys like the hard one cas its a challenge and that's not all guys but good luck finding one that isn't this way.
It took my 8 years to find a good guy, but I lost him... But there are good guy's out there. Not many, but there is. It just might take awhile to get him. But trust me they are out there.
I was just thinking the same thing, well not exactly the same thing, I haven't lost faith in the female gender, just in finding a good one. I hate to say it but most "good" are in a relationship.
Men are corrupt. But it's not their fault. It's been ingrained into them that the amount of beautiful girls that they've slept with has a direct correlation to their worth. Even though this is not so and many of them know it, social pressures and desire for acceptance get the better of them. It's really unfortunate that this is the experience you've had with men. Not all men are bad. Most of them are just conformists.
-Austin
Anchorage, AK
I'm a good guy...
LMAO... uh, you gotta admit that was my funniest jest yet. Uuuhhh, I kill me... LOL
Best thing is get confidence. I hate to be in your face but its mainly your fault. your the one with the guy so do some more investigating.
I have had both a fake good guy, and an actual good guy. You know it when you meet him. it was just too bad his heart was still bruised.