Ever since I was a kid I've always been big. I was called names haf food thrown at me, and people just stared at me you know the usual. But until now three years ago i weighed about 450lbs and now I weigh 258lbs. I'm a virgin and I've never been in a relationship and I like this girl who comes to my bar, I'm a bartender, and I'm worried that she will be like everyone well I've adked my friends and they tell me I have a body like a taller versiin, at 6'4, of kevin james did in here comes to boom and the looks of a prematurely black and gray Joe Manganiello only with a lot of facial scars. So what do you think?
Also i found this list and see if this does something for you guys.
First of all, you should be proud of yourself for losing all that weight. It wasn't easy but you did it. Second of all, who cares if people say, "Ewww no I wouldn't." They're not the girl you're crushing on. Even if the woman you like doesn't like you, there are billions of women on this planet and not everyone goes for looks or perfection. I know I don't. I've always struggled with my weight. I exercise, eat better than most but I have a condition which hinders weight loss like most. I struggle with self confidence at times but everyone does. Also, don't worry about being a virgin. When your time comes, it will be great. In the mean time, focus on grabbing this woman's attention. Strike up a conversation. Eventually ask her on a date. Remember to have self confidence. Act like you're confident and she will see that.
As for me, I would certainly date a husky guy with a great personality over a muscular dude with a douchey personality any day!
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Thank you for your words and as to looks unless your picture is fake or not current you look gorgeous
That doesn't sound an unhealthy weight at all, especially since you're 6'4. But even being a little overweight, I say go for it! I wouldn't turn you down for the way you described yourself.
I love bigger guys.. Congratulations on the weight loss and you shouldn't be down on yourself! :) 258 is a huge step from 450.. Just be confident and the right girl will find you!
Girls go for personality mate. If you've got a good heart it'll show and girls will see it in you. It sounds like a clique but it's true. Inner beauty radiates out into every part of your character and that's what people find attractive not having a six pack or a models face. I've seen beautiful women in love with average guys and when you ask them what the attraction was they honestly don't know. It's just an instinct we go with. That's friendship as well. We all react positively to a good person.
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