I was busy in school so I couldn't see her for 2 weeks, now I have holidays but I really don't like the city and I am staying with my parents at their summer house. I invite her a lot of times and I even told her that I would pay for her trip (almost 2 hours) but she called me "selfish and inconsiderate" because I didn't stay in the city with her.
I just though that we could have a better time out of the city in the nature. I am not planning to come back to the city during holidays.
She is not answering my messages and I didn't want to hurt her but now I realized that I took her for granted and she is so pretty and nice that she could fin someone else really easy.
How can I get her back? She is right at being angry?
Most Helpful Girl
I see that here both girls and guys comments are divided, so I will do my best in answering to you. It was considerate from you to invite her this holidays, I wish my guy could do it, but right now he is busy at work and he hasn't called me since Tuesday (ok, maybe I am exaggarating, I admit it).
First be honest with your feelings, what do you feel for her?
If you are honest with yourself, then go with her and talk to her about what you feel for her, tell her the reason of why you invited her, and if she can't, then ask her what she can propose, something that could be fair both to you and her.
If it works, then ok, if it doesn't, then I am so sorry.
Also, PLEASE DON'T tell her this, but KEEP this in mind, the fact that you invited her to your trip means that you are not ignoring her, specially if you have done it many times and even offering to pay her the trip.0
Most Helpful Guy
i don't really see how it's selfish and inconsiderate that you didn't do what she wanted you to do.
it seems like both of you did what you preferred to do. it may be a sign that you two just aren't really compatible.
if you are selfish for going to your parents for the holidays
she is selfish for thinking that you should stay with her0