I was busy in school so I couldn't see her for 2 weeks, now I have holidays but I really don't like the city and I am staying with my parents at their summer house. I invite her a lot of times and I even told her that I would pay for her trip (almost 2 hours) but she called me "selfish and inconsiderate" because I didn't stay in the city with her.
I just though that we could have a better time out of the city in the nature. I am not planning to come back to the city during holidays.
She is not answering my messages and I didn't want to hurt her but now I realized that I took her for granted and she is so pretty and nice that she could fin someone else really easy.
How can I get her back? She is right at being angry?
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I think that if you didn't give her enough attention before this argument then this was kind of like her breaking point. She probably felt abandoned and that's not a good feeling to have especially around the holidays. Did you even ask her what she wanted to do for Christmas? If you didn't beforehand then that's why she reacted the way she did. If you really care about her then you need to do whatever it takes to get her back. Call her, don't text and explain to her why you wanted to leave the city. If she doesn't care for your explanation then you get your ass on a plane and you go get her. Beg if you have to because I know she is probably more hurt than angry. Don't let your pride get in the way of apologizing.0