My only advive is don't listen to ANYone on here. Talk to him. Humans are too complex for generalizations. Only he knows what's going on. Communicate. Fix it if you can. If not move on.
You need a new guy. This guy has no respect for you. When a young relationship is at this point, it's over. You're miserable. Break up with him so you can have a chance to have something good.
Some people just don't make any logical sense. The women I date I treat like queens and that sends them running for some reason. Just leave him for someone better.
Sounds like he enjoys video games over his girlfriend. I 100% understand it. Video games are just more interesting than having sex. All I think about all day is how I'm gnna get the next dunk in smash bros.
Like it or not, it is much easier for a girl to find a guy than the other way around. Its purely nature. Think about finding someone else. Sounds like you both may be happier. It will just be easier for you.
Yeah, a lot more young guys nowadays have low testosterone. It's usually down to lifestyle, lack of exercise, diet, sleep habits. I notice you said he plays video games and doesn't sleep a lot, I'm guessing he doesn't work out or eat right either?
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My only advive is don't listen to ANYone on here. Talk to him. Humans are too complex for generalizations. Only he knows what's going on. Communicate. Fix it if you can. If not move on.
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You need a new guy. This guy has no respect for you. When a young relationship is at this point, it's over. You're miserable. Break up with him so you can have a chance to have something good.
Some people just don't make any logical sense.
The women I date I treat like queens and that sends them running for some reason.
Just leave him for someone better.
Sounds like he enjoys video games over his girlfriend. I 100% understand it. Video games are just more interesting than having sex. All I think about all day is how I'm gnna get the next dunk in smash bros.
Tl;dr. It's all about the hunt for many guys. Once his prey has laid down, the thrill of the hunt is gone.
Like it or not, it is much easier for a girl to find a guy than the other way around. Its purely nature. Think about finding someone else. Sounds like you both may be happier. It will just be easier for you.
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I'd say with him personally? the honeymoon phase is over between you two. The spark died with him.
have you talked to him about it? Not about breaking up but like about the actual issue?
to me he is getting to passive and taking the relationship and sex for granted
You forgot to put "some" men.
I'm always one to go all in, all my eggs in 1 basket. Once I feel that I want a relationship with a girl then she's my everything.
If you are getting that, then reciprocate.
Be cold to him, and stop initiating sex.
See how he reacts.
From what I've seen over many years it's usually women who get bored of relationships quickly, not men.
I've never had a girlfriend, but doubt I'd get bored of a relationship if I had one.
guys are always the same.. if he doesn't fall in love with the girl, he will be bored one day... its obvious
if he constantly rejects you and you are lonely but can't even feel comfortable expressing it- dump him
I think you deserve better. I wish i had a girlfriend who cared about me as much as that!! :(
Sounds like low testosterone to me.
He could have that at 19?
Yeah, a lot more young guys nowadays have low testosterone. It's usually down to lifestyle, lack of exercise, diet, sleep habits. I notice you said he plays video games and doesn't sleep a lot, I'm guessing he doesn't work out or eat right either?
for every pussy on this earth there is a man that has gotten sick of pounding it.
Women get boring after awhile...
Then why bother giving us hope if you think we all suck anyway? Just date a man.
Never said you suck, but sometimes you want a different girl to have something new.