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open as always to all races
but I am in love with actor haha
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Who is that?
@Hispanic-Cool-Guy amber steven's :)
Ultra cute!
OMG I just looked her up on google images and she's ridiculously cute! Nice taste!
Absolutely not. Character is my main concern while dating. Race is no issue, we are all human.
I have no preference just as long she can accept me for who I am.
Yes. I wouldn't date black women because I don't find them attractive physically.
Is it because based on stereotypes, I'm not saying all but, because they act so feisty and stuff? Lol
Besides physical appearance?
No. It's purely a physical thing.
Ah ok.. what don't u like about them physically?
Their skin color.
What's so ugly about their skin color?
Nothing. I'm not saying "black women are ugly", I'm saying I don't find them attractive. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Maybe he means how dark they are? But for me tbh, light skin black men look better for me. I can be friends with any black guy as long as they're nice to me. But more than friends, ehhh not really.
You say you don't like their skin color so elaborate?
@asker how do they look nicer? It's just skin color?
Do you feel that I owe you an explanation as to why I'm attracted to what I'm attracted to?
Well, I don't mind how they're skin color is if I'm friends with them. They would look nicer (guys) especially when they're fit and attractive and knows how to look good, by scent and clothing style, etc. For relationship purposes, I don't really think it's the best choice to date a black guy for me, cuz it's gonna be a failure. I broke up with my ex, who had a black related race, cuz it was so complicated and my family never accepted him cuz he's black and doesn't look that good. Most of us Filipinos (parents) tend to have their children get away with black men cuz we don't want to much be associated with them
@but how nicer I don't get it?
It's not like I don't literally like black men due to their skin color, but because of family expectations too and cultural background ig
If I offended you I didn't mean to. You can think I'm racist if you want to. I don't care what you think of me. I am who I am and no one's opinion will change that. But I can assure you I'm not racist. And you are not entitled to an explanation. I was going to give you one but clearly you aren't interested in it. You've made your mind up about who you think I am so nothing more needs said.
@catelyntje Are u asking how would black men look nicer?
No you say they lighter ones. How do they lighter ones look nicer?
@catelyntje, u can assume @SlitherySnake is racist but aren't we all even at least a bit?
Lmaooooooooooooooo you're not racist but your only explanation why you don't like black woman is because of their skin color. Stop your racist!
@AsianMae98 You cannot reason with the unreasonable. She appears to only be interested in arguing ad not an actual discussion. I'd drop it.
@asker no speak for yourself I don't walk around calling Chinese people ugly because of their eyes. Same shit with what he says about skin color
If you want me to be honest, I can say lighter black men look attractive cuz they have more noticeable attractive features and they look more neat. just saying and we all have different preferences. Of course I like black men, but just as friends mostly, not more than that. I like them mostly as friends cuz they're goofy and funny and can make u laugh. But just for me, not in a relationship.
Hahahah yeah I'm the unreasonable because I don't like black woman simply because of their skin color😂😂😂 okay try to turn it around ugly racist
Ahh @catelyntje, so you're saying you never judged someone based on their race at least once throughout your life?🤦♀️ just asking
The lighter ones have literally the same features but whatever think what you want
Hmm ok but just wondering, @catelyntje, have u ever faced an experience of being with a black man or any sort of experience associated with black men? Like them liking you or something?
No I never even dated anyone
@Cat: It doesn't make someone racist because they choose not to date another ethnicity hun.
@Hispanic-Cool-Guy he only doesn't date them because of skin color so roll back
@Hispanic-Cool-Guy he said it himself
That's up to others if they wanna be so evidently racist. Some people assume all Asians are chinese and they have chinky eyes. Of course I know I have chinky eyes but as a Filipino, I am not Chinese of course. I've seen people who are clearly so racist but I can't do anything about it. We can argue and argue how people are so racist but when we realize it, the whole world consists of racism and we can't stop it. Different people have freedom to voice out their opinions. This is why arguments rise, one perspective is different than the other. Sure @SlitherySnake's opinion might seem racist but that's his opinion with black women and I understand and respect that.
Racism: prejudice, discrimination, or antagonism directed against someone of a different race based on the belief that one's own race is superior.
Fiding black skin unnatractive in no way, shape, or form means I think they're "inferior" to me. It simply means I find it unnatractive.
@catelyntje: But does that mean He's obligated to like them or date them? Does it make me a racist if I don't find blonde hair or blues eyes attractive?
I mean it's normal too if we don't find someone attractive cuz of a specific feature. I can say that cuz I'm one of them too. If I seem racist at times to other people, then so be it. And besides black men, I can reject other dudes from hitting me up from example cuz on basic terms, Some are not my type and I also evaluate their personalities too of course. I'm personality + looks in simple terms.
@Hispanic-Cool-Guy that's something else's because everyone can have blue eyes and blond hair that doesn't belong to a race
*for example
@Hispanic-Cool-Guy but can I ask you were exactly are you coming from nobody asked you so just go. Do you feel though all ganging up on me with they three of you? I only talked to that racist guy so roll back
Well @catelyntje, this question is public soo people have freedom to butt in here, just saying gurl
@asker yeah okay you do you I don't know you anyway and I'm sure not all black guys like either
@catelynje Why are you so angry? I'm not being sarcastic, I'm being genuine. I never insulted anyone, never claimed anyone was lesser than I nor I greater than them. I simply gave my opinions.
Of course not all black guys like me either, is that what you were trying to say? It's a preference anyway.
@asker yeah I already said okay you just stick to the people you like and they black guys stick to what they like whatever
You never insulted someone but you just simply say you don't like black skin okay
@catelyntje I guess you just got sensitive with @SlitherySnake's opinion about black women but ok👍🏼Opinion is understood.
No. I said I do not find black skin attractive. There's a huge difference. I don't "not like black skin" I don't find black skin sexually attractive. No more no less.
@ I didn't got sensitive I got annoyed that he thinks he can just say that black skin is ugly as if we white peole don't go burning in the sun just to not be white and risk a cancer by tanning with those salons
Same shit don't try to mild it down you're racist own up to it
I didn't say black skin is ugly as in an objective sense. Black skin is not objectively ugly nor is it objectively attractive. It's all opinion. Attraction is subjective.
Just own up to it you made your bed now lay in it. Pretending like black woman are standing in a line just to date you I'm sure they just turn their head the moment they see you that's how repulsed they are
You clearly are only interested in insulting me over and over again and not in rational thought so good day.
Nah just giving you a reality check if your not ready to get that don't make racist comments then just stick to your basement
@catelyntje you're kinda just way ruder than what a usual commenter would do if they're against an opinion. If you think he's racist, just say that. Period. Just don't make it worse to prove your point. We know you're annoyed. He knows you're annoyed. So u want to prove your point more by insulting him more to teach him a lesson?🤔instead of trying to understand and respect his opinion, u just kept bashing him like there's no tomorrow. But oh well, that's life. I'll just end this here.
Why should I respect a racist No and im doen with this conversation so bye
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I find it funny how it's a little white girl that's getting offended over this comment.
Well that was a wild ride. As a lightskin black guy I understand what he's saying, personally I don't find that many black girls attractive but its more because of their facial appearance than it is the skin. But even if it was the skin, that doesn't make somebody racist. Racism is someone's opinion between the superiority of races. You can't control who you're attracted to and not attracted to, it's literally wired into your brain.
LOL. Thanks bro. Someon gets it.
That's kind of disheartening... but I think my black skin is beautiful.. soooo... who cares... physical appearance doesn't play a part in what I like. Personality does
Hey sorry for all the girls downvoting you lol I agree with you. Everyone has their preference @SlitherySnake
Thanks fam. (:
@Natted4: You have the same facial features as black women. He doesn't.
Compatible cultures/values would matter more than ethnicity. Also personality, which, admittedly, can be influenced by ethnicity and culture.
It wouldn't matter. However, if I were still dating, I would not date religious women. In some ethnic groups there are very few non-religious women.
actually it's a cliche , i'm arab (tunisia) and i'm atheist like 70% of my friends and family
@sara_nour I wasn't thinking of Arabic women.
No it does not. Then again, I live in a racially homogeneous country.
So u don't care about stereotypes?
There are no racial stereotypes here since there are almost entirely only white people here.
I've dated people from many ethnicities. in the end it's about who they are, not where their genetics come from.
I typically prefer Indian/Bengali/other brown girls from areas such as those.
Then perhaps second is other Asian girls, but it's pretty much just Indian.
religion > culture > race
because of this order, i generally prefer my own
I am open to all races, but I not equally.
I prefer white or Asian, and I am probably least likely to date a black girl.
No, it shouldn't either, people are people, we are all human beings regardless of race, if i'm attracted to the person race is not important.
I don't care, but I didn't grow up around Spanish or Asian people, so I've rarely dated them.
no it doesnot matter at all
many people are good in different races
good and bad people are everywhere
Me personally, not really as long as she is a good person!!
It doesn't matter to me. I find all races attractive.
Nobody who looks like her would go out with that dork.
As long as they are not a white liberal feminist chick.
I am only attracted to my own race.
It doesn't matter per se. But I have yet to find somebody of a non caucasian race to be atractive to me.