Most Helpful Guy
He should have seen or felt that you didn't take this joke very well, and stopped calling you that. He should have called you Ms. ____ instead once he realized that he and his friends had hit on one of your sore points.
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Most Helpful Girl
Definitely a dick move. My ex did this all the time when we played games online with his friends... but well... Even worse really. There was this one "mutual friend" who I couldn't stand. He was so arrogant and thought he was gods gift. He didn't like me either. Constantly being called a "b*tch" by him and to "shut the f*ck up" basically. My ex wouldn't even say anything or put them in their place even though he was the "alpha" one in the group and put them in their place all the time with other stuff. When I defended myself he would tell me to shut up and stop causing drama/over-reacting.
With the guys that I actually got on with, well they would tease me too. I don't know if it's just because they forget you're not "one of the lads" or what. I was always the butt of the joke and even went as far as saying I felt bullied. They all told me that they liked me and I was part of the group (although I always felt like I was just his annoying girlfriend). I don't know if it's just how boys are or what. There was only one guy in the group who would actually tease me in a "nice" way. Pretty much in a flirty way to be honest. He would make sure I knew he was joking. Jokes on my ex tho because that guy ended up being my boyfriend after him hahaha.
Looking back though, I feel like part of it stemmed from my own insecurities. Apart from with that one guy who f*cking hated me. Just talk to him about it and tell him you don't like it. Especially when he joins in because it's hurtful.
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