What you described for wanting to snuggle and the chores part is not being a submissive. Except for the sex, and you saying you want a woman to take the lead part. That just shows you care. A submissive male is what I would assume as being either gay or they no longer want the role to lead as a man and is really looking for another man in women. I'm speaking literally, as you have said about what you want. And that overall is not attractive to women overall. It means you're not yet a man, and a woman leading a relationship leads to disaster. It is not a woman's place to lead in relationships, especially in a marriage unless it's an emergency where the man cannot do the job for the time being. A woman will get burn-out quickly because were not designed for that.
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No of course not we need to ensure that our moral traditionalist values are secured by having a strong father figure, and honestly i love the security of just being with a strong man and the sense of certainty that he would make rational and calm decision in a difficult sittuation
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I love submissive men. I like being able to take charge and I like that a lot of the time they are willing to help with housework. I also love taking care of my significant other and doing things for them (like cooking dinner, running bathes, giving massages). I like watching how happy they are when they don't have to give up there submissive nature to be taken care of. Submissive males deserve so much love.
I think this is exactly what most women want in a lasting relationship. The desire for a dominant male is mostly a sexual trend, and I think it has a psychological basis in wanting to feel cared and provided for. Like if you could grab the back of her neck while doing doggy style, you could probably pass as dominant for a lot of girls.
So you want a man? No offense but I personally refuse to date a submissive man. Men are built mentally and physically to be stronger minded and lead, if you want to be act like a woman and have her lead then there is a problem and your home will be in a shambles sorry.
I have a dominant personality. so outside the bedroom I'm totally fine with a submissive guy. in fact that would probably be best but I don't want to be the one in charge sexually. it's the only time that I can freely give control to someone else so I would need that in a relationship that was gonna last.
Shalom! Be a man, it's tough. A woman needs a backbone and the strength of her husband. You being submissive is not a very good sign. Your children need a strong father, not dominant a Godly father who leads his home well.
I'm the dominant one between my husband and myself. It's in my nature to be the dominant one. So yes, some women would and do date submissive guys.
Be my slav- ًI mean boyfriend. :)
Nope. I want to be the woman, sorry. That's the normal way of things.
You can do whatever dude. You just have to have a backbone in some cases. Seem strong.
i have a dominant personality but i need a men i can clash with sometimes
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