Girls would you date a submissive guy?

[anon2018]

I feel like all the girls I meet are only interested in dominant guys, and this really makes me feel sad. I just want a girlfriend that would take charge, and make the decisions in the relationship. Someone who I could snuggle with and feel loved, and also doing things for her (like the dishes, laundry, cleaning the house, and ofcourse serving her sexually). The reason I ask is that I want to know how many girls are into something like this.

[btbc92]

What you described for wanting to snuggle and the chores part is not being a submissive. Except for the sex, and you saying you want a woman to take the lead part. That just shows you care. A submissive male is what I would assume as being either gay or they no longer want the role to lead as a man and is really looking for another man in women. I'm speaking literally, as you have said about what you want. And that overall is not attractive to women overall. It means you're not yet a man, and a woman leading a relationship leads to disaster. It is not a woman's place to lead in relationships, especially in a marriage unless it's an emergency where the man cannot do the job for the time being. A woman will get burn-out quickly because were not designed for that.

[CintiaJones]

You woman are useless and were designed to leech off on man.
Why do anyone need to lead? Are you a tenage girl with daddy issues, and you expect a man to be your father?
You woman expect guys to do all the work while you literally just spread your legs and even enjoy sex more. Beibg a woman is far easier and worthwile. I hate that I was born as a man.

[Singing_Hollow]

@CintiaJones A real woman shouldn't make you feel this way. A man should take the lead because biologically women are emotional and making decisions based on emotions is super dangerous, which is why we have the mess in society we have now. A true women will take her mans side, be a mother, respect her partner and work with him to keep their lives in order however a good man will lead his wife and teach her the right ways so they can succeed together. I think you have just found a bunch of sluts and basing your frustrations on them which i understand, us real women also hate those types because they make us look bad.

[Jesmarston]

No of course not we need to ensure that our moral traditionalist values are secured by having a strong father figure, and honestly i love the security of just being with a strong man and the sense of certainty that he would make rational and calm decision in a difficult sittuation

[Twinkles88]

Being submissive doesn't mean a man is weak.

[Jesmarston]

ok what does that mean if he doesn't stand up to a woman

[Twinkles88]

That he just chooses his battles wisely. I am the dominant person in our relationship but my husband knows when he needs to assert his opinion. This happens so rarely it's a non-issue but I know he has it in him when it comes down to it. Sometimes submission is just letting the dominant one do what they are good at.

[Singing_Hollow]

@Twinkles88 They are referred to as Beta males and yes a Beta male is weaker.

[Random_lil_biscut]

I love submissive men. I like being able to take charge and I like that a lot of the time they are willing to help with housework. I also love taking care of my significant other and doing things for them (like cooking dinner, running bathes, giving massages). I like watching how happy they are when they don't have to give up there submissive nature to be taken care of. Submissive males deserve so much love.

[TheVictoria]

I think this is exactly what most women want in a lasting relationship. The desire for a dominant male is mostly a sexual trend, and I think it has a psychological basis in wanting to feel cared and provided for. Like if you could grab the back of her neck while doing doggy style, you could probably pass as dominant for a lot of girls.

[Singing_Hollow]

So you want a man? No offense but I personally refuse to date a submissive man. Men are built mentally and physically to be stronger minded and lead, if you want to be act like a woman and have her lead then there is a problem and your home will be in a shambles sorry.

[Anonymous]

I have a dominant personality. so outside the bedroom I'm totally fine with a submissive guy. in fact that would probably be best but I don't want to be the one in charge sexually. it's the only time that I can freely give control to someone else so I would need that in a relationship that was gonna last.

[Lara_Croft]

Shalom! Be a man, it's tough. A woman needs a backbone and the strength of her husband. You being submissive is not a very good sign. Your children need a strong father, not dominant a Godly father who leads his home well.

[Twinkles88]

I'm the dominant one between my husband and myself. It's in my nature to be the dominant one. So yes, some women would and do date submissive guys.

[Lara_Croft]

Do you remember how Eve took charge?

[reixun]

Be my slav- ًI mean boyfriend. :)

[wildchildx]

Nope. I want to be the woman, sorry. That's the normal way of things.

[Chost]

You can do whatever dude. You just have to have a backbone in some cases. Seem strong.

[AmyStarks]

i have a dominant personality but i need a men i can clash with sometimes

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't mind being the dom in a relationship it's always fun to have a position of power

[fluffybear123]

If I was in a relationship I would want my partner and I to be considered equals. However in the bedroom I wouldn't mind my boyfriend being submissive since i'm into that whole allowing me to use him type of thing.

[Sha84]

i would never date a submissive person as i am very submissive and could not play the male role in a relationship

[Anonymous]

Have you tried meeting women in the kink community?

[Anonymous]

I'm already dating a submissive guy and we get along well :)

[Anonymous]

I would like a guy who is a slave for me in a masculine way. I don't know how to explain it better.

[Sam1674]

This is me!!

[PrincessCleo]

@Sam1674 Me too although i'm bisexual.

[francinegail]

of course. We do exist ya know.

[rairai]

yeah. of course

[Sam1674]

Yep.

[backonthelist]

definitely

[Anonymous]

yes sounds good