All my Friends have Girlfriends?

[Anonymous]

I am the odd one out, and I don't feel insecure or anything...

But it does feel weird they all get girls, and I don't ( I just can't get one)

Right now it's okay, but I feel like I will feel the pressure/flame of this soon.

I act like I don't care, or I am just busy all the time, and that I know how to get girls and don't care... But I can only fake that for so long... Until they realize I actually can't...

What to do? Anyone Else in a similar situation?

[Anonymous]

I am actually in the same situation as you are. All of my friends are in relationships and I am just sitting there feeling lonely and as if something is wrong with me. I got to that point where I am under a lot of pressure and I actually feel miserable. I feel like all of them are building their lives, they are creating plans with their partners and they actually have goals and I feel as if the life is just passing by next to me. I know that I sound depressed and sad... It wasn't my attention to make you feel even worse, but I just want to tell you that I know how you feel. (and I am soery if I wrote something wrong.. English is not my native language)

[nbbn5]

I am in the same situation as you both 😞

[Chill_steve1]

Same here

[Asker]

I feel the exact same way, all my friends have promising careers as well and I don't.

I'm not sure how I ended up this way, I just feel like giving up on girls and life.

[nbbn5]

Don't ever give up bro😊😊

[Opinion Owner]

Even though the whole situation sucks, don't give up. But at the same time try not to think about it as much. I've heard many times "love will come to you when you least expect it", maybe we should try that. 🙈

[Asker]

Yes that's true... I just don't understand life though

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah... I know..

[3va11]

maybe your looking in the wrong places or for the wrong kind of girl. don't feel pressure because if you haven't found someone you click with then you won't have a fun relationship.

[Asker]

I keep meeting girls who seem really nice, but end up just liking attention and drama.

[3va11]

were are you meeting them?

[Asker]

Tinder, or one at my work.

[3va11]

try ok cupid, and some not so well known ones in the app stores. and places you frequent that's not like Safeway or Starbucks

[Asker]

Nobody messaged me on Ok Cupid :(

[3va11]

it's not a great app but depending on your hobbies you could find someone that way. maybe In another paintball group, a miniatures d&d shop, a local hot spot to swim or even just on a walk to no real destination

[RockingWriter007]

If i have to say it then i think yes many of the male species have that problem however such trivial things shouldn't matter to a man but if you still want to have a girlfriend then reply to my answer i will let know how to make a girl friend your girlfriend

[Asker]

Sure what is your advice?

[RockingWriter007]

before we move ahead a quick question are you a go-getter or you are a patient guy

[Asker]

I'm not sure, bit of both