I'm a blunt person, with a blunt sense of humor and sometimes some of the things I worry have offended him due to his past but he jokes about it, mainly as a coping mechanism I think. I can laugh at myself, but I worry too much if I've hurt his feelings, even when he tells me I haven't. I tend to apologize a lot without realizing, and he jokingly tells me stop. He struggled to grasp at first that I was fine with his interests in nerdy crap, where in the past he was judged. Anyway, I'm worried that even though things are okay now, could this potentially be a destructive relationship? He told me that in arguments he needs to get out for the house, instead of communicating the problem. I can't work like that. I'm a very caring person so I support him and his struggles and he does with mine.
Does this sound like it can work?
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