Ok I matched with a girl on Tinder.. We went on a Friday night date. It started out great, she seemed a bit shy but I was blown away by how attractive she was. She told me I looked better in person then my pics... so all was going great, good conversation. I suggested going to another spot, as we left she grabbed my arm as we walked down steps. We went to a venue with live music, which looking back was bad idea, conversation was difficult because of the noise level, but she touched my stomach and arm a couple times when talking to me... I blew it and didn't make a move when she initiated the touching, after that I felt like the date started going downhill, we went to another music venue (dumb) and then we left I walked her to her car, hugged and that was it. Getting gas in the way home I texted her saying had a good time and to let me know you made it home safe (looking back I shouldn't of texted). She said she had a great time and I was cool and sweet). I felt like I blew it and I texted the next couple days and we chatted and she said she wanted to hang again and wanted to come see my band play. so I made plans for the following weekend and she then texted me mid week saying she was going to visit family and had to take a rain check with no alternative date. I said no problem and said let me know if you want to hang out again, give me a shout. Put the ball in her court. Didn't hear from her for 3 weeks. Then I texted her to tell her my band would be playing next week and she seemed really excited and said let me know! I want to come! Recently I reset my tinder and as I was swiping her profile popped up, I swiped right and the next day we matched. I changed my pics up on my profile but I'm pretty sure she would of known it was me, and after we matched she deleted a large portion of her profile bio. So neither of us has messaged each other yet. I pretty much wrote her off but now seems like she may still have interest/attraction. how I should play this?
Tinder Rematch?
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