First of all, you should have NOT moved in together. Second of all, he's lying. A guy saying he feels suffocated means that he is not happy in the relationship. He likes the benefits of you being with him but hates the fact that he can't be to himself. That's a very bad sign. As an introvert who loves her space, I suggest you ask him what is REALLY going on because that is not what he was saying to you before. And if it was such an issue with space, why didn't he tell you this BEFORE he asked you to move in?
It means he's conflicted. He wants you but doesn't at the same time. He feels trapped. He just wants the benefits, but he never taught about what commitment actually meant giving up part of his free time. This is an Introvert thing. But the problem is he's being very selfish.
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Moving in together after only 2 months of knowing each other, and at your age, is very serious so I'm sure he's freaking out because of this. Did y'all talk about this before or did you sort of push yourself into his living space? Some of this sounds like he feels you may be too controlling.
I'm sorry about that.
He needs space in terms of what he wants to do without anyone's permission or continuous monitoring.
Working in such shifts is also a problem.
Overdoing burdened and stress at work.
I sense there is a lack of understanding between you guys.
You should relax and talk about it.
"Space" is what a pussy says for breakup. It makes you think he'll want you again at some point in the future which never happens. This is over permanently and completely and you will not remain friends even if he suggests or agrees to it nor will you ride off into the sunset together and live happily ever after.
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he doesn't know how to end it
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