Do you like when there's a huge height difference or is their a cut off? For those who been in relationships like that is their any struggle or awkwardness? Guys always say they love short girls but I'm 6'3 and average girls are short and short girls are super short.
Ideally I would like her to be taller then 5'3 but so many cute Latinas are so short. I think 5'0 is my cut off 15 inch diffence any more and it would just feel awkward and kissing would probably be a pain.
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Is huge height difference ever a deal breaker when it comes to dating?
6'3 is awesome. I'm 5'6 and I dated a 5'8 guy for 6 years and a 6'4 guy for 8 years. height was never an issue for either of them. HOWEVER, my sister is 5'1 and dated a 6'5 guy... apparently there were some issues that arose from that, like he found that she was too short and started to have fantasies about taller women and expressed as much to her. he felt bad that it bothered him but it did. they eventually broke up. can't say for sure that the height was to blame, but if he took the time to mention it to her a few times, I suspect it was at least partly to blame.
There's a cut off for me. I'm 5'2 and my partner is 6'0 and he's really the tallest I'm prepared to go. I like that he's tall in some ways, I think that aesthetically, it looks better but in terms of practicality, it's not as good. I hate that I can't kiss him properly unless he bends down or I stand on something. I feel like any taller would just irritate me more.
Generally, it only really gets awkward if one of us is standing and the other is kneeling. Like, if I stand and he kneels, his head is still at around my chest level so he has to duck down quite a lot and make it uncomfortable for himself if he wants to give me oral whilst I'm standing. If I kneel comfortably and he stands, his dick just pokes me at the top of my forehead :P That's not a huge issue though, jst means I can't sit back and be comfortable, have to kneel up properly.
I'm 5 ft 4 and my boyfriend's around 6ft but honestly I feel like I'm around his height when I talk to him (probably the illusion lol if that makes sense). I couldn't care less though, I think he's got the perfect height for me. I can kiss him without tiptoeing hohoho
For me it is... I met with this guy he was 6’6 and I’m 5’3 when I met him he was ok to talk and he made a joke resting his elbows in my freaking head 😑😑 never went out with him again I want someone taller than me but not too tall we’ll look like a joke.
No he was just ok he was very shy and tried to be funny but he wasn’t he called me a couple of times after but I wasn’t feeling the vibe plus he was presbyterian and I’m not religious so he was talking about church and shit that doesn’t goes with me.
I'll give my 5 cents. I like short girls. Short girls are usually cuter both in looks and in behavior. However, I wouldn't date an actual dwarf.
I mean, I understand that midgets have their needs too, I'm not here to judge midgets. The issue for me with dating someone, say, half my size would be logistics. Smaller means more fragile. Also, I'm a bit of a dick, I'm sorry, I don't think I'd be able to not use the hypothetical girl as a leaning stool at least once.
I get your problem my Filipina is 5ft and I'm 6ft 3 I feel she is worth the hassle of bending down to kiss though. Usually I just end up giving her a kiss on the fore head. She loves that. Also when either her or I get off the plane, depending on who's visiting who, picking her up and cuddling her is super easy.
I'm 5'7 myself, which is neither tall or short. Kinda average and I wouldn't have a problem with guys much taller than me. I dated a guy who was 6'3 and it was fine. Dated a guy who was as tall as me and that was fine. Rather not date anyone shorter than me. Feels kinda awkward.
it's easier for a tall guy to pin me down i guess, and i like to be dominated. the shortest i dated was 5'8 i didn't really feel sexually satisfied and all i can think of is because of his height. by the way, I am 5'2
I don't understand why my question is so controversial.
I'm wondering what women with a tallness fetish tell their short sons.
Every generation, some boys are short and some are tall. Every mother wants her son to be 6' tall or taller, but only 12% of the population actually is. So when your son comes out short, what do you tell him? How do you break it to him that relationships and sexuality are for other people, not him? How do you explain to him that he's never going to be any girl's Prince Charming no matter how good his heart is or anything else?
How do you sit your son down and tell him he's just gonna work crappy jobs his whole life and die alone?
@Bananaman177 Ask those people who made fun about that. I dont have a tallness fetish, and I used the words "I guess" and said "all I can think of" as the reason. I wouldn't date someone who is barely 5'8 if I had a problem. I dont get why some people make their own assumptions and come up with new stuff on this website.
I'm 5'3" , I'd prefer to date someone that is at least my height, which is not hard considering I'm quite short lol. I have a few very tall friends and is funny to talk to them :P i feel like a hobbit, I wouldn't mind dating someone really tall, but the real question is if they would like me haha
Most guys like smaller women, y'all are fun sized like candy bars and you fit easily into most overhead storage compartments ( props if you get that reference )
the overhead storage reference was from Austin Powers the villain Dr. Evil has a clone of himself he calls mini me that is where the reference comes from, hilarious movie by the way, recommend if you have not seen it.
Never had a problem with getting girls myself at 2m with glasses and average looks. I ended up going aromantic, but I do still get interested girls coming around occasionally.
Hmm yea I guess. I mean hight isn't so much an issue. I kinda just get turned off of he's shorter than me. Glasses are cool by the way. It gives this sweet, gentle and often intelligent look. I don't wear glasses myself unless for fun, in which case I personally think I look cuter for haha anyway.. yea sounds good :p
For me the taller the better. Everything becomes awkward and painful after about 6'2 (I'm 5'4) but I can't help what I like. 5'11 is my cutoff for shortness (all then men in my family are 6'1+) My fiancé is 5'11.
Preference is preference. I personally like small girls if I had my pick. Just something about it. But shorter than me at 6ft is really my only real sticking point, i guess really. It's more about the dynamic between me and a girl, not the height
I'm not very short (5'6) but I have been with someone who was really tall lol (6'5). That honestly felt just a bit awkward to me but if you really like the person, I really don't think it's such a big deal
Im 5'7. I like all type of girls no matter what. I date a 5,9 tall girl 2 years lol i was kinda proud have a tall girl with me, not problem (but she never use high heeels).
90% of women here is between 5'0 (or less) and 5,5 tall. This girl who i date i date was a exception.
I'm 1.93m (6'4). There is definitely a cut off for me. At some point, it becomes awkward to even talk if the girl is short. I definitely prefer girls taller than 1.70m (5'7) m but my cut off point would be 1.60m (5'3).
I don't care about height difference so I also don't have a "cut off". I just want to find someone who will like me for who I am and that already is impossible.
Well I guess not awkward but a need of a bit adjusting. Like when you kiss I would think he would have to hunch down and shower/standing sex wouldn't work unless he squats down a bit
Well yeah, he has to hunch down and I end up getting a lot of kisses on the head. Shower or standing sex just gets worked around with me standing or kneeling on something, or him holding me up. Over time you get used to the adjustments and don't even think about it.
Heights a dumb variable. Get to know the person. The more comfortable you can be together makes the experience. Not how proportional it looks aesthetically.
I think it's less about aesthetics and more about logistics. I'd prefer to not date a midget (like... actual dwarf... 3' or something), even if she's amazing if only because of the issue of coordinating stuff.
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