Would you date an overweight girl/guy if you liked her/his personality? (Page 2)

[SirHac]

I would but unless I work near her and am forced to interact or she does something interesting it's not likely I would find out enough about her personality to date her regardless of weight I'm Far more likely to approach the more attractive skinny or average girls just by looks.

[ThisAndThat]

I already have once. She was self centered, bad tempered, aggressive with deep down obvious hatred for men, used the crap out of me said I was temporary until something better came along, she found my faults but never saw hers. She kept gaining weight, (which had nothing to do with our breakup) trying to make me jealous all the time for no reason. Been there done that no.

[Adam_INTJ]

No, because, at least in my family, obesity can be an indication of a short temper and a lack of self-control. I've seen this trend on "my 600 pound Life" too, so obesity can often come with a bad personality.

[JustAnotherGirlie]

Dating a guy that's overweight is fine, just not my preference? Nothing to do with the extra weight, I just don't want to experience a sick partner due to any number of illnesses. A dad-bod is fine with me

[freakyzeaky]

Depends on how overweight, but then again, right now I am overweight, so I have no room to be a hypocrite. That is why I am on a fitness journey. If I expect my lady to take care of her body, well then it only makes sense to take care of my own.

[princess_jenna]

I think it comes down to if you find them physically attractive as well cause you cannot have a relationship if there isn't that kind of attraction

[Blonde401]

I like chubby guys/dad bods. Means my man likes to eat! And I'd love to cook for him and hang out and eat with him.

[Detemer]

I did.
N I didn't care about how fat he is.
Never even discussed it with him.
However he shed weight so that he could look good with me cz I was on the slimmer side.
Adore him <3

[jaelenna]

weight doesn't always have to do with everything. People always think that because your chubby or someone is fat they can't get a man or a lul lady. Weight does not define a person for heaven sake.

[rrggbbgg]

LOL love how women lie about this shit... no women would date such a guy only if he's got the cash... at least i'm glad to seem most men say what they feel

[Anonymous]

Omnonomnomnomnomnomn

My plus sized girlfriend everyone

And no you can't have her she is all mine

[Asker]

Lol wow she has a pretty face
I've seen more plus sized girls that are pretty too

[Anon-ymous1]

Don't want her, so no worries.

[Dxk007]

Yes, we'll be friends but, it depends we might date or not. I'll just tell her that she is my friend, I can get a lot of girls but, I like her. So, if she likes me, she'd have work hard and get back in shape.
Because, she probably won't accept me as a fat guy if she was fit.

[XOXOME16]

I want someone that puts the same interest into their health as i do. If you dont care to lose weight when you know you need to then i can't like you. Health is important.

[cookieman12]

I don't mind if she's a little overweight. But if she's morbidly obese than no

[igobywink]

im personally not attracted to overweight men or women b/c im bisexual , but you can have a little fat on you & i wouldn't mind.. a little teddy bear is so cute lol

[jdoutworld]

honestly , no. I don't need a swimsuit model, but at least be a healthy weight.

[maestrodematimaticas]

I honestly prefer overweight women. Visually, I find them more attractive and they feel nicer in bed. I know, weird coming from a bodybuilder. I'm 7% bodyfat. Someone needs some cushion somewhere. Skinny girls don't feel as good.

[Anon-ymous1]

Lowww standards.

[maestrodematimaticas]

@Anon-ymous1 ain't that bro. What looks good on a magazine cover and what feels good in bed are 2 different things to me. My standards are high. I won't date a promiscuous woman or a woman with bad credit. Thats where my standards lie.

[Anon-ymous1]

Guess you turned all the lights off then.

[Máiiréad]

Slightly overweight/ chubby is okay. But it isn't something I typically go for. I find myself more attracted to tall skinny guys for some unknown reason. Just something I noticed over the years.

[melanieeeB]

No, i'm personally fit and I do look out for someone who is also fit.
When I meet someone who is overweight, I see the person either as a friend or nothing. Depending on their personality

[anonyms483]

but... exercise can change the body structure... unless he isn't suffering from any disease!!! @melanieeeB

[melanieeeB]

Yeah sure, the person could start exercise, but he will probably never keep up with me

[MaximisPryme]

I don't mind a little weight. I would actually much rather, because they won't be so high maintenance.

Knowing that I have imperfections, I am MUCH more likely to approach someone else with other imperfections. :)