I'll be meeting my BF's entire fam for the first time over Thanksgiving. I was talking to him today about it and told him he shouldn't kiss me (not even a peck) on the lips. I said a cheek kiss is fine, but since I'm meeting his whole fam I wanted to make a good impression. He thinks it's not a big deal and knows his fam won't care if it's just pecks, but I'm the first girl he has introduced to his family ever, so he really doesn't fully know if they care in my opinion. Am I being extra?
Most Helpful Guy
Honestly it's a respectful thing not to kiss around eachothers families and friends.
I've been with my girlfriend for almost 4 years and we still don't do it.
My advice is to just subtly show that you two are close my grabbing/hugging him every once in a while.1
Most Helpful Girl
I think if you feel kinda awkward it would come off as awkward. Just do what makes you feel comfortable. I'm sure his family wouldn't care, but you don't want to stress more than you already are.0