he knows my ex boyfriend is a narcissistic psychopath, but he never saw a pic of my ex, anyway he saw it and he went, "Daaanngg Sara, thats your ex?" and he repeated it 3 times, i was shocked cause i thought "oh does he know him?" so then he says "Dang im the downgrade.", i said "No, No, you're actually an upgrade." he said "yeah but, im a downgrade, look at him... he's handsome." i told him "i know but he was an asshole." he then said "i know that but, daannggg duuddee".
this guy im talking to right now is super fucking sweet, i don't care for looks and all i care about is their personality. i feel like this guy is the one for me, and i wouldn't change a damn thing about him.
he makes me laugh, he's sweet, he's super down to earth, and he always brings a smile to my face. to me he is in NO WAY a "Downgrade". i love him just the way he is.
the great thing about this thing i am with him, is that we met through memes and our lame sense of humour. to me he will always be better than my ex.
Most Helpful Guy
Umm ok. This is normal and he will be paranoid. Narcissists can be VERY attractive.
(1) DO NOT MENTION THIS TO HIM EVER AGAIN/do not bring up your ex-bf or anything ANYMORE.
(2) Fine, your new boyfriend may not be the same in the looks department. But it's your job to make sure he feels like it - especially now that you created this unhealthy scenario. So make sure you show him that you like him for him
Most Helpful Girl
I read Narc and instantly thought he was a snitch... lmfaooo