The guy that I've been talking to thinks he's a downgrade after seeing a pic of my ex. my ex is a narc. he knows this, what do I do?

sarahismwih
ok, so the thing is, we were skyping one night, and i was telling him how i found a pic someone photoshopped of my ex where they put a dick in his hand, making it seem like he was jerking someone off (it was pretty funny) and i showed him the picture.

he knows my ex boyfriend is a narcissistic psychopath, but he never saw a pic of my ex, anyway he saw it and he went, "Daaanngg Sara, thats your ex?" and he repeated it 3 times, i was shocked cause i thought "oh does he know him?" so then he says "Dang im the downgrade.", i said "No, No, you're actually an upgrade." he said "yeah but, im a downgrade, look at him... he's handsome." i told him "i know but he was an asshole." he then said "i know that but, daannggg duuddee".

this guy im talking to right now is super fucking sweet, i don't care for looks and all i care about is their personality. i feel like this guy is the one for me, and i wouldn't change a damn thing about him.

he makes me laugh, he's sweet, he's super down to earth, and he always brings a smile to my face. to me he is in NO WAY a "Downgrade". i love him just the way he is.

the great thing about this thing i am with him, is that we met through memes and our lame sense of humour. to me he will always be better than my ex.
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okay so to the part that says "i know, but he was an asshole" i in no way called the guy im talking to ugly, that wasn't my intention, so thank you for pointing out my mistake, and to my ex wasn't just an ass, he was downright scary, and abusive, there were times where he would threaten to kill all my male friends and even threatened to kill himself if i ever left, but then made me feel like i was going crazy, cause he said i made all those things up when i had proof he had said those things.
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and my ex* not "and to my ex"
The guy that I've been talking to thinks he's a downgrade after seeing a pic of my ex. my ex is a narc. he knows this, what do I do?
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