It's hard to say. I know I have had classes that were 4 hours long when I was in college so I can see his class being long. As for not being able to find him on tinder, it could be a number of things. Maybe he unmatched you, maybe he deleted his account, maybe his profile reset itself and he lost all his matches (seen this happen before). It's just to hard to say. I wouldn't lie from what you said you did comes on super strong. I mean you pretty much texted him the next morning after a date and asked for a second one which would be him meeting your friends and hanging out with them. That is pretty strong. I can see that scaring away a lot of guys. But the fact that he still seemed a bit interested and the fact you spend so long talking on the phone makes me think he was at least very much into you. So it's hard to say. My suggestion is to ask him if he would like to go on amother date. Just be honest with him and ask if he wants to date some more. If you are honest and ask I say he will be honest and give you an answer. That being sat I would suggest that you avoid asking guys to hang out with your friends on an early date. They want to get to know you, now you just added the stress of getting to know them, them judging him, him being the outsider in a group of strangers and on top of that really limited how much he can learn about you from that date. It's not a good choice early on. Keep it just you to till you know each other pretty well. Then introduce friends, maybe in a smaller setting too. Like going to a movie together or going out for food. Not a big group and for a reason amount of time.
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Texting a guy after a date and asking him to hang out with friends isn't coming on too strong. All that other stuff is legit stalker level psycho. You need to chill the eff out, for real. You JUST met. If you can't wait 2.5 hours to chat and start stalking his profile, you've got serious issues. Seek professional help immediately.
Well first of all when I was in college some classes were 3-4 hours long, I know those who had Saturday classes usually we're minimum 4 hours. Anyhow, he could've took his profile down from Tinder since the date went so well. I don't know much about Tinder, I only know of it being used more for hook-ups than actual relationships. Personally, I wouldn't invite him to hang with friends that quickly, but you said you gave him an out. I don't believe in the girl can't text first. If a guy gets turned off by that do you really want him.
Hard to say, but I can tell You I unmatched guy who I am seeing now 6 months... I did it also after first date.. there is something awkward about that match being there after You already had first real contact. I don’t want guy who I am interested in to go and look at me on tinder..
You didn't come on too strong, you were friendly and not too pushy, you left the door open for him to join you so ultimately maybe he just wasn't feeling it, you never know whats going on the other persons side. Don't think about it too much there are other matches ;)
He said he’d text you after class, not IMMEDIATELY after class. That means sometime today after class is over and he has an opportunity he’ll text you.
If today comes and goes and he doesn’t text you, then you’ll have a good idea he may have lost interest
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It's only been 2.5 hours, chill out.
If you were this clingy on your date that might've been the reason for him to unmatch you.Not bad news... He doesn't like your personality... just try working on that, and maybe you can be the one that breaks up instead of him breaking up with you. But i would ask the guy why he is acting like a ignorant bitch. And that maybe that is because of the lack of balls he has to say things to you directly. I would say... This is no loss for you... Bearing his children would be a loss...
Why are you freaking out over one guy?
So what if it didn't work out. Honey, you need to move on.
No one is worth obsessing over, save yourself.Did he delete his tinder? 2 hours isn't a long time to not reply to a text. Just stop over thinking it, if it doesn't work out then move on.
It's only been a few hours and you have his number. Chill the fuck out.
He may have unmatched you. However, he may have also deleted his profile
Are you an interesting person? Can people learn something new, or gain insight every time they talk to you? The answer to those, and other similar questions, will help answer the one you asked.
Because Tinder isn't a dating site anymore it's more of a one night stand site now
I mean it’s never a good sign when they unmatch you. And yeah, you might have scared him off a little.
He doesn't sound that into u. Don't send him anything else and allow him to contact u if he wants. His loss i guess
My guess is you didn't click if he's not trying to get you on a second date.
i know some people of both genders who have a policy of unmatching once we meet up and exchange contact info. it's not that common though.
Never ask a guy to meet your friends on a first date. You can ask him out that is cool but it should be for coffee.
You played yourself. I would unmatched u too. You're too aggressive.You may have scared him away but I doubt it. Give him a little time maybe he's busy, sheesh
Should've waited a day before texting him back
Maybe he found someone else?
Ugh. No he's ready to propose
It's probably cuz you're not Asian
Gorter him!
Sounds like it.
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