i dont think its rare but men in general still like to provide and girls still look for some type of security. but there will always be gold diggers lol
Like it or not that's the game.. the older he is and younger she is the bigger his wallet has to be... why do you hate those girls so much... after all their day will come when sugar daddy gets sick of their nagging and sagging assets and they get kicked to the curb. . usually where they sit and hate on the new model
When I was 31 I got with an 18-year-old. She was not ugly, nor fat. She interested in my mind... and my body... and where I would take her in both domains. And I did.
This is why you let him pay you for your company and don't let him use you, because you won't be beautiful forever, go sit down little girl you don't understand life.
When they are both happy with that deal and nobody gets hurt, I dont see anything wrong with it. I would not want such a "relationship", but I dont judge those who do.
All women ask their men for their money. It doesn't matter how old they are.
They expect to be on the title to the house, they expect a car, they expect to be the beneficiary of life insurance, they want a credit card and their name on the bank accounts.
I'm attracted to an older guy. My previous relationship, he is 10 years older than me. That doesn't mean I'm attracted to his money etc. I'm an independent girl
Too young to answer it. Although, I won't date gold diggers
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It's rare to find a girl who won't ask for your money no matter how old you are. Hell, they don't even do you the courtesy of asking for it, they just expect it.
There's biological reasons why older men prefer younger women and younger women prefer older men... It's about what the two genders find attractive. Fertility, genes, parental skills, ability to provide for the family (wealth etc), ability to protect the family (power etc) and so one and so forth... Most of things that women find appealing in men just tends to build up with age while most of the things men prefer in women tends to reach a peak with fairly young women. Of course there's *some* things for each gender that behaves the other way around, but still, on average older men and younger women tends to make more sense in that regard...
@Losalt Yes, I understand why older men want younger women. My point is that if we're going to excuse men for following their biologically-driven sexual preferences (for youth) we shouldn't shame women for their biologically-driven sexual preferences (for money), as the person is doing in this question.
Another note to the Original Poster: "Don’t they know that looks don’t last forever and they’ll probably be replaced like nobody’s business when they reach their 30s and 40s?" Here she's admitting that men have a preference for younger woman.
Asker says that these young women are "entitled". But why are older men - according to this asker - entitled to a woman's youth without providing anything in return?
These are sexist double standards to be accepting of men's sexual preferences, but not women's
+mistixs There's a difference between wanting money for your own use and being attracted to a wealthy partner because he can be a good caretaker for your children. It actually makes *biological* sense to differentiate the two too. The later is a good trait in a mother. The former... Well, that kind of behaviour can lead to others getting too little resources to manage. And in small clans (what we evolved in) where everyone is related to everyone it reduces the chance of our genes being spread (through other members of the clan then your own partner, since those genes have probably already spread throughout the whole clan by now) It makes sense to select against that.
Regarding sexism... Possibly. I personally don't mind when a older woman pair up with a younger man. But I find it harder to swallow when someone just cares about personal wealth...
@Losalt "There's a difference between wanting money for your own use and being attracted to a wealthy partner because he can be a good caretaker for your children."
I could say "there's a difference between wanting a young fertile partner to be a healthy gestator for your children, vs wanting a young fertile woman just to have sex with"
While you got a point as far as the ethics is concerned. I'm not sure I agree on the biological side though... Sex is mainly a way for our genes to motivate their host body to reproduce. That said, we and the bonobos both have a social dimension to sex too, with sex being meant to strengthen relationships within our groups and not just for reproduction.
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i dont think its rare but men in general still like to provide and girls still look for some type of security. but there will always be gold diggers lol
Like it or not that's the game.. the older he is and younger she is the bigger his wallet has to be... why do you hate those girls so much... after all their day will come when sugar daddy gets sick of their nagging and sagging assets and they get kicked to the curb. . usually where they sit and hate on the new model
Money for sex has been the nature of male-female relationships for a while now.
Looks don't last for ever so make it count while you still have it. That's their Motto.
A young damn girl ain't fuckin with an older man because of old dick and his looks. Be realistic.
Nope, a 27-45 year old guy is still pretty darn attractive.
When I was 31 I got with an 18-year-old. She was not ugly, nor fat. She interested in my mind... and my body... and where I would take her in both domains. And I did.
This is why you let him pay you for your company and don't let him use you, because you won't be beautiful forever, go sit down little girl you don't understand life.
@asker just ignore this nasty, spiteful little troll, every question it answers it posts a nasty and sarcastic and ridiculing comment.
@martinxcv I know you are but what am I? you think you know me so well.
You are like a child, pathetic
Yes im in a relationship with a younger girl (22yo) n she is v independent
When they are both happy with that deal and nobody gets hurt, I dont see anything wrong with it.
I would not want such a "relationship", but I dont judge those who do.
All women ask their men for their money. It doesn't matter how old they are.
They expect to be on the title to the house, they expect a car, they expect to be the beneficiary of life insurance, they want a credit card and their name on the bank accounts.
I sure as hell don’t, thank you very much.
Did your daddy ever pay for the roof over your head?
I see you are in Singapore. The home of the 4 C's. You know what I mean. Singaporean women want a man with 4 Cs.
Condo
Cash
Car
Career
Nice try, I’m not singaporean.
Only entitled gals are, and princesses aren't what ya want... Have a queen and treat her like one, not a princess
Sooo so many times I've had them made me for money right off the get-go some of them I haven't even met they want to do it online I'm like no
I have flirted with a lot of girls and a lot of girls and flirted with me ask me if I have it I'll send them something
I'm attracted to an older guy. My previous relationship, he is 10 years older than me. That doesn't mean I'm attracted to his money etc. I'm an independent girl
Too young to answer it. Although, I won't date gold diggers
It's rare to find a girl who won't ask for your money no matter how old you are. Hell, they don't even do you the courtesy of asking for it, they just expect it.
Sometimes I wonder why they are interested is it experience maybe I don't have any money so.
I haven't met a girl like that, I heard that's an l a thing
Well I've know only a few younger girls and out of them all, only one asked.
Hows it any better than the fact that these older men want young women?
There's biological reasons why older men prefer younger women and younger women prefer older men...
It's about what the two genders find attractive.
Fertility, genes, parental skills, ability to provide for the family (wealth etc), ability to protect the family (power etc) and so one and so forth...
Most of things that women find appealing in men just tends to build up with age while most of the things men prefer in women tends to reach a peak with fairly young women.
Of course there's *some* things for each gender that behaves the other way around, but still, on average older men and younger women tends to make more sense in that regard...
@Losalt Yes, I understand why older men want younger women. My point is that if we're going to excuse men for following their biologically-driven sexual preferences (for youth) we shouldn't shame women for their biologically-driven sexual preferences (for money), as the person is doing in this question.
Another note to the Original Poster: "Don’t they know that looks don’t last forever and they’ll probably be replaced like nobody’s business when they reach their 30s and 40s?" Here she's admitting that men have a preference for younger woman.
Asker says that these young women are "entitled". But why are older men - according to this asker - entitled to a woman's youth without providing anything in return?
These are sexist double standards to be accepting of men's sexual preferences, but not women's
+mistixs
There's a difference between wanting money for your own use and being attracted to a wealthy partner because he can be a good caretaker for your children.
It actually makes *biological* sense to differentiate the two too.
The later is a good trait in a mother.
The former...
Well, that kind of behaviour can lead to others getting too little resources to manage.
And in small clans (what we evolved in) where everyone is related to everyone it reduces the chance of our genes being spread (through other members of the clan then your own partner, since those genes have probably already spread throughout the whole clan by now)
It makes sense to select against that.
Regarding sexism...
Possibly.
I personally don't mind when a older woman pair up with a younger man.
But I find it harder to swallow when someone just cares about personal wealth...
@Losalt "There's a difference between wanting money for your own use and being attracted to a wealthy partner because he can be a good caretaker for your children."
I could say "there's a difference between wanting a young fertile partner to be a healthy gestator for your children, vs wanting a young fertile woman just to have sex with"
While you got a point as far as the ethics is concerned.
I'm not sure I agree on the biological side though...
Sex is mainly a way for our genes to motivate their host body to reproduce.
That said, we and the bonobos both have a social dimension to sex too, with sex being meant to strengthen relationships within our groups and not just for reproduction.