Would you rather be CRAZY RICH or DEEPLY IN LOVE?

[coachTanthony]

Crazy Rich

Deeply In Love

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It's a close race!

[Words_and_Wisdom]

Being crazy rich would eliminate all my struggles to meet my needs and set me free financially.
While I did recently discovered my girlfriends, if I was single I would have much more time on my hands to search out true love if I don't have to spend 8 hours a day, 5-6 days a week working for someone else.

[coachTanthony]

Makes sense!

[21feminist]

Even if you're in love. The chick's gonna dump you if you're broke anyways. Plus as insanely rich man there's also an insanely rich woman who'd fall in love with you anyways. Don't see the point in falling deeply in love now when you could always do that later.

[DizzyDesii]

Crazy rich. Everytime im deeply in love, the other person doesn't meet me halfway. So if they loved me just as much then i’d choose love. But if im the only one super in love, then i rather be rich

[coachTanthony]

Even if they were too who knows how long it would last right? It's a risk either way.

[DizzyDesii]

I really want love though. I just dont wanna be the only one in love

[coachTanthony]

I hear ya !

[DizzyDesii]

Thank for mho

[PrincessPie]

Crazy rich right now, plus deeply in love unless reciprocated is hell lol.

[PrincessPie]

I just reading the comments now you say it is reciprocated the other way, id actually pick deeply in love

[coachTanthony]

Look lets be honest.. LOVE is always a risk reciprocated or not.

[PrincessPie]

oh it is lol being in love can literally make people go insane

[coachTanthony]

Yeah you can lose love just like you can lose money LOL so just depends on what you want to take the risk on! LOL

[Zion666]

Trol-lo-lol

[Some_Goof]

Carzy rich. Me having money doesn't makes me a robot or an unemotional person. I can still fall deeply in love.

[jennifer_bloom]

I'd rather be deeply in love. Everybody likes money but money can only buy comfort, it cannot buy happiness and often times having too much money corrupts you or the person you are married to.

[Adam_INTJ]

But having too little emitters your partner, especially if it's a woman.

Women invent reasons why their man has ruined their world even when it's not his fault.

"Go look for a job lazyass! We might actually be able to pay rent if you weren't so lazy!"

"Honey, I have a job..."

"No excuses, you're too lazy! Now fix the dishwasher!"

"Go harp on some other guy, I'm done with this"

Money solves.

[Allie_Oops]

Crazy rich. Every time I loved someone it blew up in my face.

[thesongwentonforever]

The classic question; I'll take the road less travelled and go for the money.

I may probably sound like a snob, but I WANT to go on trips, experience services like nice food, security, and so on. I'm not ostentatious, but I do like nice things, and nice experiences. I can meet and socialize with people on the way. Last, but primarily, I'll make sure that my family is straight; give my parents the option to retire early, and make sure that they have the best care possible when they grow old.

If I end up with excess money that I don't know what to do with, I'll start a scholarship fund, enrichment programs for kids and teens in need, and into research to cure diseases, likely. Love is amazing, don't get me wrong, but romantic relationships are on the back burner for me.

[ColoradoKid]

I have been deeply in love 2 times in my life and hurt both times. The first time I was deeply in love we got pregnant and she passed away from a blood clot that traveled from her lungs to her heart. She was 4 months pregnant. So it was no fault on either of us. The 2nd time she couldn't handle my feminine side and I tried to change it and she couldn't handle my poor health that stopped me from working. After a year I got on disability which helps but I would rather be able to work. So now I would like to try being insanely rich.

[BrittBratt2416]

Love over everything, some of the riches people on the planet aren't happy cause they don't have real love in their lives. Robbin Williams, Chester bennington, kurt Cobain, Chris Cornel, Jonghyun, Whitney Houston, all these people have one thing in common: They had money, they were rich and had many of people that adored them. What else do they have in common? 5 of them took their lives and 1 of them had a issue with drugs that resulted in their death, there also not here on this earth anymore. Meaning you can have all the money in the world, but its still not going to make you less depressed, less angry, less lonely. It might keep you from financially struggling but it doesn't feel the void that is missing in people's lives, and that's God and love.

[Cammy137]

You can have depression and still be deeply loved/deeply in love and ultimately still wind up killing yourself. Love isn't a cure. Love isn't a treatment. Love is just another aspect of life.

[whyisitso]

Some years ago I would have answered without hesitation "deeply in love". Now i started thinking. I want to enjoy the moments of meeting and the awkward getting to know each other. I wouldn't want to just jump into it. I have gotten too comfortable with being alone. Even if money isn't something I crave as much as love, I say "crazy rich". Then I could help all the poor and live doing the things I love without problems with money. Maybe I could meet the guy of my dreams later.

[AllyKat1218]

I’d rather be in love. I’d get bored with having so much money and no one to share it with. And a two income household can still offer a comfy living. We won’t be able to jet off anywhere when we wanted too but spending time with him , especially if I’m deeply in love, would make up for it anyway. I’m a hopeless romantic obviously.

[dreamstar72]

Being in true love is the most wonderful experience you could ever have, however without money you will slowly drift apart. Then again having to much will sometimes cause some to fall out of love. So you need a balance of love and money to be truly happy and in love, but even with this balance sometime love is lost. So actually having money is a easier way to find love. Being deeply in love can fade over time, but being crazy rich will last a lifetime. Aren't we taught to think of the future?

[Anonymous]

I think crazy rich. Provided I was fairly certain that I wouldn't lose it (I could diversify and live off some small "dividend"). I would build a life I wanted. Now, if I never had love, I think that would be pretty bad... but somehow, I think that if I was crazy rich that "love" would find me. It might be fake, but it'd be a temporary diversion until I found out.

To have love might not last. Knowing my luck I'd get a brief taste of it, and she'd die some horrible death 6 months later. Some fatal disease or freak aneurism or something, where it'd be taken away instantly.

At least with money, if I was in a relationship, I could do prenups to protect myself a little from gold diggers. And I would have to assume it wasn't real love... There'd be little question. But at least I could carve out a live independent of a woman, and at least get some enjoyment out of that.

[Ayer93]

Don't care too much about money. Just want an easy going job, that allows me to travel often and pay for the things I want in life. If I had to choose though, I'd rather HAVE love than RICHES. If it's just being deeply in love (unrequited) then I'll take the riches.

[Lilyanony]

Deeply In love, there's not a lot we actually need, but we feel at our richest when we are loved desired and nurtured. We have the strongest of immune systems when we feel loved. We are confident when we are fulfilled and fulfilling another life.
We are able to cope with stress and all of lives obstacles when we feel loved. Trust me. I'll take love any day. And maybe do with what I have and work harder for us both.

[devilman666]

Maybe it's just because I'm a romantic, but this is extremely pleasant to read!

[Lilyanony]

@devilman666 thank you, well that's just my outlook on life really. I'm here for love and I have a lot to give.

[devilman666]

I can see that! I agree with a lot of what you said, and just love how beautiful it all sounded. Just wanted to let you know that it resonated with me. :)

[mottingdog]

Money doesn't buy you happiness. Sure, I can move out, be independent, spend as much money as I want on games on Steam, but depression will eventually catch back up to me from loneliness and a feeling of isolation by my wealth.

[Ayer93]

You're wise for your age. Money does give you the ability to live comfortably though. As long as you are not living struggling to pay the bills and barely being able to spend on leisure, money is not important.

[silverqueen]

Deeply in love. Definitely. Wealth will only bring short term happiness and I won’t be satisfied because that wealth won’t be the product of my hard work. Deeply in love can last forever and that’s more precious.

[buffdude_1719]

Crazy rich plus i can find love later lol you’re deeply in love doesn’t mean that the other person is also the same with you

[coachTanthony]

Let's say they are... does your answer change?

[buffdude_1719]

If they are then yes. I don’t really need to be crazy rich

[awkwardman]

Im going with crazy rich. Being cheated on a few times. Not to mention almost stabbed by a guy she was cheating on me with. Not seeing much of this "love" people speak of. Not to mention I can't find any good single women. So money all the way! at least I could get my nieces and nephews nice presents.

[Leimarie]

Neither. If I was crazy rich I’d have tons of relatives coming out the woodwork to ask for money. And being deeply in love may be nice at first, but at the same time love can blind you.

[devilman666]

I don't care that much for money. Making minimum wage rn, would be nice to make a little more so I could spend money and still have some to save, but I don't care about being rich. I keep enough to pay my bills and keep myself alive, and usually spend the rest on myself and my friends.

[shadyslav]

cuz you stayin rich or blowing all your cash depends only on you but getting your heart broken is a two edged knife

[coachTanthony]

Love is risky

[PinkMichae]

If I could only have one it would be love. I could go a lifetime without being rich. I'd dred a lifetime without love.