If you fool around on a first date, do guys lose respect for you? (Page 2)
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When I'm dating someone new, he has to wait 60 days before we have any type of sexual contact.
Yes, men do lose respect for you
Whether you like it or not but most guys will lose respect, either directly or subconsciously. Only those who have a hard time getting a girl close to them because of insecurities, anxiety and shit, might not.
It's how you present yourself over the span of dating, but you're an adult, there's no shame in knowing what you want.
Why do I got thumbs up from females but some random guy doesn't like it.
doesn't matter to me. i've done sexual things on the night of first dates too because we were both horny AF since neither of us has been laid for months and i didn't lose respect for them either
Only if you’re with the wrong guy, I wouldn’t worry too much about it.
Nope, never. I wouldn’t even entertain the idea. The moment that person wants to fool around, I’d leave.
If a guy never calls you again after being sexual on the first date, then he was going to do it anyway. If a guy really likes you, being sexual early on won’t make him run away.
Generally I would say no, but it depends on how the night was before and after. If there is a strong connection during the date, then no way would I lose respect for the other person. However if it was only kinda mediocre, then definitely, as it just comes off as being easy.
If it's dating me then yes, especialy because dating me was a virgin.
However normal me, baptised into sex now? Nah, I'd probably be thinking about that freaky sexy chick for the rest of the week.
Depends on the guy. I would because I'm not looking for a fuck buddy I'm looking for a relationship but other guys probably wouldn't care
I don’t, I’m actually flattered that you wanted to on the first date, I’ll know you like me a lot already so I’m definitely interested in seeing you again. Some guys will think you’re to easy and feel you’ve been with a lot of guys so it could backfire but the same can happen after a few dates if nothing happens then too , then we can lose interest and feel there is nothing there
If a guy wanted to "fool around" with me on the first date, I'd leave and there'll be no second date. I'd just lose respect for him. Some guys are probably this way as well.
Yes because you seem like someone that's so easy to get into bed with, theirs no challenge. Your like any other girl he has banged.
I feel every guy varies. But me personally, it would be a sign that it went well. I would be exstatic if a girl let me finger her on a first date. Just don't let it get to physical, to fast. It could hurt your relationship.
Yes. That just means you’re a “pump and dump” slut. No self respecting man wants to have it that easy. Of course, most of us won’t reject you, but we won’t want to have a serious relationship with you.
Overreacting, just dont let other guys know you usually get your pussy out on a first date.
It depends on the situation but I don't think that even having sex on the first date would make him loose respect.
Depends on the guy. He probably will. He probably won't. Sex on the first date makes you seem easy. But if the both of you were going for the whole just sexually relations thing then that is okay.
I believe they do even if they date you for years after. They always think she slept with me the first night bluh
I, wouldn't say so. Depends on how much chemistry there is. Maybe he just really likes you, and felt he had to make a move or lose you? Talk to him. Find out how he feels.