If you fool around on a first date, do guys lose respect for you? (Page 3)
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Yes it does.. well for me I'd like it to be 2 weeks before anything happens. Compatibility is more important than sex... Some guys do that and just don't call the girl after that but I like to respect girls
Overreacting. We don't lose respect. You were just going with the flow of the evening and engaging in what was pleasurable to you both at the time.
I don't lose respect for women on a date who fool around doesn't it just mean that they are nervous and normally the second date goes better I like acting silly around women it shows my soppy sensitive side
I’ve done the same thing. I’ll message you to talk about it. I feel like he lost respect for me... even though he claimed everything was fine. MEN LIE. That’s literally all we need to know about men.
That's just the type of men that you date, lok
@Anton86 I think it’s my entire generation
I personally would have not fooled around with you on the first date however I wouldn't shun you for trying and if everything else went good would be looking forward to our next date
It depends on the guy. It doesn't change a thing for me. I still respect her just as much.
most my first dates have gone that way and it never influenced my thoughts on a girls characther
Most guys try to fool around just to test how easy you are. Its a shame that guys do that. Its not so much a losing respect thing as a trophy thing. They look at it like they're achieving something rather than building up to that moment they just want to put it away.
I don't think so but do things because you feel a connection not because everyone else does it.
I fooled around on the first date with my first boyfriend. Your a grown ass woman
I respect a girl more, who holds out for a while. It lets me know she doesn't have sex with every guy that happens to come along.
Well if he sees you with another guy the immediate thought it. "Well she's out here racking up her body count, easy for everyone. I'm not special."
i never done that before, and never will, but if a woman wants to do it with me, i would dump her right at that moment
I sure would. Those girls are only good for screwing then dumping. That's about it. Anything longer term than a short lust fling is sort of out of the question for me.
Exactly. Why do they think we’d stick around if they don’t take themselves seriously. Girls who don’t value themselves can’t expect to be valued by others. These are the girls who get used for sex and then they complain about everything.
I would be more into a girl as a person than ever even thinking remotely about fooling around.
that just no, be nice, respectful, and just have a swell time, simple.
Yes more like both men and women lose respect not just ladies. Why are women the ones under the microscope
I lose respect for a woman who tries to get me into bed to me makes me think she only after one thing that sex I got have trust her and love her fully before I go that far.
Overreacting. However, if you are looking for a meaningful relationship try avoiding that on the first date.
I don't. I don't get subtle hints at all, so a girl getting physical is about the only way I can tell for sure she's interested.
I dig fun to go girls, so I wouldn’t knock you down one bit.