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Should I return the car my ex boyfriend bought me after we broke up? (Page 4)
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It is a big gift and he might be in a different position after splitting. If it is not going to cause you huge problems to return it I'd have a talk with him and see what he thinks.
If you broke up with him then you should probably give it back. If he broke up with you then keep it.
He bought you a car after you broke up?
I dint think you should have accepted it.
To your update: returning it would definitely prove your not a gold digger.
Lol is that all you got out of the update
I’m not trying to “prove” anything and I feel like you may have reading comprehension issues. THE FIRST PART OF My update was directed at you not the second honey.
I would! I would have hard time to even accept the gift... a car is a lot. I'd feel super guilty for having it so I'd return it back to him
No, y should u. He gifted u as a departure gift. To remember him. No, u can't hurt his feelings like that.
If someone gifts you an item, they’re not entitled to have it back even if the relationship goes sour
If he paid for it then the right thing, not necessarily the legal thing, would be to return it. So that he holds no leverage over you.
You might be able to buy the cat from him. If he lets you just keep it he's nuts lol. But if he's a super rich guy maybe he won't care if you keep it
If he legally bought the car for me then no, if he let me borrow or gave me a car he no longer wanted then yes.
And my name is on the papers
Give it back irrespective of what he says. That's just me. I wouldn't want any memories.
I guess depends if you guys broke up on good or bad terms, and how much time between the car gift and the brake up was.
I true gift would not be recalled. Whatever it meant when it was given is how it would stay. Even if I strongly disliked you now. I loved you when I gifted it. That fact can not change.
If he gave it to you then it's yours, but if you feel like you should discuss it with him then do so, otherwise gifts are no longer the gifters property.
I would return it. Throwing money at someone to "buy them back" as an attempt to rectify whatever wrong they did shows now understanding or lessons learned on their part.
Especially if it's not already paid for, you definitely need to get his opinion on whether he wants it back. Either way though you should not assume that it's yours to keep.
If he bought it for you and its on your name then its yours so why would you return it?
Is he still making payments on it? If so; return it.
If it's his fault you broke up (cheated lied etc ) keep it
If it's your fault give it back
it needs to go to whoever it's name is under so I'd find that out first then make the decision
I would let him decide what he wants to do
If the car is in his name he can take the car back
If the car is in your name than you are good to go.