I know exactly how you feel trust me I'VE BEEN THERE. You probably think if you eat your going to be fat, its not going to happen! Everyone needs to eat it's part of living if eating made you fat everyone in the world would be. I bet your not happy either are you? I used to sit at home in my room all the time being sad and thinking if I just lost ten more pounds I'd be happy but the more weight I lost the sadder I got and the fatter I felt. I'm not trying to lecture you at all but I'm just promising if you find some friends who care about you you'll realize that you don't need to be that skinny and believe me you'll be so much happier. Please consider this I was like that for like three years. I don't know what brought me to overcome it but my life is so great now I've never been happier. <3
And generally speaking, most guys prefer a soft body. So a bit of chub is always nice.
So if your showing classic signs of anorexia: I.E., constantly tired, skeletal like appearance, weakness...a guy won't really go for you based on appearances.
Guys generally don't care what you look like so long as you look healthy. Being "skinny" doesn't really matter in the long run for them.
In order to lose weight you must eat. Your skinny but you may not have any strength or muscle. The healthy way is the best way plus you might just have a bad self image of yourself you must cherish your body.There's nothing wrong with wanting to be fit but honestly your just hurting your body. I bet your body is crying out its asking you to feed it its crying for some food you might have control over your body but your hurting it. that's really sad same with large people either or its abuse. self neglect. I feel sad for your body. Goodluck child
try limiting yourself to 500 to 600 calories a day you'll stay thin and healthy...best way is to just hit the gym not starve yourself...being unhealthy makes you more vulnerable to diseases and sickness and if your body doesn't have the strength to fit off these bugs you could die.
honey its good to be skinny but not that skinny. you need some professional help that is not good or healthy for your body at all. If you want to be skinny, healthy and attractive to men, I say eat 3 meals a day, exercise everyday and get really fit! there's no need to not eat to be skinny.
Uh its not what has become of America. Its actually about the backlash against the feminist movement of the 1960's and societies attempts to stifle women by making them feel inferior.
Im gonna tell you right now I used to be anorexic && swore on God && heaven that I was the cutest thing. But I never got any play with guys UNTIL I gained my weight back. The ironic part is I thought guys likes skinny, bone thin girls, but they don't girl. trust
On a side note though... studies show that eating actually helps you stay skinny... as opposed to not eating. Just food for thought for you.
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I have had a lot of success with eating healthy and working out. High protein, low carbs, and cardio. Starving yourself will be worse for your metabolism in the long run. Try an omelette. Food is good for you... I'm not saying eat pizza and donuts.
girl being anerexic is not fun I know that for guys that can be a turn off and if you have to starve yourself to stay skinny, there is something inside of you that you need to look at, and true beauty is inside, true beauty is not weight, there's a way to be skinny and healthy without starving and compromising your health, and when you don't eat, your body loses nutrients and its harder to loose weight that way. you should have all your meals everyday and you should also be having your protiens, veggies, fruits, wheats etc. I think you get the point.
Yes we care, we would encourage you to eat or get help. And so what if you don't care, what you're doing is dangerous. Lectures is what you're going to get.
So you don't want lecture so I won't give you one, but from what I've read and it's a lot. Men tend to want women tha look "healthy". That doesn't mean superskinny or fat, it just means healthy in proportion to that particular girls body. Also men Have different ideas of what beautiful is on a women, you can't please them all, only one, and if you can't please him then he's not the one.
i recomend telling seeign a doctor or a guidance councelor about your anorexia. for most guys, if they really care about you then they would be concered about this. but if theyre just in it for other reasons then they wouldn't care at all hope this helps
Being anorexic is really unhealthy. Girls that eat LOOK a lot more attractive than girls that don't eat (or eat extremely little)
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My girlfriend deals with chronic anorexia and at one point was down to 75 pounds (before I started dating her) and first of all, being anorexic is not a f***ing conscious decision. It is a serious mental disorder that is caused by protein and cerebral blood flow imbalances, also with other problems that have to do with the nervous system. It's a serious issue, not something that a dumb bitch like you can use to use as a f***ing crutch. And by the way, a girl who is ACTUALLY anorexic eats 3 times a day every day, but strives to keep her daily calorie intake under 1000. You're f***ing stupid and selfish, you've got a f***ing personality disorder, not an eating disorder. F***yourself.
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I know exactly how you feel trust me I'VE BEEN THERE. You probably think if you eat your going to be fat, its not going to happen! Everyone needs to eat it's part of living if eating made you fat everyone in the world would be. I bet your not happy either are you? I used to sit at home in my room all the time being sad and thinking if I just lost ten more pounds I'd be happy but the more weight I lost the sadder I got and the fatter I felt. I'm not trying to lecture you at all but I'm just promising if you find some friends who care about you you'll realize that you don't need to be that skinny and believe me you'll be so much happier. Please consider this I was like that for like three years. I don't know what brought me to overcome it but my life is so great now I've never been happier. <3
Yes. Yes they do.
Guys want someone healthy.
And generally speaking, most guys prefer a soft body. So a bit of chub is always nice.
So if your showing classic signs of anorexia: I.E., constantly tired, skeletal like appearance, weakness...a guy won't really go for you based on appearances.
Guys generally don't care what you look like so long as you look healthy. Being "skinny" doesn't really matter in the long run for them.
In order to lose weight you must eat. Your skinny but you may not have any strength or muscle. The healthy way is the best way plus you might just have a bad self image of yourself you must cherish your body.There's nothing wrong with wanting to be fit but honestly your just hurting your body. I bet your body is crying out its asking you to feed it its crying for some food you might have control over your body but your hurting it. that's really sad same with large people either or its abuse. self neglect. I feel sad for your body. Goodluck child
try limiting yourself to 500 to 600 calories a day you'll stay thin and healthy...best way is to just hit the gym not starve yourself...being unhealthy makes you more vulnerable to diseases and sickness and if your body doesn't have the strength to fit off these bugs you could die.
honey its good to be skinny but not that skinny. you need some professional help that is not good or healthy for your body at all. If you want to be skinny, healthy and attractive to men, I say eat 3 meals a day, exercise everyday and get really fit! there's no need to not eat to be skinny.
I think it is gross when I can see a girls bones for me that is way too skinny!
I say go ahead and pig out. You'll be happier as a jolly fat woman than as a starved waif.
Hooray for jolly fat women!
wow this is the best +/- rating I've ever gotten
I think its disgusting, personally. (you asked)
its like being with one of those holocaust victime you see on the documentaries about WWII...
... or, some whacked out coke fiend... or a cancer victim.
honestly, I refuse to feel sorry for someone who won't eat. They deserve to die in my book.
do you need classes?
"This is food... you EAT it..."
"EAting, is the act of mashing food with your teeth then letting it slide down your throat"
this is natural selection at work, in my book...
Fine,if I deserve to die,then I will
lol... wow.
i can't believe someone would F**king die to be skinny. WHAT THE HELL HAS BECOME OF AMERICA.
Uh its not what has become of America. Its actually about the backlash against the feminist movement of the 1960's and societies attempts to stifle women by making them feel inferior.
"Do guys care if a girl is anorexic?"
Since being anorexic can lead to death, yes we do care.
Im gonna tell you right now I used to be anorexic && swore on God && heaven that I was the cutest thing. But I never got any play with guys UNTIL I gained my weight back. The ironic part is I thought guys likes skinny, bone thin girls, but they don't girl. trust
Yep, I care.
On a side note though... studies show that eating actually helps you stay skinny... as opposed to not eating. Just food for thought for you.
I have had a lot of success with eating healthy and working out. High protein, low carbs, and cardio. Starving yourself will be worse for your metabolism in the long run. Try an omelette. Food is good for you... I'm not saying eat pizza and donuts.
girl being anerexic is not fun I know that for guys that can be a turn off and if you have to starve yourself to stay skinny, there is something inside of you that you need to look at, and true beauty is inside, true beauty is not weight, there's a way to be skinny and healthy without starving and compromising your health, and when you don't eat, your body loses nutrients and its harder to loose weight that way. you should have all your meals everyday and you should also be having your protiens, veggies, fruits, wheats etc. I think you get the point.
Yes we care, we would encourage you to eat or get help. And so what if you don't care, what you're doing is dangerous. Lectures is what you're going to get.
So you don't want lecture so I won't give you one, but from what I've read and it's a lot. Men tend to want women tha look "healthy". That doesn't mean superskinny or fat, it just means healthy in proportion to that particular girls body. Also men Have different ideas of what beautiful is on a women, you can't please them all, only one, and if you can't please him then he's not the one.
i recomend telling seeign a doctor or a guidance councelor about your anorexia. for most guys, if they really care about you then they would be concered about this. but if theyre just in it for other reasons then they wouldn't care at all hope this helps
hmm yes I do care, how you can live by just eat apple in a week.
Being anorexic is really unhealthy. Girls that eat LOOK a lot more attractive than girls that don't eat (or eat extremely little)
My girlfriend deals with chronic anorexia and at one point was down to 75 pounds (before I started dating her) and first of all, being anorexic is not a f***ing conscious decision. It is a serious mental disorder that is caused by protein and cerebral blood flow imbalances, also with other problems that have to do with the nervous system. It's a serious issue, not something that a dumb bitch like you can use to use as a f***ing crutch. And by the way, a girl who is ACTUALLY anorexic eats 3 times a day every day, but strives to keep her daily calorie intake under 1000. You're f***ing stupid and selfish, you've got a f***ing personality disorder, not an eating disorder. F***yourself.
Just for the record, anorexics don't all eat three times a day, every day. And their calorie intakes differ too.
Annorexic girls are disgusting, no offence. If you're so self conscious that you can't even eat food... Disgusting.