Is it arrogant for a guy to say "it's your loss" after getting rejected? (Page 2)
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I understand why you said it but it could have come off cocky or a bit rude. I guess it would depend on how someone took it
I didn't say it though because i was hurt. And some girls are calling me nacissistic
No I know you didn’t say it because you were hurt I think you said it because it was a self explanatory comment and you generally meant it, but some people would think you’re saying it because you felt offended or whatever. People are retards if they think you’re narcissistic for a comment like that.
Yes. It's very egotistical and that's the impression you gave her by saying it. All that does is reinforce that she made the right choice in rejecting you.
Where's this fedora you speak of?
Well the lack of fedora was supposed to be the visual proof that you're wrong.
Yes, I'm overweight. I admit that entirely, but you'd be surprised how non-white-knight-ish I am.
Also I didn't mean to say she DID make the right decision by rejecting him.
All I meant was she at least has it in her head that she made the right decision.
For all I know maybe the asker is a great guy, but saying "Your loss," makes you look bad.
Or maybe it is a funny way of regaining your shattered pride after a rejection.
Seriously, tell me you have never said something like this:
"So are you coming?"
"No, sorry."
"Well, your loss."
No it doesn't. It shows that he's not a beta Momma's boy faggot orbiter. Bravo to him !
It's extremely arrogant, because you are literally telling her that she missed out on a big prize of a person, when there's likely a reason she turned you down.
Well if you actively think about it... It's A bit cocky to say "your loss". Better Substitute to a friendlier implication like this: "this was our chance to be together".
I personally find it funny when a guy tells me that, like yeah sure lol
Yes, you sound like you are full of yourself. Or like you are trying to retain something that isn't there.
I wouldn't say it's cocky, though maybe a bit unnecessary.
Of course. What is more disturbing is that you're not sure.
And it doesn't matter what you say - nothing is relevant if she doesn't want you. It's a dead end, a dead issue. NEXT!!
It's totally arrogant. Like there aren't better guys around than him. Why else would I have rejected him.
It's unexpected and not exactly polite but not punishable.
Yeah, when girl does that, it's OK, but when guy… Oh, boy. All hell break lose.
Just…don't talk to her.
Better to just smile and say, "Okay. Have a nice (day, afternoon, evening, whatever time of day it is)" A lot of women get hit on constantly, so try to see it from their perspective.
Yes, just say, "O. K. but if you ever change your mind."
The greatest gift you can give to someone is your time. So yeah when someone does not appreciate it then it is their loss.
I say it’s totally cool bro, you should keep your confidence up. There’s plenty of fish in the sea.
Hang on with that comment. Women don't deal with rejections too much.
I’ve dealt with rejection and I’m glad they happened because I found my other half.
Eh maybe a little bit understandable. It is lame though lol
What's the point of saying it? Why not just move on?
I wouldn’t read too much into it, I’d prolly say the same
You said it all, it's a way to more easily move on, our brains try to blame external factors. It can be true or not but they'll do it regardless
If you really mean it, confidence is implied but not necessarily arrogance.