Dating Is it arrogant for a guy to say "it's your loss" after getting rejected? (Page 3) Anonymous (25-29) Follow FacebookTwitterWhatsApp 10 Is it arrogant for a guy to say "it's your loss" after getting rejected? Post Opinion 82 Opinion Like Share Follow 1 likes
ohayoo Follow Xper 6 Age: 25 +1 y lol just dont think about it coz arrogant or not, whats gonna change? 0 0 Reply
RBrandon Follow Xper 3 Age: 24 +1 y It's just kind of gay to say lol and it prevents you from maybe getting them at another point in time 1 0 Reply
CoffeeWC Follow Guru Age: 27 +1 y 966 opinions shared on Dating topic. Depends on how you say it. And the reasons she rejected you. 0 0 Reply
legalboxers Follow Master Age: 47 +1 y 3.8K opinions shared on Dating topic. pretty much.. you get rejected... you move on... dont pass go, dont pay $200... 0 0 Reply
Factshurt90 Follow Yoda Age: 33 , mho 32% +1 y 468 opinions shared on Dating topic. It’s arrogant for anyone to say that. Just accept the loss and move on. No need to be condescending. 3 1 Reply Asker +1 y I did accept it. But if she can't see something good in front of her, then oh well, onto the next one. Reply
Aiko_E_Lara Follow Master Age: 26 +1 y 1.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. Just strong not arrogant. But sometimes it depends on the tone of his voice 0 0 Reply
Edanurus Follow Explorer Age: 38 +1 y No, if you said something like 'you'll never find someone as good as me' then sure. 0 0 Reply
BeyondPlusUltra Follow Xper 5 Age: 28 +1 y Yes, if anything you are trying to justify your own loss. 0 0 Reply
Anonymous (25-29) +1 y Lol yeah, to me it does sound arrogant. It's like a self-defense system to product yourself from getting rejected. 0 0 Reply
Schoepro Follow Xper 2 Age: 26 +1 y I think its more confident than arrogant, as long as you say it in a „normal“ way 1 0 Reply
ninikan Follow Xper 2 Age: 22 +1 y Yes it is because everyone has the right to select or accept and reject.. we should move forward 1 0 Reply
Anonymous (18-24) +1 y Sure, but why do you care? She rejected you. Saying something douchy is the best way to deal with it 0 0 Reply
whatstheanswer Follow Xper 2 Age: 24 +1 y It is arrogant and ignorant. Only boys play games. Men will one show respect for your choices 0 0 Reply
ObscuredBeyond Follow Guru Age: 41 , mho 41% +1 y Depends on how well you can back up your claim. 1 0 Reply
Zahraxx Follow Xper 3 Age: 21 , mho 38% +1 y yeah dont put salt on the wound damn 1 1 Reply Zahraxx +1 y They KNOW it was their loss Reply
pleasestopthis Follow Guru Age: 30 +1 y 1.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. Not necessarily arrogant, just lame. Just be cool. Nobody has the obligation of liking you back. 0 4 Reply Asker +1 y Didn't say i was obilgated. Here we go with the entitlement talk. What's so bad about saying that? Reply Asker +1 y She was obligated* Reply pleasestopthis +1 y I think it shows that you're pissed about her rejection. And we can't just assume she's losing something since she may have something better. Reply Asker +1 y I wasn't pissed though. I said it in a calm manner. I don't hate or get angry a girl for rejecting me. I moved on with pride Reply
SngBirdy Follow Xper 7 Age: 29 +1 y 384 opinions shared on Dating topic. It makes you look like an insecure loser 1 0 Reply
NerdInDenial Follow Master Age: 34 +1 y 3.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. Who cares what the woman thinks? She rejected you 2 0 Reply
newPython Follow Xper 6 Age: 54 +1 y I don't think it's a nice thing to say. 0 3 Reply Marinepilot +1 y So what? He's establish boundaries. Reply newPython +1 y @Marinepilot You asked me for my opinion and I gave it. Reply Marinepilot +1 y And I gave mine. Reply
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lol just dont think about it coz arrogant or not, whats gonna change?
It's just kind of gay to say lol and it prevents you from maybe getting them at another point in time
Depends on how you say it. And the reasons she rejected you.
pretty much.. you get rejected... you move on... dont pass go, dont pay $200...
It’s arrogant for anyone to say that. Just accept the loss and move on. No need to be condescending.
I did accept it. But if she can't see something good in front of her, then oh well, onto the next one.
Just strong not arrogant. But sometimes it depends on the tone of his voice
No, if you said something like 'you'll never find someone as good as me' then sure.
Yes, if anything you are trying to justify your own loss.
Lol yeah, to me it does sound arrogant. It's like a self-defense system to product yourself from getting rejected.
I think its more confident than arrogant, as long as you say it in a „normal“ way
Yes it is because everyone has the right to select or accept and reject.. we should move forward
Sure, but why do you care? She rejected you. Saying something douchy is the best way to deal with it
It is arrogant and ignorant. Only boys play games. Men will one show respect for your choices
self defence mechanism id think
Depends on how well you can back up your claim.
yeah dont put salt on the wound damn
They KNOW it was their loss
Not necessarily arrogant, just lame. Just be cool. Nobody has the obligation of liking you back.
Didn't say i was obilgated. Here we go with the entitlement talk. What's so bad about saying that?
She was obligated*
I think it shows that you're pissed about her rejection. And we can't just assume she's losing something since she may have something better.
I wasn't pissed though. I said it in a calm manner. I don't hate or get angry a girl for rejecting me. I moved on with pride
It makes you look like an insecure loser
Who cares what the woman thinks? She rejected you
I don't think it's a nice thing to say.
So what? He's establish boundaries.
@Marinepilot You asked me for my opinion and I gave it.
And I gave mine.