Are really hot guys usually players? (Page 2)
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Just because someone is attractive does not mean they are trying to use you. There are plenty of attractive men that are happily married and loyal to their wives and children. In the dating world I would say it is about the same as with any average guy. Some are going to be players, others are going to be relationship material, and some are totally awkward and do not even know how to talk to women.
They're more likely to be for sure, but no guarantee. ALL guys would like to be able to have sex with multiple hot girls. But reality is that very few will have the opportunity to. Or they would have to work much harder than they are willing to in order to be able to. So most guys don't
Yeah, because they know they can get any girl they want so why limit them self to one chick when they can have the whole coop?
Well... see except that's what almost every guy thinks about/wants. The ones who don't simply don't think they can get away with it/aren't desirable enough.
But I thought girls usually have many more requirements than just looks. They can get any girl just based on their looks?
So to blame it on them being "really hot" is basically entirely beside the point.
@cavmanier I think a lot of girls tell themselves otherwise but in the end, if Ryan Gosling made themselves available to them, it wouldn't matter much to them if he was a bit of an asshole even if they tell the world and themselves "I won't date assholes." Lol sure you won't.
@Anon-ymous1 This would all be much easier to understand if I could understand what a hot guy is vs what isn't. I think it varies a ton from girl to girl or they hide it super well. I can't see anything physically attractive about a guy though.
@cavmanier It doesn't vary as much as they'd have you believe.
@Anon-ymous1 Girls into me think I'm "hot." Of course they would though. I figure girls end up with guys they find that way. Maybe that's often not true. We can't really know though because most girls are top secret about this.
They're more likely to be just because they usually can a lot more than other guys. It would be easier for them. But of course that doesn't mean all of them are.
They're more likely to be because they know they can get with pretty much any girl they want and guys tend to like that. But not all attractive guys are like that I imagine
No, that's based a lot on temperament. Besides, how do you define a "player"? Is a guy who dates a lot automatically a player? What if the guy is totally honest about his intentions, and women still jump into bed with him?
those that aren't, are taken :P i mean if a guy "can" fuck around cause women droll after him, you can bet your bottom dollar he will. and if he's actually one of the few that prefers commitment for some reason, he's certainly not single.
It depends on the guy. However it seems that society has or will try to make such individuals believe that they should act a certain way or move by that stereotype.
No just like If a woman is "hot" doesn't mean she fake.
That is an individual thing not one size fits all.
I think some guys are just aware of how good looking they are and they develop that “I can get any girl I want” attitude.
No, we are quite the honest family people it's just the crazy amount of pussy material that appears out of the blue =D
Yeah a lot of hot guys “know” they are hot and they use it to their advantage. Which in turn makes them unattractive douchbags, at least to me anyway
As long as they're upfront, it's all good though?
Depends on what you mean by player. We're usually promiscuous because we can be, But many do so ethically (not pretending to be monogamous with any of our partners)
I thought that was what a player was, someone who tries to sweet-talk the girls he's with into thinking they're his one and only... when he really has like 2 or 3. So, is what I'm thinking of a WOMANIZER? Or... is that a "fuckboy"?
I was just clarifying because I've seen "player" used to mean any promiscuous guy. But I agree with your definition.
well if you're a player... what's your definition of a "fuckboy" or a "womanizer?" My friends with benefits doesn't strike me as a stereotypical "player" even though he has one night stands on occasion.
@DocilexElle Simple-- the definitions don't exist because those terms are worthless, irrational, and stupid.
@Anon-ymous1 who created them anyway?
@DocilexElle Dunno. People. Who created anything?
I don't think it has anything to do with physical appearance; if something, very good looking guys who also are players are SUCCESSFUL players, 'cause ugly guys cannot afford to keep doing this shit and will give up.
usually because every girl swoons over them and they get huge egos and then become players not always but usually
I know some hot guys here and they are totally not players.
Thank you
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Lol who, me?
What game hahaha I have zero lives in that game
Ahm ahm
Well I have to say, mostly yes
But can't generalize anything, you have some like me, who didn't even date
So life is full of surprises, don't assume anything till you make sure of it.
I dont think so. I know a few who don’t even know they’re hot.
Average guys cast a large net so might have a few on the go where hot guys can usually just focus in on one girl.
I don't think so. The stereotype is that they are, but it's certainly not entirely the case.