I had a mixed reaction to it. Half of me thought “how cute, she wants to claim me, that’s so sweet.” The other half thought “f*ck that, I told her from day one I don’t do relationships.”
I cut it off every time. I remember this one chick in particular made me think she was trying to move in with me. She didn’t do the typical leave a pair of panties on the floor or leave hair bands or a hair clip or whatever. She went above and beyond. I go to open my dresser drawer and find a nighty a few pairs of panties and some assorted lingerie. I was like “great.” Then a few hours later I went to get something from a drawer in my bathroom and found a toothbrush, some body lotion, like 2 tampons, and some perfume.
I was like “negative ghostrider.”
Called her and asked about it all. She told me it’s for when she comes over and stays the night. Granted she’d come over 2 or 3 times a week but I wasn’t having it.
With the one girl I also distinctly remember thinking “what’s next? Am I going to come home one day and find she has a moving truck outside.”
This is what does tend to irritate me about girls where it’s a friends with benefits type situation. I don’t lead them on. I always tell them when it comes up or from day one in some cases I don’t want anything serious involving commitment. They all agree and say they’re fine with it, then 9 times out of 10 the subtitle try to turn it into a committed relationship. I think they all think their vaginas have magical powers and I’ll change my mind after a month or two. I wish they could just understand we can hook up, we can have fun, even go places together but I don’t want to have to care what they do, who they do it with or where they are when I’m not with them, and likewise I don’t want them trying to control me. I won’t be wrapped around anyone’s finger.
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Yes. I've had girls leave things like that, including their bras.
Yeah. I had a girl piss in the kitchen corner once.
I had a girlfriend in the past do that all the time. It was mainly hair ties and sweatshirts.
They leave rubbish in you cars too, more irritating then anything
I like when they do this. It's nice to know they're interested and want to come back or that they want me all to themselves.
Yeah it's primal behavior on their part, and it also feeds my ego.
Likewise
Lol unless she is making me get a tattoo.. of her name.. leaving crap at my house doesn’t mean a thing
My ex did but rather unintentionally. She has just forgot one thing and I brought it to her back.
I don’t do it on purpose if I do.
So many things were "forgotten" in my car and my bedroom.
I doubt that happens. Girls probably think of other men 24/7.
Nope but she's worn my shirt to bed many times
Do claw marks and teeth marks count?
I haven't had that happen, I guess it makes sense now as she wasn't fully invested
Still happens. I like it
Every single damn time.
They just leave their panties
Savage xD
Several times.
What did you think when it happened?
I had a mixed reaction to it. Half of me thought “how cute, she wants to claim me, that’s so sweet.” The other half thought “f*ck that, I told her from day one I don’t do relationships.”
I cut it off every time. I remember this one chick in particular made me think she was trying to move in with me. She didn’t do the typical leave a pair of panties on the floor or leave hair bands or a hair clip or whatever. She went above and beyond. I go to open my dresser drawer and find a nighty a few pairs of panties and some assorted lingerie. I was like “great.” Then a few hours later I went to get something from a drawer in my bathroom and found a toothbrush, some body lotion, like 2 tampons, and some perfume.
I was like “negative ghostrider.”
Called her and asked about it all. She told me it’s for when she comes over and stays the night. Granted she’d come over 2 or 3 times a week but I wasn’t having it.
With the one girl I also distinctly remember thinking “what’s next? Am I going to come home one day and find she has a moving truck outside.”
This is what does tend to irritate me about girls where it’s a friends with benefits type situation. I don’t lead them on. I always tell them when it comes up or from day one in some cases I don’t want anything serious involving commitment. They all agree and say they’re fine with it, then 9 times out of 10 the subtitle try to turn it into a committed relationship. I think they all think their vaginas have magical powers and I’ll change my mind after a month or two. I wish they could just understand we can hook up, we can have fun, even go places together but I don’t want to have to care what they do, who they do it with or where they are when I’m not with them, and likewise I don’t want them trying to control me. I won’t be wrapped around anyone’s finger.
Happened a few times at my place and my car.
now that I think of it, Yeah..
I don't know if it's voluntary