Once a cheater always a cheater.. True or False? (Page 2)
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Once a cheater, always someone who has cheated in the past.
It's irrelevant whether the person cheats ever again, they have already cheated and thus lowered their value on the dating market against people who have yet to do so.
Never dated, but I'd say no, because I do believe people can change, but not everyone will and you can't always blame someone for not giving a cheater a chance.
I feel like it totally depends. Once you cheat it may become easier for you to lie and continue to cheat later on. But it depends on the person. If a person is depending and willing to change, they will.
Yes, I learned that the hard way. My ex cheated on me and we broke up, but then I went back to her thinking she wouldn’t do the same thing, and bam it seemed like cheating was the only thing she knew instead of actually working on the relationship.
No, everyone do the wrong things it does not mean cheater can't change it take time to change. Go into the deep what is the exactly problem why person is cheating again and again talk about this if person is happy with you then why he can go for cheating.
Really it depends on the situation at hand when somebody cheats. So no it is not black and white at all. People, like situations, do change. I know because I have experienced. So it's obviously possible that somebody won't always cheat just cause they have in the past ya.
I personally cheated but it was due to the feeling of being lonely and I was looking for confort front recent family death. Now I have enough know how to keep myself up to standard, meaning not cheat, and I don't blame too many for cheating people I can relate to the need for comfort.
Usually true, but communication is important and it depends on the individuals in the relationship. I would never enter a relationship with a known cheater expecting to be able to change them, but if they are open and honest I would likely give them a chance.
People never change. No matter what stories you hear or what people say.. nobody can change who they really are and what their traits are
I think so, they say a cheetah never changes it's spots.. It's a personality trait which I feel is very hard to change, some people just aren't faithful... It also depends on the relationship I guess.. If the guy is not that Into a girl maybe he has higher probability of cheating.
I don’t know... I feel like cheating is one of those things where if you have a habit of doing it, it’s a very hard thing to overcome.
I say this, i would have to give the person a chance, until they prove it otherwise. People change and grow up, you can't live in the past forever.
Depends on how you define cheater.
If a cheater is one who will inevitably cheat, then absolutely not.
If a cheater is one who has a higher risk of cheating, then no, not always. Maybe most of the time, though.
If a cheater is one who has cheated, then yes, obviously.
Just like once a murderer, always a murderer, but once a thief, not always a thief.
Yes, first time will be hard but after they get used to cheating they will always do it because it'll become one of their habits.
Good answer Miss Kitty
I have only been cheated on by 3 women in my lifetime but all 3 cheated on guys before me. I was foolish to think they would somehow change their ways just for me.
People never change FOR someone else. They can only do it for themselves.
@InTimoreDei Yes, lessons learned.
Facts. You cheat once it’s because you don’t have what they want they don’t love you if they did you’d be all they want. To say I want you and love you when clearly you don’t else you wouldn’t cheat is like saying I smoked last night but I promise I won’t tomorrow let’s be honest that person 90% will.
Almost always true, unless the is a major personal paradigm shift (which isn't common).
People are individuals and just because you got one who cheated doesn't mean all the others will or won't. Circumstances change and a boyfriend in these circumstances isn't gonna act the same as the last one, even under the same conditions.
The best indicator of future performance is past behavior. This is the cardinal rule for hiring-whether of an employee or a personal relationship. People can change but rarely do and never on something fundamental to their character.
I have always said what be do sexually determines if they are good or a bad person, trustworthy or not.
I said it on another post; I think people are capable of changing... but I'm not gonna be there expecting for them to change.