Slut-shaming is the practice of criticizing people, especially women and girls, who are perceived to violate expectations of behavior and appearance regarding issues related to sexuality. The term is used to reclaim the word slut and empower women and girls to have agency over their own sexuality.
It's ridiculous. It's a toss up which is the bigger offenders of doing this, too. Women I noticed can be VERY critical of other women. Women they do not even know. I get the feeling when guys do it, they do it more out of some perceived short coming they have within themselves- insecurity.
I was about to say i dont care because i ain't a slut and i dont slut shame other people, but i thought being a slut only meant a sleazy who sleeps with anybody and everybody... knowing people is being judged as a slut because of how they dress well eh maybe i have been slut shamed because of it but I don't know i dont really care still. As long as i ain't hurting nobody with the way i dress, i just couldnt care less of people who’d judge.
Biologically women want the best male they can get and pair bond with him. What has usually happened throughout human evolution theoretically is that those "high quality" men were less common and so they found themselves selected by many women and produce multiple offspring at once. This could be why men aren't slut shamed as often as women. I don't know
Anyway I think we should encourage monogomy and serial monogomy either. So do I like slut shaming? Not really, no, but I think it's better than the opposite; because polygamous societies do tend to be more violent. Plus what we've been doing as of late seems to brought us to where we've got more single parent American households right now two parent households. That's not good for children to say the least. So we should do a better job of encouraging commitment, seriousness, and responsibility and not merely the negative of slut shaming.
I have the mentality of men and women can love sex as much as the next person but i draw the proverbial line at sleeping with anything that moves
Tbh although i would never publocally slut shame. If i feel someone needed a dose of reality to kick theor arse into gear i wouldn't be afraid to bring it up and use it
You may call it a low blow. Thats cos it is, it would be used to snap someone out of it as it were
It happens and I'm not interested in stopping it. I don't agree or disagree with it because if someone is actually confident in their fashion choices, they wouldn't give a damn what other people think.
@wankiam Well, I do treat it with apathy. I simply don't care about what other people think, can't see why others think the same. If they truly chose what they wear of their own will, then I expect them to be proud of it, they shouldn't care what other people think.
yeah thats the bit i understand but if a girl is being verbally abused in the street or sexually harrassed because she has a short skirt i think thats a step too far and confident or not will obviously upset the one being shouted at
@wankiam If it was sexual harassment, then that's a different situation entirely and I'd agree a form of intervention is needed. Simply put, that's my general take on the whole thing.
If a woman is promiscuous and some one says as much, I see nothing wrong with that, your suppose to judge people on behavior and its part of existing in a society.
When single moms get off fucking welfare and when sluts stop getting tax paid abortions you may have a point but until then no. Sluts are causing the government deficits. They are worthless human garbage that's why no men want to wife them up.
Except they are. You're 18. I don't know what you get up to but the typical life of a slut is be a slut and then when you get to be in your late 20s to early 30s all a sudden you get bored of it and want a family. Youve had plenty of hot fun sexy men so you feel entitled to now marry a man like that. Except. No men like that will have you. The only men who want you are fat and broke and terrible in bed and not sexy at all. So what do you do? Annoy the shit out of us good looking successful men and berate us for not giving you a chance. But see... we already gave you a chance when you were 18 and you shot us down. Game over. Im sick of late 20s hos calling me pedophile and telling me im a wimp and getting in my face. y'all nasty asf at that point. Nobody wants your shit no more. Bye felicia. Utter worthless garbage with nothing to offer. On the other hand there are tons of girls from 18 to 24 that will date fuck or otherwise pay attention to me. So wtf do i want with some run through old lady.
Yes I’m 18. I dress however I want whether u call it slutty or modest. You can slut shame me all u want cause I couldn’t care less bout anyone’s opinion. However there are people out there who get deeply hurt by such comments so what do gain from it? No one is forcing to date any “run through old lady”.
let me guess... You have been reject a lot by girls, feel bitter now and so you say that girls in late 20's are worthless as your way to get back at them for rejecting you. Something like that?
Look dude, girls can have their fun! That does not make them lose any value as a person or a life partner. Guys can fuck as many as they want right? Why girls can't? Let them do what they want with their lifes.
You really think they are doing anything wrong just for liking sex? As long as they are not in a relationship and they are using protection what is the problem?
@ThisIsMyOpinion Well you can marry some 30 year old who fucked 100 dudes. I think I will stick with a girl who never slutted around who is 20 instead.
My problem is these 30 year old skanks pester me all the time to date them. Then I tell them politely no and they get in my face or keep pestering me. Then I say well tbh I dont date hos or single moms and then they have a shit fit. Gtf out of my face dude is all i got to say to a ho.
1. Well I was in a relationship for 9 years. I am proud of that. 2. Men and women are judged differently. Facts. If you think its a double standard then I guess you are double standarding too when you think a man needs to protect his girlfriend. How dare you shame us. Maybe we feel like running and are scared. You know men are judged on that and women are not. Double standards exist for a reason. Simply being one doesn't mean its wrong.
I never said that a man needs to protect his girlfriend, and I don’t think I’ve shamed men or women for anything. I know that men get judged for things that women don’t get judged for, and I totally disagree with those things as well. So if you think I’m trying to attack men and defend women here, then you’re wrong.
Well I think men should be men and women should be women. I would shame a man for not protecting his girlfriend. In fact I told my buddy the other day he needs to drop some weight and go hunting with me. How he going to protect his girl if he is too overweight to run and can't shoot or get food if needed? But on the other hand many many many women expect us to do masculine things just as many many many men expect women to do feminine things. Not being a ho is one of those things that men find attractive more than almost anything else.
1. I really doubt that you have many girls after you. 2. Many girls are actually hotter in their late than early 20's. Gyms exist 3. People can be whatever they want and do whatever they want. As long as they are not hurting anyone is nothing of your business 4. You clearly have issues. Go work on them
@ThisIsMyOpinion 1. I can't help being attractive, and everything else in my life i've done mostly the right things. And if girls didn't want me so much maybe I would have to be less picky but at my age and where I am at I can afford to be as picky as I want. 2. IDGAF how hot a girl is. If you don't have morals and share my values, ya trash. 3. They can do what they want. And so can I. And I want to treat them like trash because I think they are trash. If they don't like it they shouldn't hang out with me or try to date me or anything like that at all. 4. I always am working on myself. Read every day, gym or other activity 5x a week, work to grow my business every day, practice at least one hobby every day. Anyone who does this year after year will be much more attractive for a relationship than someone who gets shitfaced and sleeps around constantly for a few years. Man or woman.
So everyone who has an opinion diferent then your's is trash? And you say you do not have issues? Right
So I guess I am trash since I don't think girls should be shamed for having one night stands.
Remembre when I said "As long as they are not hurting anyone is nothing of your business"? When you treat people like trash you are hurting them so no what you do isn't right.
Still you do you and nany girl that keeps coming for more clearly has problems too.
@ThisIsMyOpinion the thing about sluts is the more you treat them like trash the more they want you. They know they are trash and they respect a man who treats them like trash. If you date them or wife them up they think something is wrong with you for accepting them and then since they don't respect you for choosing them they will cheat on you for a dude who treats them like trash. Happens all the time. I literally have girls I've told to their face they are disgusting worthless human garbage and yet they still text me and want to hookup and stuff. This is typical slut behavior.
The sluts you talk about sound so stereotypical, the one who have so little respect for themselvess that is actually hard to believe, almost like they didn't exist...
I don’t know because im not a girl, But i think it still happens and i can understand it would be hard for a woman to ignore it and seems like the majority of slut shaming comes from other women which is just a harsh reality.
It a weird problem, I guess people don't like when someone gets a lot of people crushing on them or when people just have particular tast and date a lot of guys/girls cause they wanna find the perfect match.
People can do what they want, if you want to be a slut no problem, but people can criticize and you should expect it because all people are not on the same page. Society and people will not be the way you want it to be, this goes for everything.
i don't feel about it. could care less about this feminist agenda... but yes say no to sluts. it's not that sex is wrong, it's that the girls have this kinda "i'm a slut and fuck you if you don't accept me, you're just jealous." attitude that is REALLY annoying. there's nothing inherently right or wrong about being a slut. everyone is different and wants different things, but if you're only good at casual sex and not relationships, there's something wrong with you. END OF STORY
@Attractivegirl899 mostly women are affected, though there are attempts from the feminist movement to slutshame men, example, "fuckboy"and "player" - but these are fundamentally different things. Men DON'T like sluts - we might want to fuck them, but we don't want them in out lives, in fact we are repulsed by them. Women who call certain men "fuckboys" LONG for their company, even knowing they will be exploited.
As for whether women's ego is hurt by slutshaming, my experience tells me otherwise.
@Attractivegirl899 No. it doesn't. You can't wish away facts. You call a woman a slut, and if left to think for herself, her conscience WILL get the better of her. Just like you. Let me guess. You like being a whore, don't you? Collecting STDs, sucking stranger's dicks, being a disgrace, the scum of society... That's what you are. A dirty whore.
@Attractivegirl899 "Sluts are still able to fuck guys so why would they care?" Because they will be throw away like rags by mem when their beauty fades. And then they will transform from sluts to social outcasts.
"They don’t lol they are still able to get dick ya just mad you can’t be a slut" Men can't be sluts. And good luck ruining your own life, riding that dick caroussel. When you hit the wall, I'll laugh so hard at you ;-(
@Benedek why are young hot men having sex with women who’s beauty has faded? Get off the crack guy. You are obviously just jealous that these women won’t fuck you, you are also jealous that women are able to have sex with multiple hot guys. Being jealous is unattractive, probably why you are single now.
@Attractivegirl899 "why are young hot men having sex with women who’s beauty has faded?" They aren't, you just watch too many romcoms. Young attractive men are too busy fucking tight, young pussies.
"You are obviously just jealous that these women won’t fuck you" Fucking lol. Nah, I have better options than some dirty whore.
"you are also jealous that women are able to have sex with multiple hot guys." I am jealous of having the opportunity to be fucked by guys? Nah, babe, I'm heterosexual.
"Being jealous is unattractive" No. Being a used up slut is unattractive.
"yes you are also jealous at the fact that you can’t be a slut" I could actually be a player if I really wanted to, but I'm not about that life.
@Bened I know attractive guys aren’t yet that’s what you were trying to say which is stupid. How is being a slut unattractive when men are the main ones saying they would prefer to have sex with a slut? How is it unattractive when sluts are still able to fuck guys including guys like YOU who try to talk down on them? Pathetic jealous. You’re just not hot enough to be a slut.
@Attractivegirl899 "know attractive guys aren’t yet that’s what you were trying to say which is stupid." What? I don't understand you. That sentence has an unfinishes predicate.
"How is being a slut unattractive when men are the main ones saying they would prefer to have sex with a slut?" Men only want to pump and dump sluts. And that's how you have 3 abortions before the age of 30, and that's how you become a crazy cat lady. Because those men will move on, and you won't see them again. They got what they came for, and since you are a slut, you have nothing more to offer them.
Being a slut is like playing poker with only all-ins - you might take one or two rounds, but sooner or later you will find that you have lost everything.
"Pathetic jealous." Fucking lol. The only jealous person is you becayae you've realised you're wasting away your dignity, and you'll be a used up cumrag by the time you realise maybe you should have been more austere and chaste.
"You’re just not hot enough to be a slut." Is that supposed to be an insult or something?
@Bened your English is trash. You said hot young guys would sleep with ugly women I said they wouldn’t. “Men only want to pump and dump sluts” SLUTS ARE STILL ABLE TO FUCK GUYS. THEY DONT CARE ABOUT NEGATIVE HYPOCRITE OPINIONS AS THEY ARE STILL ABLE TO FUCK MEN. SO OBVIOUSLY THEY ARE NOT ATTRACTIVE. YOU ARE JUST JEALOUS THAT YOU can't SLEEP AROUND WITH PEOPLE THAT ARE ATTRACTIVE. Nor would sluts fuck you. You’re a joke, haha, sluts will probably still be able to have more sex than fuckboys. The jealousy is strong with you.
@Attractivegirl899 "your English is trash. You said hot young guys would sleep with ugly women I said they wouldn’t." Actually it seems YOUR English is trash. Let me quote you (and then myself): You: "why are young hot men having sex with women who’s beauty has faded?" Me: "They aren't, you just watch too many romcoms. Young attractive men are too busy fucking tight, young pussies." You: "You said hot young guys would sleep with ugly women I said they wouldn’t." Did you get a stroke halfway through the discussion? I heard sucking dick can cause dementia...
"SLUTS ARE STILL ABLE TO FUCK GUYS. THEY DONT CARE ABOUT NEGATIVE HYPOCRITE OPINIONS AS THEY ARE STILL ABLE TO FUCK MEN." So? I told you - you WILL care when you'll hit the wall, and you'll no longer be able to whore yourself out because you are ugly and old, and you will realise that you have no redeeming qualities. You'll be just a used up, dirty cumrag.
"SO OBVIOUSLY THEY ARE NOT ATTRACTIVE." Thank you for agreeing with me that sluts are not attractive ;-P
*SO OBVIOUSLY THEY ARE ATTRACTIVE TO GUYS. Meant to fix that lmao and I’m not gonna argue with a hypocrite you just can’t be right. Who would still let a so called slut smashed. “How you hating from outside of the club? You can’t even get in, let go”
@Bened no you just can’t sleep around. That’s like saying women literally can’t be bitches, bitches are dogs, yet men still call women bitches. Do you see how dumb you sound by saying men can’t be sluts? Many of you are desperate sluts. Fuckboy is the exact derogatory term for males who sleep around. It’s very obvious you are jealous of women who sleep around, as you can never in your wildest dreams get as much sex from hot people as them. Get over it.
@Attractivegirl899 Slut: 1) A woman who has many casual sexual partners. 2) A woman with low standards of cleanliness. Thus, a man can't be a slut.
"Fuckboy is the exact derogatory term for males who sleep around." No, it is a made up term by insecure, weak willed women to blame their promiscuity on men. Women are the gatekeepers of sex, therefore men can't be sluts - having sex is an achievemnt for them, bit a weakness.
"It’s very obvious you are jealous of women who sleep around" Why would I be jealous?
@Bened you and your stupid hypocritical sexist agenda will never make any sense. Many guys are desperate fuckboys. A slut will always be able to get into a relationship quicker than a fuckboy. Most apparent sluts have with hot guys while many fuckboys just fuck anything moving. That’s disgusting and those guys should be shamed. Get over it. Sluts will always win.
By the way fuckboy isn’t made up at all. It’s a 100% real word that describes a man that has many sexual partners. It’s a derogatory term for a reason, it’s not attractive at all.
I think it's dumb. If she wants some dick, let her get all the dick she can... As long as she's not getting people sick with STD's knowingly i think she can get all the dick she wants.
i think it's completely stupid, men love sex and don't get slut-shamed for having a shit ton of it, but when women have a ton of sex they are obviously sluts/whores xD i don't get it
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I just dont get it. How someone dresses or someone elses sex life doesn't impact you so maybe mind your own business.
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Slut-shaming is the practice of criticizing people, especially women and girls, who are perceived to violate expectations of behavior and appearance regarding issues related to sexuality. The term is used to reclaim the word slut and empower women and girls to have agency over their own sexuality.
It's ridiculous. It's a toss up which is the bigger offenders of doing this, too. Women I noticed can be VERY critical of other women. Women they do not even know. I get the feeling when guys do it, they do it more out of some perceived short coming they have within themselves- insecurity.
Just my thoughts.
I judge harshly but silently. I only voice my opinion if it affects me personally.
E. g. if a girl has a too high headcount or easy behaviour for my taste. I will then tell that this is a deal breaker for me.
It is their problem if they take offense. I am entitled to my own preferences based on any arbitrary criteria I make up.
Otherwose, I keep my opinion to myself, and, again, judge silently, but harshly.
If you dont shame them they will not change. And sluts love to tell good girls to slut it up. Misery loves company.
But I don't care about them. At all.
As in, as long as they do not cross me, I will have a good inner laugh then move on.
I don't give a fuck big enough to do something about them.
I was about to say i dont care because i ain't a slut and i dont slut shame other people, but i thought being a slut only meant a sleazy who sleeps with anybody and everybody... knowing people is being judged as a slut because of how they dress well eh maybe i have been slut shamed because of it but I don't know i dont really care still. As long as i ain't hurting nobody with the way i dress, i just couldnt care less of people who’d judge.
Its kinda funny thinking bout it lol.
It's disgusting and rude and mean beyond belief, Its something that needs to stop ASAP, Ladies just like to enjoy there youth while they can.
Biologically women want the best male they can get and pair bond with him. What has usually happened throughout human evolution theoretically is that those "high quality" men were less common and so they found themselves selected by many women and produce multiple offspring at once. This could be why men aren't slut shamed as often as women. I don't know
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Anyway I think we should encourage monogomy and serial monogomy either. So do I like slut shaming? Not really, no, but I think it's better than the opposite; because polygamous societies do tend to be more violent. Plus what we've been doing as of late seems to brought us to where we've got more single parent American households right now two parent households. That's not good for children to say the least. So we should do a better job of encouraging commitment, seriousness, and responsibility and not merely the negative of slut shaming.
and not serial monogamy either*
I have the mentality of men and women can love sex as much as the next person but i draw the proverbial line at sleeping with anything that moves
Tbh although i would never publocally slut shame. If i feel someone needed a dose of reality to kick theor arse into gear i wouldn't be afraid to bring it up and use it
You may call it a low blow. Thats cos it is, it would be used to snap someone out of it as it were
I think it's pathetic, whether a woman or man does the shaming.
It makes you look weak and insecure. It also reeks of jealously by men and women.
It happens and I'm not interested in stopping it. I don't agree or disagree with it because if someone is actually confident in their fashion choices, they wouldn't give a damn what other people think.
someone saying they either like or dislike something is one thing but if you are condoning verbal abuse thats totally different.
@wankiam Well, I do treat it with apathy. I simply don't care about what other people think, can't see why others think the same. If they truly chose what they wear of their own will, then I expect them to be proud of it, they shouldn't care what other people think.
yeah thats the bit i understand but if a girl is being verbally abused in the street or sexually harrassed because she has a short skirt i think thats a step too far and confident or not will obviously upset the one being shouted at
@wankiam If it was sexual harassment, then that's a different situation entirely and I'd agree a form of intervention is needed. Simply put, that's my general take on the whole thing.
thats cool, i just wanted to clear that up which is why i mentioned it.
If a woman is promiscuous and some one says as much, I see nothing wrong with that, your suppose to judge people on behavior and its part of existing in a society.
When single moms get off fucking welfare and when sluts stop getting tax paid abortions you may have a point but until then no. Sluts are causing the government deficits. They are worthless human garbage that's why no men want to wife them up.
No one is asking u to wife anyone up, just mind ur own business instead focusing too much on others..
Girls are not geting abortions left and right you know?
Except they are. You're 18. I don't know what you get up to but the typical life of a slut is be a slut and then when you get to be in your late 20s to early 30s all a sudden you get bored of it and want a family. Youve had plenty of hot fun sexy men so you feel entitled to now marry a man like that. Except. No men like that will have you. The only men who want you are fat and broke and terrible in bed and not sexy at all. So what do you do? Annoy the shit out of us good looking successful men and berate us for not giving you a chance. But see... we already gave you a chance when you were 18 and you shot us down. Game over. Im sick of late 20s hos calling me pedophile and telling me im a wimp and getting in my face. y'all nasty asf at that point. Nobody wants your shit no more. Bye felicia. Utter worthless garbage with nothing to offer. On the other hand there are tons of girls from 18 to 24 that will date fuck or otherwise pay attention to me. So wtf do i want with some run through old lady.
Yes I’m 18. I dress however I want whether u call it slutty or modest. You can slut shame me all u want cause I couldn’t care less bout anyone’s opinion. However there are people out there who get deeply hurt by such comments so what do gain from it? No one is forcing to date any “run through old lady”.
let me guess... You have been reject a lot by girls, feel bitter now and so you say that girls in late 20's are worthless as your way to get back at them for rejecting you. Something like that?
Look dude, girls can have their fun! That does not make them lose any value as a person or a life partner.
Guys can fuck as many as they want right? Why girls can't? Let them do what they want with their lifes.
You really think they are doing anything wrong just for liking sex? As long as they are not in a relationship and they are using protection what is the problem?
@ThisIsMyOpinion Well you can marry some 30 year old who fucked 100 dudes. I think I will stick with a girl who never slutted around who is 20 instead.
My problem is these 30 year old skanks pester me all the time to date them. Then I tell them politely no and they get in my face or keep pestering me. Then I say well tbh I dont date hos or single moms and then they have a shit fit. Gtf out of my face dude is all i got to say to a ho.
Then I guess you haven’t slept with many girls. Since you’re 32 and all..
1. Well I was in a relationship for 9 years. I am proud of that.
2. Men and women are judged differently. Facts. If you think its a double standard then I guess you are double standarding too when you think a man needs to protect his girlfriend. How dare you shame us. Maybe we feel like running and are scared. You know men are judged on that and women are not. Double standards exist for a reason. Simply being one doesn't mean its wrong.
I never said that a man needs to protect his girlfriend, and I don’t think I’ve shamed men or women for anything. I know that men get judged for things that women don’t get judged for, and I totally disagree with those things as well. So if you think I’m trying to attack men and defend women here, then you’re wrong.
Well I think men should be men and women should be women. I would shame a man for not protecting his girlfriend. In fact I told my buddy the other day he needs to drop some weight and go hunting with me. How he going to protect his girl if he is too overweight to run and can't shoot or get food if needed? But on the other hand many many many women expect us to do masculine things just as many many many men expect women to do feminine things. Not being a ho is one of those things that men find attractive more than almost anything else.
1. I really doubt that you have many girls after you.
2. Many girls are actually hotter in their late than early 20's. Gyms exist
3. People can be whatever they want and do whatever they want. As long as they are not hurting anyone is nothing of your business
4. You clearly have issues. Go work on them
@ThisIsMyOpinion
1. I can't help being attractive, and everything else in my life i've done mostly the right things. And if girls didn't want me so much maybe I would have to be less picky but at my age and where I am at I can afford to be as picky as I want.
2. IDGAF how hot a girl is. If you don't have morals and share my values, ya trash.
3. They can do what they want. And so can I. And I want to treat them like trash because I think they are trash. If they don't like it they shouldn't hang out with me or try to date me or anything like that at all.
4. I always am working on myself. Read every day, gym or other activity 5x a week, work to grow my business every day, practice at least one hobby every day. Anyone who does this year after year will be much more attractive for a relationship than someone who gets shitfaced and sleeps around constantly for a few years. Man or woman.
So everyone who has an opinion diferent then your's is trash? And you say you do not have issues? Right
So I guess I am trash since I don't think girls should be shamed for having one night stands.
Remembre when I said "As long as they are not hurting anyone is nothing of your business"? When you treat people like trash you are hurting them so no what you do isn't right.
Still you do you and nany girl that keeps coming for more clearly has problems too.
@ThisIsMyOpinion the thing about sluts is the more you treat them like trash the more they want you. They know they are trash and they respect a man who treats them like trash. If you date them or wife them up they think something is wrong with you for accepting them and then since they don't respect you for choosing them they will cheat on you for a dude who treats them like trash. Happens all the time. I literally have girls I've told to their face they are disgusting worthless human garbage and yet they still text me and want to hookup and stuff. This is typical slut behavior.
The sluts you talk about sound so stereotypical, the one who have so little respect for themselvess that is actually hard to believe, almost like they didn't exist...
@ThisIsMyOpinion sometimes i dont believe it either but then i get a text or something so crazy i have to show my boys and we just fucking laugh.
I don’t know because im not a girl, But i think it still happens and i can understand it would be hard for a woman to ignore it and seems like the majority of slut shaming comes from other women which is just a harsh reality.
It a weird problem, I guess people don't like when someone gets a lot of people crushing on them or when people just have particular tast and date a lot of guys/girls cause they wanna find the perfect match.
People can do what they want, if you want to be a slut no problem, but people can criticize and you should expect it because all people are not on the same page. Society and people will not be the way you want it to be, this goes for everything.
Exactly. Best reply so far. Everyone is just whining because they wanna act how they want with no repercussions.
i don't feel about it. could care less about this feminist agenda... but yes say no to sluts. it's not that sex is wrong, it's that the girls have this kinda "i'm a slut and fuck you if you don't accept me, you're just jealous." attitude that is REALLY annoying. there's nothing inherently right or wrong about being a slut. everyone is different and wants different things, but if you're only good at casual sex and not relationships, there's something wrong with you. END OF STORY
I love it. It's the only thing keeping women's ego from shooting through the ceiling.
Women aren’t the only ones who get slut shamed, and it does nothing to women’s egos either
@Attractivegirl899 mostly women are affected, though there are attempts from the feminist movement to slutshame men, example, "fuckboy"and "player" - but these are fundamentally different things. Men DON'T like sluts - we might want to fuck them, but we don't want them in out lives, in fact we are repulsed by them. Women who call certain men "fuckboys" LONG for their company, even knowing they will be exploited.
As for whether women's ego is hurt by slutshaming, my experience tells me otherwise.
@Bened affects both sexes and it just makes women want to sleep around more lmao
@Attractivegirl899 No. it doesn't. You can't wish away facts. You call a woman a slut, and if left to think for herself, her conscience WILL get the better of her. Just like you. Let me guess. You like being a whore, don't you? Collecting STDs, sucking stranger's dicks, being a disgrace, the scum of society... That's what you are. A dirty whore.
Sluts are still able to fuck guys so why would they care? They don’t lol they are still able to get dick ya just mad you can’t be a slut
@Attractivegirl899 "Sluts are still able to fuck guys so why would they care?"
Because they will be throw away like rags by mem when their beauty fades. And then they will transform from sluts to social outcasts.
"They don’t lol they are still able to get dick ya just mad you can’t be a slut"
Men can't be sluts.
And good luck ruining your own life, riding that dick caroussel. When you hit the wall, I'll laugh so hard at you ;-(
@Benedek why are young hot men having sex with women who’s beauty has faded? Get off the crack guy. You are obviously just jealous that these women won’t fuck you, you are also jealous that women are able to have sex with multiple hot guys. Being jealous is unattractive, probably why you are single now.
@Bened yes you are also jealous at the fact that you can’t be a slut because you aren’t attractive enough. Get over it Average guy
@Attractivegirl899
"why are young hot men having sex with women who’s beauty has faded?"
They aren't, you just watch too many romcoms. Young attractive men are too busy fucking tight, young pussies.
"You are obviously just jealous that these women won’t fuck you"
Fucking lol. Nah, I have better options than some dirty whore.
"you are also jealous that women are able to have sex with multiple hot guys."
I am jealous of having the opportunity to be fucked by guys? Nah, babe, I'm heterosexual.
"Being jealous is unattractive"
No. Being a used up slut is unattractive.
"yes you are also jealous at the fact that you can’t be a slut"
I could actually be a player if I really wanted to, but I'm not about that life.
@Bened I know attractive guys aren’t yet that’s what you were trying to say which is stupid. How is being a slut unattractive when men are the main ones saying they would prefer to have sex with a slut? How is it unattractive when sluts are still able to fuck guys including guys like YOU who try to talk down on them? Pathetic jealous. You’re just not hot enough to be a slut.
@Attractivegirl899
"know attractive guys aren’t yet that’s what you were trying to say which is stupid."
What? I don't understand you. That sentence has an unfinishes predicate.
"How is being a slut unattractive when men are the main ones saying they would prefer to have sex with a slut?"
Men only want to pump and dump sluts. And that's how you have 3 abortions before the age of 30, and that's how you become a crazy cat lady. Because those men will move on, and you won't see them again. They got what they came for, and since you are a slut, you have nothing more to offer them.
Being a slut is like playing poker with only all-ins - you might take one or two rounds, but sooner or later you will find that you have lost everything.
"Pathetic jealous."
Fucking lol. The only jealous person is you becayae you've realised you're wasting away your dignity, and you'll be a used up cumrag by the time you realise maybe you should have been more austere and chaste.
"You’re just not hot enough to be a slut."
Is that supposed to be an insult or something?
@Bened your English is trash. You said hot young guys would sleep with ugly women I said they wouldn’t. “Men only want to pump and dump sluts” SLUTS ARE STILL ABLE TO FUCK GUYS. THEY DONT CARE ABOUT NEGATIVE HYPOCRITE OPINIONS AS THEY ARE STILL ABLE TO FUCK MEN. SO OBVIOUSLY THEY ARE NOT ATTRACTIVE. YOU ARE JUST JEALOUS THAT YOU can't SLEEP AROUND WITH PEOPLE THAT ARE ATTRACTIVE. Nor would sluts fuck you. You’re a joke, haha, sluts will probably still be able to have more sex than fuckboys. The jealousy is strong with you.
@Attractivegirl899
"your English is trash. You said hot young guys would sleep with ugly women I said they wouldn’t."
Actually it seems YOUR English is trash. Let me quote you (and then myself):
You: "why are young hot men having sex with women who’s beauty has faded?"
Me: "They aren't, you just watch too many romcoms. Young attractive men are too busy fucking tight, young pussies."
You: "You said hot young guys would sleep with ugly women I said they wouldn’t."
Did you get a stroke halfway through the discussion? I heard sucking dick can cause dementia...
"SLUTS ARE STILL ABLE TO FUCK GUYS. THEY DONT CARE ABOUT NEGATIVE HYPOCRITE OPINIONS AS THEY ARE STILL ABLE TO FUCK MEN."
So? I told you - you WILL care when you'll hit the wall, and you'll no longer be able to whore yourself out because you are ugly and old, and you will realise that you have no redeeming qualities. You'll be just a used up, dirty cumrag.
"SO OBVIOUSLY THEY ARE NOT ATTRACTIVE."
Thank you for agreeing with me that sluts are not attractive ;-P
*SO OBVIOUSLY THEY ARE ATTRACTIVE TO GUYS. Meant to fix that lmao and I’m not gonna argue with a hypocrite you just can’t be right. Who would still let a so called slut smashed. “How you hating from outside of the club? You can’t even get in, let go”
@Attractivegirl899
Why would I be a hypocrite? Men can't be sluts. End of story.
@Bened you can’t be a slut. Too unattractive. Unless you go buy prostitutes, which makes you more unattractive.
@Attractivegirl899 I can't be a slut because men literally can't be sluts.
@Bened no you just can’t sleep around. That’s like saying women literally can’t be bitches, bitches are dogs, yet men still call women bitches. Do you see how dumb you sound by saying men can’t be sluts? Many of you are desperate sluts. Fuckboy is the exact derogatory term for males who sleep around. It’s very obvious you are jealous of women who sleep around, as you can never in your wildest dreams get as much sex from hot people as them. Get over it.
@Attractivegirl899
Slut:
1) A woman who has many casual sexual partners.
2) A woman with low standards of cleanliness.
Thus, a man can't be a slut.
"Fuckboy is the exact derogatory term for males who sleep around."
No, it is a made up term by insecure, weak willed women to blame their promiscuity on men. Women are the gatekeepers of sex, therefore men can't be sluts - having sex is an achievemnt for them, bit a weakness.
"It’s very obvious you are jealous of women who sleep around"
Why would I be jealous?
@Bened you and your stupid hypocritical sexist agenda will never make any sense. Many guys are desperate fuckboys. A slut will always be able to get into a relationship quicker than a fuckboy. Most apparent sluts have with hot guys while many fuckboys just fuck anything moving. That’s disgusting and those guys should be shamed. Get over it. Sluts will always win.
By the way fuckboy isn’t made up at all. It’s a 100% real word that describes a man that has many sexual partners. It’s a derogatory term for a reason, it’s not attractive at all.
I think it's dumb. If she wants some dick, let her get all the dick she can... As long as she's not getting people sick with STD's knowingly i think she can get all the dick she wants.
Lol female likes and male dislikes... Shocker.
i think it's completely stupid, men love sex and don't get slut-shamed for having a shit ton of it, but when women have a ton of sex they are obviously sluts/whores xD i don't get it
I just dont get it. How someone dresses or someone elses sex life doesn't impact you so maybe mind your own business.
How i see it is that only people who dont command authority are slut shamed. If you can pull of that outfit, nobody will slut shame you.