Are average guys just out of luck when it comes to LOVE? (Page 2)
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It depends on the man there are exceptions but for the most part we just want to fuck and not commit that way it is so disturbing that girls today are willing to be so easily used and not making boys be men.
Be yourself. As cliche and cringey as it may sound. Just be yourself. (Unless yourself is being rude and disrespectful then you'll have to change first
I will take an average guy and go to a bar and ask 10 women.. would you sleep with him? They all say no. Well then I need to change him. They all say.. no no don't do that.. all he has to do is be himself.. he will be okay.
I say awesome.. then will you sleep with him? Do you know anybody that will sleep with him being just himself? They say.. probably not but come on... I am sure there is someone out there that is willing too.
oh hell no. This is why I am a dating coach to fight against the status quo of "Just be yourself" because it doesn't work.
I thought we were talking about dating not sleeping with someone you just met.
If women don't want to sleep with the guy then they don't want to date him either.
I disagree. If you go to a bar maybe, but I'm sure a girl would be more willing to sleep with someone after they've dated
You are missing the point. It's okay. Thanks for the comments!
You asked about LOVE not sex. Having sex with someone you just met is not love
Again, you are missing the point. I never said have sex right then and there. Would they ever consider having sex with this guy? Would these women ever DATE the guy? The words doesn't matter.
if they say no then I need to change him. He needs to grow and get better. Being yourself isn't always being your best. So telling someone to be themselves is cliche because most times it doesn't work.
They just need to work a little harder, that is all.
https://youtu.be/34Sk3msLMQA
Women tend to get attracted on different things , it’s hard to say. As a guy who is above average on looks , highly intelligent , funny , one women still rejected me and went to a guy who is not so good looking , or intelligent but is a cricket player (basic)...
Not at all. Have a look around and you'll notice plenty of average looking guys with girlfriends. I don't even know where is that place you live in where only hot guys have girlfriends.
I'm what people would call an average or even below average guy. But its all in the attitude of the person. I have seen this and even experienced it
Some of the men I hear talk or complaining about their unluck with dating, I hear some mention they don't really have any job or kind of work, a car, and/or still living with parents.
Related to that, I do think some of them have certain disabilities or may be socially weaker in general.
not in my opinion. I think average are nice and just overall regular good people, although lets face it, everyone has some thing that makes them above average! I say!
you dont gotta be "all that" just be yourself, if a partner can't be ok with that then they're the one
Nope. Have great personality, be smart and interesting and talk about what you are passionate about. Dress simple but stylish and threat her with respect.
Average means unattractive for the most part when it comes to guys. Once the top 20 percent of men are taken women will settle for less and maybe find them to be better in the end.
Us average girls are just as unlucky
https://youtu.be/gJ4ssSs_zk8
The average guy can land an average girl, just how it works, if your having issues your probobly below average
No. The average guy is landing the below average girl thinking she is as just as average as him. She is not. She is lower. The shit has changed... . nobody sees it.
I find my self average I guess. And I say yes as I not had much luck at love at all. As I would like to be married again soon.
I don't think they are either tht they're not meeting the right people
Nope, just realise your limits and work within them
l don't think so all guys are born the same and so are girls
Judging by your display picture you are ugly as sin, so yeah they are.
Stop negging me I am not interested in MEN. It's okay if you are dude!
"Average." This ranking is based on?
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No thanks. One person's average is another person's beacon of light. Paradigms of existence should not be this simplistic past age, IDK… let's say 32? But if that is where you're operating from, that's cool too. So back to your thing, would girls date "Average?"
Girls who have a great career, awesome social life and is considered average looking will NOT and I REPEAT will not date average guys. Why would they and most of all why should they? They deserve the best of the best.
Says you.
Your responses are lackluster and boring me. So get lost Squidward! Don't have time for nonsense.
Everyone has hope.
Yes they do!
... only because women can be spoiled a lot.