Are average guys just out of luck when it comes to LOVE? (Page 3)

[Americanteengirl]

Obviously not as average looking girls exist

[DeadRosesWithWine]

Accept for the fact that even average girls still will choose to get with guys of a higher scale. An average looking guy with average weight still have to choose people in the lower bracket & cannot choose someone equal.

[Americanteengirl]

Depends sometime they do, and no duh average looking guys can choose someone in their league. The only thing is that guys are very desperate, so y’all are usually not the ones choosing.

[DeadRosesWithWine]

My point was guys usually for the most part are not allowed to choose someone in their league or higher, they have to choose lower, but women can get guys higher or same if they want to.

[Americanteengirl]

You aren’t in reality but whatever.

[DeadRosesWithWine]

K. lol

[bethgurl]

Masterbation or scratching

[DDpsy]

Define "average guy"?

[coachTanthony]

URBAN DICT: Ironically, the type of dude who a girl can spend the rest of her life with. He could be standing right in front of her and she'll overlook him at first because girls have a tendency to fall for broken bad boys. The average guy is most likely to be friend-zoned unless you're Ron from Kim Possible. Props to an average guy who scores a girlfriend!

[DDpsy]

Well now that is one dumb urban dictionary definition.

[coachTanthony]

So far you have added a ton of value here! LOL

[DDpsy]

A sane definition for the "average guy" that actually takes into account the meaning of the word average as I see it around here and pretty valid in most of North America.

-Around 5'10''
~normal body weight
~a wage around the average which can be anywhere from 45k to low six figures.
~at least some college
~his own place.
~some car
~a bunch of good and bad personality traits that general balance themselves.
~40% to 68% of guys are pretty similar to him.

Yeah that would be average guy. if those guys are out of luck, well most women can get their average assess and get bent.

[es20490446e]

Yes.

[coachTanthony]

Well there you go! Women have the ball in their court. Any man who thinks they are going to attract an average looking woman who has a great career and an awesome social life is MISTAKEN. They need to step up.

[DDpsy]

That is not true though. The average woman does not have neither a "great career" nor an "awesome social life". The average woman has a moderately satisfying job that in the end earns less than what the average guy gets (The earning pay gap is real). The average women is moderately dissatisfied and moderately depressed due to her moderately misconceived world view that is constantly fueled by social media and excessive exposure to female targeted success porn.

The average women has a few friends and gets moderate validation using social media and online dating. The average woman gets a moderate amount of attention and a moderate number of hook ups with average guys and sometimes slightly above average players after which she goes and asks moderately dumb questions on GAG. The average woman is as moderately displeased, moderately insecure and moderately fucked up socially as the average guy.

What you are calling "average women" is an extraordinary woman that is not also a model. Not very many of those around.

[coachTanthony]

The earning pay gap is not real. You are wrong. My last 8 bosses spanning over 20 years have been women who made much more then me. So look... lets just agree to disagree here. I don't feel like getting into the weeds with someone who doesn't understand real world. Moderate is not what describes average women these days. Sorry but you are just wrong.

[DDpsy]

Yes. I think that is a good idea because you clearly appear not to understand the real world or have any sense of its scale or scope.

[es20490446e]

As someone who frequently dates hot chicks, I feel both of you are right somehow.

What I usually find is that these women are both miserable and have quite high standards. On one hand they get very happy just to date someone who isn't not too bad, but rapidly they become unsatisfied about it.

In reality I guess what happens is this: you don't fall in love with someone because of being perfect, but most likely because of the time you spend with them.

It's not about affinity, it's mostly about familiarity. But people are just too impatient these days, everything is just too fast.

[DDpsy]

@es20490446e I think you misunderstood my intent a bit. I do not think the average woman is miserable. I think both the average woman and the average guy which make up the majority of people do just pretty fine in most aspects of their life. They all have their good times and their struggles. They are also both bombarded with vast amounts demoralizing negativity just to be sold cheap validation the next. it's good business I guess.

[es20490446e]

You don't know how bad you are till you are no longer there.

[NovissimumVirorum]

Yeah, it's even worse for a 0/10 like me

[coachTanthony]

You are a 7/10 in looks. Stop trolling.

[HereIbe]

No, but sub-average whiney bitches are

[jimmy2]

Its sure seems like that