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I couldn't have said this better. Give them an MHO OP
Ellie I haven't understood well your opinion.I can't see if you say that anybody should to pursue anyone and let everything to random.Or if you say both people must work to get it, and not let the work to only one person.
What this has to do with cheating?😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂 simply the fact people feel unappreciated and act on it. Sorry I maneuvered to cheating I just felt like it was necessary to explain consequences from a good portion of men’s reasoning... #addtothechase
If they're physically attracted to you, then obviously they're interested in getting to know you and potentially taking things further if there's chemistry. Your logic isn't really there. Maybe start going for the ones that "stare at you" rather than guys you randomly go for then saying that the ones you go for are never interested.
but how do you know if a man is not putting the effort because he really is not interested in the woman not because he is is wating for the lady to reciprocicate?
@kitty71 if he's not putting any effort, assume he doesn't like you. That's what guys do. If she puts no effort, we assume she's not into us and we move on. Then a week later you get the "why did you lead me on?" text.
That is why my question how do u know the difference between a guy like waiiting fo r the lady to make the move so he won't do it like most guys do or a guy who really does not like you so the reason he is not making the move
You hit the jackpot my guy women want everything given to them on a silver splatter
This is great. So much of this.
I guess you are, LegendarySir? (please forgive me for the name puns)
@kitty71 that's the type of situation I explained that leads to confusion. You don't really know if he's just waiting for you to make a move, or if he's simply not interested. You simply assume based on his actions, and most people don't enjoy putting effort and getting no results, so it's normal to assume they're not interested and just move on to someone else.
You are correct That is the situation that leads to confusion and Im going through this confusio on my own right now. Although there is a small sign the guy indeed is not interested (he blocked m e from Whatassp just 3 weeks after we had a enjoyable lunchdate and sex, go figure!! but did not give me any reason explanation or anything), rather than him waiting for me to make a move, is confusing and yes Im assuming things but Im afraid if i reach to him ( I haven't done it in 4 months since he kinda of ghosted me) he will tell me that he is no interested but then he stopped contacting me with no explanaton and out of the blue. I dont know what went wrong if things were going good between us, even our last date that included sex and we had a nice lunch date, we laughed there, joked and he even in that date share with me a photo of his family, he told me about a personal future project he has in marketing some honey with his name on it and wanted even my feedback on it. I even invited him to the lunch as it was a pending belated bday lunch for him I owed him.
@kitty71 just move on, he's not interested, and it's also possible that all he wanted was sex. No need to keep troubling yourself with someone that doesn't care about you. It sucks, but it's time to forget and move on.
You know what is worse for me? That It was my first guy for everything and it call came when I was already in my almsot late 40´s I never had men exprience befor when I was younger not in my 20´or 30 or early 40´s. I never dated or had boyfriend or any of that I was a virgin until last year with this guy.Also another sad part is this guy Is the best best friend of my male cousin they had been friends for like 26 years, that iws why I met this guy.
I mean he never meant to develop anything serious with me he never like the drama or conflicts of a relationship and he told me once that what he liked is we could see each other from time to time casually yes sex..., nothing formal, and I never said I disagree on that
@zeineboyy of 40 what?
So you held your virginity in for 40 years just to give it away to someone who doesn't even care about you SMH 😔
@zeineboyy Well I never dated or had boyfriend when I was younger like to loose it back then anyway. I was a shy lady guys never pursued me or went after me I never experienced the dating phase of my life when I was much younger. I fetl attracted to my first guy ever when i was 45 so all happened after that age anyway
Kitty thats probably because you never showed interest in the first place guys aren't gonna approach or persue women who don't seem interested. Aka choosing signals I'm 18 and I've always been introverted so I understand the struggles but ya gotta try and show interest. by looking at him or just saying hi.
@zeineboyy looking at him or saying Hi to whom?
A guy your interested in weather it be on the streets or anywhere.I'm a be real with you a guy looks at youth in a women and fertility so your options are very low and your probably not gonna be able to give. birth
@zeineboyy Duhh obvious at my age kids and marriage is not my cup of tea anymore. I better then remain celibate single and daeless what it remains of my life then
@zeineboyy So what di du think I was a bit of happy when I found or at least met a guy around my age who was single nad available and this guy was the first guy I really felt attracted with, had my several first make out sessions, even had sex
Kitty I think you know this but a 20 year old girl is at peek attractiveness every year after that it gets worseFor a guy it's the opposite in he's 20 he's undesirable because his lack of resources and every year after that he gains resources and becomes more attractive that's why a 40 year old guy can easily get a 20 year old girl.So why would a guy committee to a 40 year old girl when he has all these opportunities to get with hot 20 year old girls.
@zeineboyy Geez thanks for your positive vibes to me. But is ok imused to be single and lets say celibate my whole life and I will remainlike that always
Stay happy and have a good life😊✌
@zeineboyy ROTFL, please. Both girls and guys date at any age. @kitty71 has nothing to worry about. There’s a guy out there for her, I’d she chooses to find him.
This is just pathetic
Your comment is really pathetic
How is that pathetic? Why would I want a man then? Just because I need a friend who also has a d*? I am sure you want a woman for other things than just sex... ot just someone you wnat to talk to. You want someone that compliments you, so you together are better than alone. Taking risks is related to testosterone. So yes, that is more of a. manly quality. I didn't even say that I ezpect the man to do all the work, i just said that in a relationship it can't be always 50/50 give and take, so. someone will always do. more work. And i said I would prefer the man the be that one. How is it pathetoc to have a preference and explain why you have it?
There's really no problem with this it helps men that would happen to be nervous to pursue such an amazing woman for fear of denial
@Reaperabove I’ve pursued super confident guys as well. Shy guys appreciate it because they’re too shy to make a move, and confident guys appreciate it because it’s not something they’d really expect. I’ve dated guys that are way out of my league simply because I was bold enough to pursue them and they thought that was like a completely new experience for them.
Well me personally I've went after one popular chick didn't work out so well.
@Reaperabove well that’s cause girls are used to being pursued, especially popular ones.
I tried that but still denied. Doesn't help I was shy as hell back then.
You see it isn't that easy for some and perhaps they don't know that person for as long they'd like to form their answer. If that person is wise he/she will know that person first.
@Reaperabove I don't mean deep like just enough like to hang out. If a person feels like they have absolutely no connection or enough in common then it is I don't think this will work out. The person has to be at least someone you'd want to be friends with if it wasn't even a romantic situation.
Ah I see well makes sense.
Pretty much means no girl has ever been into me LOL, I live a troubled life
If she plays hard to get he should move on tho.