Ok... You need to understand that this is your decision. You should absolutely talk with your boyfriend, he should be included. But at the end of the day, if you are not wanting to have a baby right now, this is your choice. Don't let him pressure you into anything you're not comfortable with. That's the most important thing.
Second, personally I think you make some sound points. If you aren't even dating, and really don't know what your relationship will be like (or if you'll still have one) 5 years from now, 12 years from now, 20 years from now...
If that's not a big deal to you, then no problem, but it sounds like it is. The financial consideration is HUGE. the last thing you want is to feel like you can't provide all you would lie to provide to your child. That would be constant heartbreak, and lead to your child not being able to have the happy, stress-free childhood you'd want to give them.
Im inclined to think you're leaning towards not keeping it from all that you've said. If that's the case, just definitely don't let him pressure you. I don't know if you're the assertive type or the pushover type. But this is an issue on which you have to be assertive, once you figure out for sure what you want to do. If you're not sure, that's different.
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