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Why do you think dominant/masculine men do better with submissive women than dominant women? (Page 2)
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Submissivness is sexy and feminine, dominant masculine women have always been a turn off to me
That's fair, your preference
Well, opposites attract. But I can convert even dominant guys into submissive.
and for us guys who are already submissive, how might we find women such as yourself?
If he really is dominant I doubt that.
@SomeGuyCalledTom I usually meet guys at the gym, or sometimes at college.
@TallJanne I converted a guy who was dominant with all of his previous girlfriends, until he met me ;)
Do you give off dominant vibes in social settings? Or is it something that's kinda hiding under the surface? We need like a field manual for how to spot a dominant girl haha
He wasn't that dominant then. Not trying to take credit off you. It's just really dominant men don't let us dominate them.
@SomeGuyCalledTom I suppose I have lots of dominant vibes ;)
@TallJanne He had four girlfriends before me, and he was dominant with all of them, but then I came, and I turned him into submissive guy, he liked it, and I'm sure I can convert any guy 馃槇
I am sure you couldn't convert my boyfriend.
But tell me what do you mean by dominant? You say and he obeys? I am 100% sure many guys would never do that.
Have we talked before?
@TallJanne Why would I want to steal your boyfriend? I have mine ;)
But if I wanted to, I could convert him.
By dominant I mean sexually dominant, but yeah, lots of guys even obey when I tell them too (usually those guys who were already submissive).
@ThisIsMyOpinion I think we have.
Did we talked about muay thai not long ago?
@ThisIsMyOpinion Yes we did, it was a very interesting conversation :)
I knew it was you xD
@ThisIsMyOpinion Yeah, you're like Nostradamus :D
I know him, you couldn't make him sexually submissive.
@TallJanne You know him, but you don't know me, yes I could, he just never met a girl like me before ;)
Doens't really matter who you are. I know how he is.
@TallJanne Oh it matters a lot, I would totally dominate him ;)
I have no idea if you would dominate him or not. But I do agree that it depends on the person. It's like saying you could be dominated. Just not who you are right?
@ThisIsMyOpinion You know her boyfriend personally?
I don't even know her xD no idea who her boyfriend is.
It's just how things work. It really depends on individual personality. Some men love to be dominated, some men hate. Some women love to be dominated, some women hate. Can't make someone who really hates it like it.
@ThisIsMyOpinion I know, but I have my ways of making them love it ;)
Do you think anyone could make you like to submit? Like the feeling and the situation itself?
Works the same with other purely dominant people like you.
@ThisIsMyOpinion Well, I like to think that my level of dominance is higher than most people :P
Maybe it is I do not doubt that xD
Yes of course cuz a dominant male versus a dominant female can cause conflict
dominant girls should seek submissive guys and vice versa.
Sure you know what you want. But you dont really know what you want
Care to explain?
What does it mean being a dominant woman?
Being a dominant person in general means you tend to be the leader in social situations, far more assertive than more passive or submissive people, probably have very strong opinions and are not afraid to express them, more direct than most people in how you express yourself, probably come across as very confident if not arrogant sometimes. You have a presence when you walk into a room or when you speak. Even body language is probably different between dominant and passive people.
One of the easiest ways to tell who is dominant is to look at how they interact in a social setting. That is the only way, actually lol Again, dominant people lead socially, people who are more submissive or passive usually look to the dominant friend/associate to make decisions in groups, to determine topics of conversation and more or less guide the flow of things. I would say I didn't even really view myself as dominant when I was younger until I started questioning it and my friends were all like, you're definitely dominant girl how the hell is this even a question? It doesn't feel like dominance to me most of the time. It just feels like filling the space that other people aren't comfortable filling or expressing myself because I want to be understood or heard, speaking up because I don't like what's being said or done. I do like to have my way, but I think recognizing how easily I dominate situations has caused me to try to make space for other people to weigh in on things more. I'm not perfect at it but I do try.
I think dominance can mean two different things: assertive or imposing.
Dominant people can also be more prone to conflict because we are often more assertive about our strong opinions.
Examples of differing behaviors between my submissive friends and myself:
- one friend took months to tell her boyfriend her opinion on a very important issue in their relationship. she struggles with speaking up for herself in general even on small issues. I always speak up for myself and my opinion is given freely whenever I think you need to hear it, especially on important things in a relationship.
- one friend gets really anxious whenever she needs to confront an issue, even if its something that seems small to me. I'm pretty confident in handling conflict for the most part. Really intense conflict may make me nervous but I understand that it still has to be done and am willing to do it sooner than later.
- one friend prefers to listen, almost completely, rather than actually participate in conversations. I'm more of an active participant - love to talk and I challenge myself to listen, but I prefer to listen actively, not passively. Active listening to me involves asking questions, engaging with points made. Passive listening is sitting there and just listening for the most part.
-one friend will let her boyfriend make most decisions. I like there to be even decision making. If I have to be the one deciding then so be it, but I couldnt give all deciding power to someone else.
-one friend will accept rude comments from her boyfriend. self esteem is likely an issue here, but its common with submissive people I've known. she may blame herself if he is disrespectful. If you're disrespectful to me, I will immediately tell you that youve crossed a line and I won't accept that. I'll try to understand whats driving the comment, but I won't blame myself automatically. And I'm far more likely to argue back.
- in situations where we are discussing ideas, politics, philosophy, in reading groups, classes, etc. I am far more likely to raise my hand, give an opinion freely, banter with a professor in the middle of class, etc. There's a calm and confidence in speaking publicly that my more submissive friends struggle with
- I argue a lot. lol
Lol well you can look at that way but the reality is that most social settings rely on dominant people. A bunch of passive or submissive people together will result in someone being forced into a dominant role at some point most likely
Do you think that two assertive persons cannot coexist well?
Opposites attract may be.
People are attracted to what cancels them out.
Pretty sure it鈥檚 the same in the opposite
I am sub and I wanna be Soave for pretty girls.
i think you'd make a great lesbian
I feel your pain.
horses scare easily