I don't want to go too in depth about it, but basically the headache of it all was that she had this tendency of just shutting down. She never made any kind of improvement, rarely communicated anything to me about... anything, it turned out that she wasn't even interested in having any kind of non-committed romantic anything. I didn't take the hint, unfortunately, and it quickly became that she resented me for violating boundaries that she never really all that clear about with me.
Well they know they have a problem and are trying to solve it. I see nothing wrong with this. A lot better than having issues and doing nothing about it.
Yes. However, if she kept refusing to listen to her therapist or came to me claiming that her therapist had told her that the best thing for her would be if she left me, BYE, BITCHY McBITCH-FACE!
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Most millennials and gen z's can agree that therapy is totally okay. I fall under this category. If that's all it takes to break it off, you shouldn't have dated them in the first place
If you are going to judge someone for being in therapy, who's trying to better themselves and their mind, then you are shallow, and they would be better off not dating you. ("you" being used as a person placeholder, not saying - you - the OP)
I'd rather them be in therapy and be mentally healthy then suffer without it.
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Yeah, Im in therapy for depression too. As long as they're not like violent or a pedophile it's no big deal, if it's for mental illnesses/disorders/trauma/general emotional and mental health reasons then it's absolutely fine
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I don't want to go too in depth about it, but basically the headache of it all was that she had this tendency of just shutting down. She never made any kind of improvement, rarely communicated anything to me about... anything, it turned out that she wasn't even interested in having any kind of non-committed romantic anything. I didn't take the hint, unfortunately, and it quickly became that she resented me for violating boundaries that she never really all that clear about with me.
Well they know they have a problem and are trying to solve it. I see nothing wrong with this. A lot better than having issues and doing nothing about it.
Yes. However, if she kept refusing to listen to her therapist or came to me claiming that her therapist had told her that the best thing for her would be if she left me, BYE, BITCHY McBITCH-FACE!
Most millennials and gen z's can agree that therapy is totally okay. I fall under this category. If that's all it takes to break it off, you shouldn't have dated them in the first place
If you are going to judge someone for being in therapy, who's trying to better themselves and their mind, then you are shallow, and they would be better off not dating you. ("you" being used as a person placeholder, not saying - you - the OP)
I'd rather them be in therapy and be mentally healthy then suffer without it.
Yeah, Im in therapy for depression too. As long as they're not like violent or a pedophile it's no big deal, if it's for mental illnesses/disorders/trauma/general emotional and mental health reasons then it's absolutely fine
What decade do you think this is the 1960's? Half of America has probably seen a therapist at some point in their lives in this day and age.
It will be little creepy. But if they really care for you, it will be the most successful relationship.
Yeah probably. Just means they've got a problem and they're working towards solving it. Can't really fault them for that.
Propably i would be an hypocrite to refuse because of
Yeah I go there too but because my mom makes me to get out of my shyness
No, but I would consider dating someone who had successfully completed therapy.
Of course. Its just a sign of a complex mind, which is hot.
Yes, therapy does not mean you are crazy and it feels amazing to me to support someone who is going through tough times.
Yeah, that doesn't change them, in fact I'd be proud of them for acknowledging that they have a problem and working to fix it
Yes doesn't matter I love them for who they are not whatever problems they have
yeah i would it shows they're working on their problems trying to better themselves
Sure , everyone needs to help in life , even the Pope 😄
Yeah, no problem, people in therapy need in fact some extra help. My ex had been there even