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Why did he make me pay for drinks on our first date? (Page 3)
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Feminism has really muddied the waters. but I tend to agree if he asked you out he should have paid, or alternate rounds or at min pay for himself
Why is not the question. You didn't enjoy his company. Nothing else matters.
I agree with YOU. Dunno why he did that, that having been said, women put men through this ALL the time.. Doesn't make what he did right though, he should have paid for him self at least.
Dunno why all and you cam out all caps sorry bout that.
Alcohol can mess you up. But he could have been lying, just not a gentleman or wasn’t feeling you either, which is why he did not offer to pay.
Either way, avoid this guy like the plague.
I would guess that he dated one too many food whores and decided to get even. You were the unfortunate victim.
Yours is the only intelligent answer I've read on this post.
im not convinced he is from a well to do family but made it seem that way.
Some men are like that. He’s not as bad as the man that got women to go to expensive restaurants and ditched them with the bill... lol
He has felonies now. :)
Testing you or had no money
Also he probably just doesn’t like her.
@backintown Yes weird because he keeps messaging me but not as much 😂
Well why don’t you have some self respect and block his ass.
Personally I think deep down you like him more and are intrigued about what he did. It made him stand out. He’s a punk and it’s turning you on.
This is a sad, disgusting feminine quirk. Typical nice guy vs asshole paradox and you are in your 30s and should fucking know better
And don’t tell me that you “don’t like him”. If that was true you wouldn’t waste time posting this on GaG.
@backintown I wonder if you realise what an a**hole you sound !
@pierre7i it’s the ugly truth. I’ve had plenty of people day the same or worse when I asked for advice on here.
But she admits that she is still talking to him. Why? Why give him the time of day after that incident?
@backintown because I want to tell him that first impressions count and he made a very bad one and to say take this as advice for your next conquest. That is all and yes he is not my type at all so who cares.
@backintown I’m not shocked why he’s single at 39.. if he carries on behaving as he does he will be single forever and still on that dating site. I’m actually 28 and not a gold digger at all not that I should have to say this but I can pay for myself I have a good enough salary but it’s principle.. he has zero manners and idea how to deal with a lady end of !
Yeah but why do you still care about his well being? If he hasn’t figured it out by now he will never figure it out.
I’m close to his age but I have never done this to any girl. The only time was when I was 26 and I honesty forgot my wallet but still had 20 bucks in my pocket. A girl had to cover ten bucks after I spent the first 20 on a cover charge and drinks. I will never forget the look she gave me.
Anyway I have to be VERY careful about young free loaders out there. I have been suckered a few times and I will never tolerate that bullshit again. But on a first date I always pay, no matter what. But never do dinner, just drinks on a first date.
So why do you care about this asshole? Most girls would just of blocked his number by now.
@backintown i have now haha x
Good! Don’t reward bad behavior. Sounds like he didn’t even apologize for anything.
I’ve been blocked after doing everything right and for no other reason that she didn’t like me.
If it's not a match then NEXT! This is why you date in the first place.
Personally I think people should pay for what they order on a date, but if someone wants to pay for the other's that's fine too i guess
What a jerk I'd probably have taken you some place better than a bar and I'd have paid for it no Plex about it
You only pay for your stuff when I think there not gonna be a second date.
also feminism killed chivalry probably didn't wanna impose.
Because he’s a catfish or has issues. Definitely best avoided!
Be sure to warn all of the other women you know so that can let their friends know too.
I don’t expect a man to pay either (I’ve always bought drinks minimum even if he’s refused to let me pay). My point was based on everything you said about him. Clearly he had no interest in you but yet still expected you to pay for him instead of paying for himself. That’s a bitter person or catfish right there.
He's a self thinking selfish fake back patting pig with no honour.
He isn't a gentleman , dont think about him and you'll get the best around you
Not sure, but at least you won't have to see him again
I think he wanted just a free drink
From what im reading
You should split 50/50
he should have paid for the drinks you should have just left and not paid
You should have walked out and left him with the bill.
Don’t see him again and find other guy who will pay you for drinks😂😬🙊