It would be a big task to undertake. Yes I would IF I really did care for her, that way I could help manage the depression any way I can, be a support, and be her strength in areas which she lacks.
How depressed is severely depressed? Suicidal? Then no. Sad all/most of the time? If she's seeking out therapy, sure. If she isn't coping with drugs, sure.
No because I don’t need negativity in my life. Yes, I feel sorry for them and I want them to to better but, I also don’t want them to drag me down with them.
I know. That's why I avoid to be with people that has it when they has it. also isolated myself when I have exhaustion depression due to to little sleep.
Not until they desire to seek help to overcome their depression. Their depression could rub off on me and others. She should tackle her depression and get it under control before dating.
I consider myself too ill, I have enough messed up emotions for 2x people already.
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I’m severely depressed and couldn’t cadre someone as depressed as me. That’s why I’m working on myself and trying to get better so someone would like me like I would like someone else.
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I would and I would make sure that they are going to get better
It would be a big task to undertake. Yes I would IF I really did care for her, that way I could help manage the depression any way I can, be a support, and be her strength in areas which she lacks.
How depressed is severely depressed?
Suicidal? Then no.
Sad all/most of the time? If she's seeking out therapy, sure. If she isn't coping with drugs, sure.
Yes, I would at least try. And I would find comfort in knowing I could relate.
No because I don’t need negativity in my life. Yes, I feel sorry for them and I want them to to better but, I also don’t want them to drag me down with them.
Some aren't negative. just passive and lacks own drive. also have a tendency to sleep and rest a lot.
@crazy8000 it’s still draining energy that I don’t want to be associated with, so no.
I know.
That's why I avoid to be with people that has it when they has it. also isolated myself when I have exhaustion depression due to to little sleep.
Ah I understand.
I do not have the energy.
No way. Last girlfriend had depression. Never again. Can be friends though.
That is basically a one way relationship. You’d be loving them, but they’d be in “with their thoughts” 24/7
I was in depression , one person trying to date me from a long and once we go for dinner ask me he only want sex.. I feel more bad
Not until they desire to seek help to overcome their depression. Their depression could rub off on me and others. She should tackle her depression and get it under control before dating.
depends how severe the depression is, otherwise it doesn't really bother me
I would befriend someone , so they had someone to talk to so they didn't feel alone with their troubles...
As someone who suffers from depression we want to be loved too. Unfortunately our brains dont let it show but we deserve to be loved tooo
I consider myself too ill,
I have enough messed up emotions for 2x people already.
I’m severely depressed and couldn’t cadre someone as depressed as me. That’s why I’m working on myself and trying to get better so someone would like me like I would like someone else.
As long as they have the drive to do better and to better themselves. Stagnation is a major turn off for me.
of course, I also have severe depression. We'd have something common and could be miserable together.
sorry, but that sounds very sad. Maybe you could help each other in different ways!
@fionaglenanne That's what I meant!
oh..
A buddy of mine had severe depression... he committed suicide last month leaving his beautiful wife and two little boys behind.
Yeah. I struggled with really bad depression before, so I'd be understanding and willing to help them however they need.
Yes, but only if I could help them and they could help me. That constant downer shit gets old and I don't want to live like that.