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I’m really attracted to my coworker but he has a girlfriend. What should I do? (Page 3)
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You girls should be asshamed that you keep away from single guys yet you wanna get to ones that are not single, or even married.
You should be reliased that many girls at the same time cannot share one handsome boy.
Stop keeping away from single guys for god's sake.
Know what this makes me think no wonder girls hate girls or girls don't trust girls they even judging each other before they even Know each other lol 😂
Let him go... Go looking for someone else. A lot less stress on you, it sounds like you are in his "friend zone"... Don't ruin things between yourself and a good friend. But, don't hang on with hopes and dreams for a relationship either. So... Yeah...
Stop going for taken men. Have some respect. If you were dating a man and loved him, would you appreciate it if a girl came and took him away?
Yawn
I wouldn’t like this guy. He’s making dates to spend time with you while having a girlfriend? And he’s been with her for 6 years and not willing to get married? Nah that’s major red flags.
just back off and respect the fact he's seeing someone instead of acting like a homewrecking whore
How about tell him to make up his mind and stop wasting everybody's time. Then back off because he has a gf? When he's single go for it.
If he is prepared to cheat on his current girlfriend he will cheat on you, should you get together. How will you feel when he is texting some other gullible girl?
Not likely if what you see in the other person would help you be the better version of yourself. No judgements no faults than what you get in a current relationship. why not? Sometimes we dont always get it right. Problem is usually the person is already taken. Life has a funny way of changing things up. Sometime with a little push and a little complementing, wooing if you will.
typical thot. try focusing on work. i hope you get cheated on later in life
Never met a thot that was a virgin. But of course I don’t expect simpletons to understand this situation.
In your defence, you probably didn’t read the comments so whatever
Nothing don't do anything. You have to let it all play out with out ur input if it's meant to be it will happen
Win the cheater over and then he'll cheat on you with the next girl. You'll deserve it.
I don’t care because I don’t have sex anyway. I feel like there’s no point asking because no one can relate because everyone these days think sex is essential in a relationship and assume this is about sex
Emotional relationship is cheating just as much as physical
Emotional infidelity often hurts worse than if it were a mere sexual infidelity. I don't know why you people these days don't understand this. It's just common sense
The point is he'll leave you for another girl too. It doesn't matter if you have sex with him. Sex is just one aspect of a relationship and one way to cheat. I don't see why you would accept guys that aren't loyal unless you just want attention for an ego boost or something sexual. It makes no sense to me. It's seems like a super low IQ knuckle dragging mentality.
eing he is Sadly Taken, Back off a Little. Stay Work friends. However, If his Stats Change, Rearrange... After Five, Then Jive. xx
Don't waste your time
I’d keep flirting and let him make the decision. But you don’t want to be the mistress or a transition date I’m guessing.
I guess u must remain friends ONLY.. it may seem that he is attracted to u dont be the reason he cheats on his girlfriend.. u wouldn't want ur guy cheating on u..
Don't sabotage his relationship. How would you like it if the tables were turned?
Do what you would want another woman to do in your place, if he was your partner.
Keep being friends with him, just don´t expect more.
Women who behave like side bitches then complain when he cheats on them haha.
I get that it probably feels good to have someone prefer you over their girlfriend but have some self respect.
WHO KNOWs that he prefers he. He's just lying to get in her pants 'cause he CAN. Narcissistic creep. You're just feeding his pathetic ego. Find someone unattached who you have RIGHT NOW potential with. Who isn't a cheater. Who's genuine. That's NOT this guy. Run away.
Re update: so you’re basically excusing your choice to be a side chick because he doesn’t want to marry her yet if he didn’t want to marry her he could simply end the relationship. Wake up
Let it go and move on. You telling me there's no other guy you could possibly get with, just happens to be the taken guy?
I think there's some sick "challenge" to these kinds of equations that I don't understand. I've been chatting with someone who's trying to embark on something with a married superior at work. THe person is married too. It's some bizarre fantasy if he has a wife and children and they have a spouse and neither of them think this is just plain wrong. They'll never be found out. It'll never affect their primary relationship. They shouldn't find out why they're pursuing something outside their marriage (are they unhappy, is it time for divorce... etc). Very shortsighted and careless.
I know why people do that. It's because they're not available that makes it enticing for them. Doing something wrong for wrong sake. That forbidden fruit. I just think it's all kinds of wrong.
tell him exactly how you feel and be blunt. say "are you interested in starting a new relationship"?