Would you be upset if your daughter brought a black man home, whom she is dating or going to marry?

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ElissaDido · Accepted Answer

Honestly I don't care about race as much as I care about culture and religion.

It he's a black tunisian /Moroccan etc I wouldn't mind it because we'd be culturally the same and there wouldn't be any cultural clash.

But honestly generally speaking I'd want my daughter and sons to marry someone from the Maghreb or perhaps a Middle Eastern, so we can relate culturally and religiously speaking.

Therefore I'd feel a bit reluctant if she brought anyone who isn't maghrébi or middle eastern not only non maghrébi blacks.

aWes0MeNeSs · Accepted Answer

No, not at all. As long as he treated her well and made her happy, that's all I would care about.

CallMeDave · Accepted Answer

I would care about whether he's a nice guy. I would care about whether he's a responsible person. I would care about whether he treats her well. I would not care about his race.

To me it's all about what kind of person someone is, not their race or nationality.

EmperorOfRussia · Accepted Answer

The only value a kid has to me is if they could continue my family's legacy. Since Blacks don't belong to my motherland and have nothing in common with my family, if my kids choose a Black partner in the future I'd see this as an act of renegation and disown them.

Nastyuska · Answer

I'm from Russia. My boyfriend is black. My parents were surprised by my choice, but eventually accepted it. Mother very warmly to them applies and constantly says him that wants grandchildren, ha ha:) I think loving parents will accept any choice daughters.

EABsTUQ · Answer

It seems to me after reading most of the post that the men are more racist. I suppose that says a lot. Some are probably from certain places in the world where they are concerned with keeping their family legacies going and that is understandable but I felt like this mostly was about culture and not skin color at all. There is plenty of racism going on here, that made me feel like I am an animal or something and what made me most sad was The Asker. My best friend is Hispanic.

Aethereal · Answer

No I wouldn't be upset if he was a good guy, she loves him, and they are serious about each other. Having a problem with that just because he's black would make me racist.

My mother (Eastern European) dated and married my father (West African). Her parents weren't thrilled, but they learned to deal with it. My relationship with my grandmother (when she was still alive) was very good, and she was even hoping I'd find a girl from her country to date/marry.

AynonOMouse · Answer

They would already know that being with a Black person means they are no longer welcome in my home. They would know that ahead of time before they ever started to date anyone. Actually even when they were elementary school age they would know it would be unacceptable to have one as a friend too.

Liz_thorne · Answer

As long as he is an honest and kind man that treats her with compassion and love I would be happy for her.

WPFS_r6 · Answer

Well, yes. It's nothing personal or "purely racist" per se, though.

Hurlyburly · Answer

I wouldn't be if he's a nice person. I don't know why it should matter whether he's black, white, yellow or pink.

Dave-from-Illinois · Answer

I don't have a daughter but would not be upset. If he is a great guy and is good to my daughter then why not? What does skin color have to do with anything?

Fuentes · Answer

Whites can't complain about the mixture yalls aunt sisters raped the Neanderthal blood into my black side then made us take your european names thats why not all blacks are tall and muscular for example Shaquille o'neal now that man has pure mandingo genes the rest of us already are tainted with euro blood so I don't know why y'all would have a issue with interracial but im Blaxican and we the besssst

saeyamazaki · Answer

I wouldn't be upset. I'd be happy she found someone she likes. There's nothing wrong with dating someone from a different race :) If she's happy with him then let her be happy.

Texaskid1 · Answer

White girls gets black guy just to get back at daddy. Black guy gets white girl because in black American sub - subculture white women are seen as a prize. There is no love there.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

In general: not at all concerned... because of his skin genetics. However: if the man is from Nigeria, Ivory Coast or such, I'll properly check him up!

soleil2666 · Answer

Yeah, if she could find a matching guy. But then I don't think I'd piss her off enough growing up to stick it up to me - good fathers think of who their daughter would marry long before she gets there (and help those guys be around her).

Phoenix98 · Answer

Why would I care? As long as he's a good man, not a criminal or deviant and he treats her well, I don't see the problem.

Jjpayne · Answer

I've grown accustomed to the idea, there is a couple in my church like that. It's not wrong.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, if it was serious enough that they planned to have kids and stuff. Not only daughter though, son too.

pigoat · Answer

a lot of people in my family date black men and they always talk shit behind the black man's back lmao

GreenGold1992 · Answer

Well I wouldn't be particularly thrilled about it, but as long as he treats her right, then her happiness is all that matters to me.

PrettyRegular · Answer

Blacks are kinda cool, but I don't think I'd be trilled, if my daughter would date a black guy. Someone tanned like Asian or Latino would be better, if she'd be into exotic guys.

Pipeliner87 · Answer

I would, depends on the guy too. If it was some black Gheto black man then I would be like what the hell does my smart daughter see in this drug dealing thug.

Lyndsielee666 · Answer

Nope. As long as he’s good to her and she’s good to him why would I be mad?

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

She'd never be allowed to bring it inside my house. And she would be dead to me from that moment on.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah. As long as their not disgusting. They should have nice manners as well and talk normally. Have somewhat good grooming and kept up with hygiene.  Otherwise it bothers me.

Anonymous · Answer

It's not preferred, I do not want mixed grandchildren.

Anonymous · Answer

No, I wouldn’t care. As long as dude is respectful and decent I have no problem with it.

esotericstory · Answer

Yes. Its too extreme for me.

Anonymous · Answer

A little bit, but I understand the curiosity of the BBC. I've wondered about that myself.

Anonymous · Answer

No why would that be an issue? I'd care more about the kind of person he is.

Gsm24diecast · Answer

Can’t have children so no, and race has nothing to do with being a person, a human is a human.

Anonymous · Answer

I generally like any kind of human as long as they are nice. A wonderfully positive arab/asian/etc. is fine as long as they aren't involved with gangs and drugs you know. Diversity is the future and I just want my little girl to be happy.

fauchelevent · Answer

That wouldn't upset me.

Anonymous · Answer

No, why would I be upset? I am not racist.

Iron_Man · Answer

I won't allow that

LonewolfMeme · Answer

no, i wouldn't care

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Absolutely! Just as much as any other man though..

Hunter7754 · Answer

No because I'm not a racist prick.

Liam_Hayden · Answer

Irrelevant. Character is what matters.

admles · Answer

Not in the slightest.

AmourHoney · Answer

No I wouldn’t.

lofii · Answer

If that mf is disrespectful and ill mannered yeah

Wowgirl30q · Answer

Nope

Anonymous · Answer

Umm, no?

Smegskull · Answer

Huh?

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