Would you be upset if your daughter brought a black man home, whom she is dating or going to marry?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

[ElissaDido]

Honestly I don't care about race as much as I care about culture and religion.

It he's a black tunisian /Moroccan etc I wouldn't mind it because we'd be culturally the same and there wouldn't be any cultural clash.

I wouldn't mind a black Maghrébi

But honestly generally speaking I'd want my daughter and sons to marry someone from the Maghreb or perhaps a Middle Eastern, so we can relate culturally and religiously speaking.

Therefore I'd feel a bit reluctant if she brought anyone who isn't maghrébi or middle eastern not only non maghrébi blacks.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Yeah. Bring one to your mom and dad. I love to see their reaction.

[ElissaDido]

A black Maghrébi?
My grandpa's sister is married to a black Tunisian and nobody cares, everyone loves him...

[aWes0MeNeSs]

No, not at all. As long as he treated her well and made her happy, that's all I would care about.

[CallMeDave]

I would care about whether he's a nice guy. I would care about whether he's a responsible person. I would care about whether he treats her well. I would not care about his race.

To me it's all about what kind of person someone is, not their race or nationality.

[EmperorOfRussia]

The only value a kid has to me is if they could continue my family's legacy. Since Blacks don't belong to my motherland and have nothing in common with my family, if my kids choose a Black partner in the future I'd see this as an act of renegation and disown them.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

This generation of people have no pride.

[Nastyuska]

I'm from Russia. My boyfriend is black. My parents were surprised by my choice, but eventually accepted it. Mother very warmly to them applies and constantly says him that wants grandchildren, ha ha:) I think loving parents will accept any choice daughters.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Russians are known to be some racists as hell. Your parents low-key are angry with you.

[Nastyuska]

Mom is definitely happy with my choice. She says we're a beautiful couple and we fit together. Not all Russians are racists.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Women usually tend to be different then men. You're dad is socially embarrassed and angry. I have had enough experiences with Russians to know how they typically are.

[Nastyuska]

Why should he be angry? He can see I'm happy.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

For one, you can bring your dad a black grandson or daughter damaging his legacy and blood-line.

#2: You are bringing someone of a totally different culture and race that is alien to yours. Family won't mix well.

#3: And like I said it's a known fact, Russians like the Chinese are openly racists especially against blacks.

[Nastyuska]

#1: I don't think my black baby won't be loved by my parents. What difference does it make what color or gender the baby will be? It doesn't matter. So think I, my boyfriend, and my parents. We have no problem with that :)

#2: Cultural differences cement our relationship. We learn every day something new about each other. It is very interesting. Parents understand that.

#3: I'm Russian and have been in a relationship with a black guy for over a year. And during this time there was no condemnation about other people. It doesn't matter. My girlfriend married a black guy, and there was no problem either. Old people have racism, but young people in Russia are not racists.

[Osborne775]

you two are so cute together

[TomBham]

H-C-G, you talking about steriotipical movie Russian, not real one.

These days Russian patients are more accepting, my parents not exception too and they are hard core Russians.

Just times change and someone like me I lived most of my life in UK, so do not see any issues with skin colour...

[Dave-from-Illinois]

Hispanic-Cool-Guy, would you be upset if your daughter brought a black man home that she is dating?

[saeyamazaki]

You guys are so cute !!

[Fuentes]

That's a Africab he ain't black come to the US n get some Blaxican D the real black not them counterfeit Africans

[EABsTUQ]

It seems to me after reading most of the post that the men are more racist. I suppose that says a lot. Some are probably from certain places in the world where they are concerned with keeping their family legacies going and that is understandable but I felt like this mostly was about culture and not skin color at all. There is plenty of racism going on here, that made me feel like I am an animal or something and what made me most sad was The Asker. My best friend is Hispanic.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Men with balls and pride desire to preserve their legacy, not have it washed away. It has nothing do with racism but rather family pride and legacy.

[EABsTUQ]

I stated that already but don't sit here and act like everything everyone said was about that. Some people called black people "it" as to say we aren't even humans. What is the point of even using "black men" if you wanted to simple ask a question about preserving legacy. I'm sure plenty of non-Hispanics feel the same about you but you made it about black people.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Its because I just happened to see the picture so I just posted it.

[Aethereal]

No I wouldn't be upset if he was a good guy, she loves him, and they are serious about each other. Having a problem with that just because he's black would make me racist.

My mother (Eastern European) dated and married my father (West African). Her parents weren't thrilled, but they learned to deal with it. My relationship with my grandmother (when she was still alive) was very good, and she was even hoping I'd find a girl from her country to date/marry.

[Hurlyburly]

I wouldn't be if he's a nice person. I don't know why it should matter whether he's black, white, yellow or pink.

[AynonOMouse]

They would already know that being with a Black person means they are no longer welcome in my home. They would know that ahead of time before they ever started to date anyone. Actually even when they were elementary school age they would know it would be unacceptable to have one as a friend too.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Ouch. Why not friend though?

[AynonOMouse]

There are always problems with them. Anytime things don't go their way they will complain and claim it is because of race. And they will frequently say negative things about Whites.
I've had plenty of bad experiences with Black people growing up, in school, and in the work force. I don't want anything to do with them and any kids or friends I have will know that too.

[EABsTUQ]

You're talking about culture not skin color.

[Liz_thorne]

As long as he is an honest and kind man that treats her with compassion and love I would be happy for her.

[WPFS_r6]

Well, yes.
It's nothing personal or "purely racist" per se, though.

[EABsTUQ]

So you'd be upset over skin? I mean are we talking about skin or are we talking about culture

[WPFS_r6]

@EABsTUQ "Skin" (and the differences that comes with that) and also culture, yeah.

[Dave-from-Illinois]

I don't have a daughter but would not be upset. If he is a great guy and is good to my daughter then why not? What does skin color have to do with anything?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

It matters. Ethnicity matters. Legacy matters. Physical appearance matters.

None which will continue, and as a man you should have pride to continue your legacy through someone who will look like you.

[Dave-from-Illinois]

My legacy is humanity and not some skin color. It's a shame you think in terms of race. It's sad. I remember you quoting bible before as you seem to like to ask people's opinions and then argue with them because their opinion differs from yours. One question since you believe the bible: Did not Jesus break down the middle wall of partition between us (Jew and Gentile)? Did not Paul say that is no more Jew, Greek, and so on because Christ is now all and in all? Did he not say we are part of his body? Can you quote Paul ever saying that they need to preserve skin color? It's a shame you cannot see what it is you are saying?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

"Your legacy is humanity"? Something someone with a cuck personality will say.

And in context of you what said about being "one" in Christ is talking about a spiritual matter.

I'm talking about legacy on earth and your descendants.

[Dave-from-Illinois]

Sort of weird but that's your choice. Keep your family only Hispanic then and be proud of that then but don't expect others to give two shits.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

LMBO... What a shame.

[Dave-from-Illinois]

I see you dodged the question about Paul. I see you are a racist by your comments. I see you are a complete ass who is full of hate for other people's choices of skin color.
I’m just going to block you as you only seem to like to be divisive and now a bit racist as I do not want to see your anti-gay and anti-black “opinions” anymore. You are the reason why people shoot others out of racial hate. You only seem to post your questions to slam those who do not see it your way. You love debates that tell me you are an angry person who probably has no clue of how angry "you" actually are. If a person does not want to marry a different skin color is their choice but I would never “pretend” to ask for an opinion as a way to bring on a debate. Shame on you! Maybe you would see the racism in your question if a white man or lady asked, “Would you allow a Hispanic man/woman date your white daughter/son?” This is it for me as you are a joke and a bad one at that!

[Fuentes]

Whites can't complain about the mixture yalls aunt sisters raped the Neanderthal blood into my black side then made us take your european names thats why not all blacks are tall and muscular for example Shaquille o'neal now that man has pure mandingo genes the rest of us already are tainted with euro blood so I don't know why y'all would have a issue with interracial but im Blaxican and we the besssst

[saeyamazaki]

I wouldn't be upset. I'd be happy she found someone she likes. There's nothing wrong with dating someone from a different race :) If she's happy with him then let her be happy.

[Texaskid1]

White girls gets black guy just to get back at daddy. Black guy gets white girl because in black American sub - subculture white women are seen as a prize. There is no love there.

[EABsTUQ]

Lmao it's 2019 bro. I get you're 41 but still. White people are immersed in black culture. There is love there. You're not a white girl or a black guy so how would you know.

[Texaskid1]

@EABsTUQ Because in my 42 years I have seen it a million times.

[andreasderjuengere]

In general: not at all concerned... because of his skin genetics.
However: if the man is from Nigeria, Ivory Coast or such, I'll properly check him up!

[soleil2666]

Yeah, if she could find a matching guy. But then I don't think I'd piss her off enough growing up to stick it up to me - good fathers think of who their daughter would marry long before she gets there (and help those guys be around her).

[Phoenix98]

Why would I care? As long as he's a good man, not a criminal or deviant and he treats her well, I don't see the problem.

[Jjpayne]

I've grown accustomed to the idea, there is a couple in my church like that. It's not wrong.

[pigoat]

a lot of people in my family date black men and they always talk shit behind the black man's back lmao

[Anonymous]

Yes, if it was serious enough that they planned to have kids and stuff. Not only daughter though, son too.

[EABsTUQ]

Because his skin is dark and or tan? Lol I just don't understand how skin matters that much to some people.

[GreenGold1992]

Well I wouldn't be particularly thrilled about it, but as long as he treats her right, then her happiness is all that matters to me.

[PrettyRegular]

Blacks are kinda cool, but I don't think I'd be trilled, if my daughter would date a black guy. Someone tanned like Asian or Latino would be better, if she'd be into exotic guys.

[Pipeliner87]

I would, depends on the guy too. If it was some black Gheto black man then I would be like what the hell does my smart daughter see in this drug dealing thug.