Single men over 40, would you rather be with a beautiful clueless girlfriend or a successful independent woman? (Page 3)
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When I'm over 40 it won't matter because I'll be too old to have sex.
Why on earth would anyone want a beautiful, clueless woman? I've dated one before. She couldn't hold a decent conversation with me about anything.. No thanks.
Well apparently some guys actually want that. It is all over this thread of answers. But I guess if you are an intelligent deep person you would like to engage in intellectual conversations. Makes sense.
See men over 40 are wealthy and will prefer the young clueless wild one..
That's a different way to look at it. You think so!
Yeah..
Men over 40.. Don't want an independent women..
The need of independent women ends after age of 30 because men by that time start earning enough to afford all her expenses..
If you are independent women..
You best shot is be a cougar..
And hunt down college and highs school boys..
Assumptions.
Successful, Independent Woman, please. Who is to say that is not Beautiful as well?
I think your analysis is as reliable as pissing in a wind tunnel and hitting your target. What the heck do you base this "theory" on... "it looks like... etc, etc"? Nonsense. Total nonsense.
It is mostly teens that are interested in clueless girls. I'd take an independent woman any day. Dont wanna be just some sugardaddy. Beauty comes from inside
'Beauty comes from inside' so obvious yet so difficult to see 🌹
Indeed! It is my way of seeing things..
Why can't the "successful independent" girl be beautiful?
I mean you're essentially implying that no beautiful girls can be smart or financially successful/independent. It's odd and not really true.
I a gree to your observation. It is unreasonable nor realistic exaggeration. Also it does not addre character and personality and implied that women who are in reality very diverse can be simply group to one or either classification. You are absolutely correct a successful womab can be beautiful but the dilemma I later explain in the discretion states 'even if she was beautiful' again exaggeration.
Thank you though I appreciate it 🌹
Men want feminine, cool, women. It's too much if she's successful, independent, headstrong. Because maybe a guy has a female boss they hate? Men don't t want someone else playing the role of what it's their job to be doing.
I see, it could very well be the case for some its true
Successful independent woman, is the sexiest and most desireable level. Yet your man scoping Dyme Thots in your car thinking he slick.
haha, I don't have a man but I guess it happens doesn't it. A light and funny way to express your point. It was refreshing to read thanks. Just for the record, I don't think all men do that, it just sounded funny to me.
Neither. I've done both. Surprisingly, the clueless turned out to be more bossy than the sidelined independent..
I actually have seen this behavior when dependent women become obsessed with controlling their man movements, relationships and money.. I think they want to secure themselves, so that fear manifest in a form of control and entitlement.
Not all though it is just that I understand what you mean by your comment.
In ways you are absolutely correct. What I've noticed from successful is an almost instant demand of entitlement. No facade, just straight up. The clueless just eventually get bullshit advice and move on assumptions I believe. Anyway neither.
Possibly, when I see a woman begin to act like this, I kick her lose like a spent shell casing.
Independent strong women are the place to rest my head as long as the balance is equal with gentle and sensual
good point
the successful independent woman, but I stopped dating after I broke up with my ex in 2001, we dated for 7 years but something went south,
that's a lot of years off your life.. I hope you are okay!
a little emotionally bruised but I've managed
Beautiful and clueless.
I am tired of the constant arguing, tug-of-war, competition, contrary nature, of "strong independent" women. Life is too short.
Because those women are often lacking in what men find most attractive in women... femininity
It might be the case for some true
It is definitely the case for many (perhaps most) of them, although most do not recognize it in themselves. I'm talking about behavior here, not looks. I think women today tend to forget about the importance of feminine behavior in male attraction.
A person's priorities in life are a clear indication of their mindset and personality, and that is a significant factor in their perceived femininity / masculinity and therefore their attractiveness to the opposite sex.
thank you for your insight 🌹
No problem. Thanks for listening.
Just out of curiosity, what makes you ask this question?
I guess out of mere curiosity from my end 🌹
I meanwhile interpret independent as ignorant, so I'd say it depends.
if she's independent she doesn't need you. there's no such thing as truly independent though.
"There is no such thing as truly independent though" I agree 👍
Hmmm a young hot POA
OR a worn out bitter, jaded feminist... tough choice. Lol
Has to be successful independent lady
I think it shows that you yourself got these qualities or at least ambition and confidence. Hope you find your match soon :)
Me too. Thank you
I like stupid chicks. 18-25. If i dating a chick older she has to make more money than me to deal with her or at least as much