Is it ageist and shallow if I refuse to date older men and I find them unnatractive? (Page 2)

Question

I was talking with a friend and I told her that I only date men who are 4years older to 3 years younger than me. Im now 22 and there is this creepy 31 years old man who kept hitting on me! He’s nice, good looking and financially stable but he’s too old for my taste and he keep telling me that I should give a try, that age is just a number and that an older man is soo much better for me. I was embarrassed for him, so I asked him to fuck off, in a harsh way so he would leave me alone. But my friend and my cousin told me that it was kind of rude, and that I shouldn’t reject him just because of his age! I told them that maybe he should’ve asked a woman his age, then they told me it’s natural for him to be attracted to me cause I’m young and pretty, but that it’s shallow for me to want a guy who’s also young and attractive! Wtf? Tbh I usually always get hit by men my age and I find them to be more charming and pleasuring to talk with than older men, but peoples keep telling me that I should find older men more interesting, but I don’t! Is it weird?

Anonymous · Answer

Of course not. Its just not what you're attracted to. Perfectly understandable

Anonymous · Answer

No, you can date people your own age or younger if you want. Everyone has their preferences as long as it's not a minor

RWRECK1 · Answer

maybe, unattractive men need love too and some are better than the attractive ones.

collegestudent96 · Answer

It’s a personal preferance

Gedaria · Answer

We all have different tastes...

Texaskid1 · Answer

Grab him by the pussy!!!

lucas262 · Answer

How many people googled ageist?

MannMitAntworten · Answer

Nope... you like what you like.

Anonymous · Answer

Date whoever you like.

GreenGold1992 · Answer

Nah, just a preference

mattyw97 · Answer

No u should have a choice

Anonymous · Answer

What do you consider "older"?

Djaay · Answer

Lmao...

Codywow · Answer

Simply put, no.

LuWe22 · Answer

No it is preference.

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