Girl they are worthless if they need money to give for you. That’s called bullshit you should be given a chance and your children are lucky to have you. If they handle fact you are single mother and stable they suck im sorry. Stay true to you and real man will come down for you.
Its just the way it is Almost every guy like 99% of them will run away since the moment u tell them u are a single mother There are multiple reasons for that and i dont blame this guys I understand it and i would do the same
Kids may take up vast quantities of resources, space, and intimate time; and disciplining kids that aren't yours can be difficult and problematic.
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I Wish I Knew... Girls Do The Same Thing, I Am A Single Father With Custody... One Was A Single Mother, But Because Of Her Daughter Being Grown, She Felt She Would Have To Be A Mother Again, Mine Were In Early Teens... So My Guess Is, They Feel Kids Are A Burden And Prevent Us From Having Fun At A Moments Notice, They Don’t Want To Help Raise Kids That Are Not Theirs...
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Losing a husband/bf to death is one thing, but, if you got divorced or he ran, when he found out you were pregnant (perfectly fine to do, but you're also allowed to make him pay child support), that's another story..
I don't want to be responsible for his kids, financially, or emotionally. They're not my kids!
Therefore, I won't date you, until they're at LEAST 18
I don't know if it the kids that bother guys. I think a lot of the time what bothers them is the idea that your ex (the kid's father) will be in the picture and most guys don't want to deal with that.
For instance I'd like to date a single mom but not for a serious love relationship. I personally don't want any kids, especially now. But to each it's own.
At 20 I can understand why, but at 37 I'm not sure it's a thing. Guys... sorry, men don't run away at that age. Are you trying to hook up with boys or men?
Most guys don't want all that baggage. I fell for a woman who is a single mom and she rejected me. Not all guys are like that. If I liked her enough that wouldn't stop me honestly.
because you're damaged goods and have other priorities. No need to ruin ourselves for a mental nutjob. Find a desperate pussy slaves to destroy. He will put up with any bullshit you have for him.
I won't add to whats been said. but Will say you have handled this better than I expect most women to. No spite or bitterness , Well done Conservative Pehtaq
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Girl they are worthless if they need money to give for you. That’s called bullshit you should be given a chance and your children are lucky to have you. If they handle fact you are single mother and stable they suck im sorry. Stay true to you and real man will come down for you.
Its just the way it is
Almost every guy like 99% of them will run away since the moment u tell them u are a single mother
There are multiple reasons for that and i dont blame this guys I understand it and i would do the same
Kids may take up vast quantities of resources, space, and intimate time; and disciplining kids that aren't yours can be difficult and problematic.
I Wish I Knew... Girls Do The Same Thing, I Am A Single Father With Custody... One Was A Single Mother, But Because Of Her Daughter Being Grown, She Felt She Would Have To Be A Mother Again, Mine Were In Early Teens...
So My Guess Is, They Feel Kids Are A Burden And Prevent Us From Having Fun At A Moments Notice, They Don’t Want To Help Raise Kids That Are Not Theirs...
Losing a husband/bf to death is one thing, but, if you got divorced or he ran, when he found out you were pregnant (perfectly fine to do, but you're also allowed to make him pay child support), that's another story..
I don't want to be responsible for his kids, financially, or emotionally. They're not my kids!
Therefore, I won't date you, until they're at LEAST 18
"But my kids want and need the love of a father."
Sounds to me like "We're staying together for the kids"
That doesn't work either.
I don't know if it the kids that bother guys. I think a lot of the time what bothers them is the idea that your ex (the kid's father) will be in the picture and most guys don't want to deal with that.
For instance I'd like to date a single mom but not for a serious love relationship. I personally don't want any kids, especially now. But to each it's own.
too much baggage and pressure and responsibility, some guys aren't ready for that.
I'm sorry
Stop going after guys who haven't had children of their own yet, maybe? Intuitively, single parents should date other single parents, no?
To be fair I think kids hate their stepfather which is why I personally wouldn't go there. And like it says in the Bible:
Mark 10:9
9 Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.”
New International Version (NIV)
They don't want to be responsible for someone else's kid. There's always been a lot of guys out there who think like that. 😥
They don't want to help be a dad to a child that isn't theirs biologically.
That is because maybe that is not their preference to date single mothers.
At 20 I can understand why, but at 37 I'm not sure it's a thing. Guys... sorry, men don't run away at that age. Are you trying to hook up with boys or men?
Most guys don't want all that baggage. I fell for a woman who is a single mom and she rejected me. Not all guys are like that. If I liked her enough that wouldn't stop me honestly.
She has done you a favour
because you're damaged goods and have other priorities. No need to ruin ourselves for a mental nutjob. Find a desperate pussy slaves to destroy. He will put up with any bullshit you have for him.
I won't add to whats been said. but Will say you have handled this better than I expect most women to. No spite or bitterness , Well done Conservative Pehtaq
Because, Us men are not designed to take care of someone elses child. We rather taking care of our own
Is that klingon on the end of your name? As for your question. Some men can't handle that, that's all..